Stephanie Vavron #114 Never mind being the man she needs, she needs to be the Mum her Son needs

[witchtwiccan71]

What's the best way to recover from the traumatic nature of trying to be catheterised 2x in short succession after bowel surgery? Asking for me I'm in bleeping agony and I wouldnt wish the pain on my sibling I can't stand it's that bad not doing a beefy and needing to post a sympathy tiktok or 5 for my hardship, I just want the pain to be less and that I can lift my youngest but can't for 6wks tbf he can climb himself but there's something special about a smooshy toddler hug

Ouch can’t give “much” advice, but hope you feel a lot better soon

 

[evie1975]

What's the best way to recover from the traumatic nature of trying to be catheterised 2x in short succession after bowel surgery? Asking for me I'm in bleeping agony and I wouldnt wish the pain on my sibling I can't stand it's that bad not doing a beefy and needing to post a sympathy tiktok or 5 for my hardship, I just want the pain to be less and that I can lift my youngest but can't for 6wks tbf he can climb himself but there's something special about a smooshy toddler hug

Hydrate to dilute your urine and pee in a warm bath (not ideal but it will help). Avoid coffee, tea, alcohol, carbonated drinks, and acidic juices (like orange or cranberry). Cold compress and erm lubricate your opening Speedy recovery doll

 

[Boppiebop]

Yer just a tart beefy and god disna protect thieves

 

[wits up]

I get what you’re saying, but tbh it’s doing its job, I’ve seen many people in the comments saying they had no idea vav was like that and unfollowed her, and I’ve not seen many supportive comments for vav either. So whilst it may be to us seasoned tattlers oldish news, it’s opened some newer people’s eyes, and that can’t be a bad thing.

This! Most of us on here have been for a while so are well versed with every new victim fan baws goes after. I'm not really comfortable with victim blaming either, Margaret was obviously behaving really unhinged but she faced court and took the consequence for that. We dont know what her back story is(im not defending her behaviour) and it's not right to start almost trying to justify how she was treated....theres no deserving or undeserving victims of Beefy flaps behaviour, she's a nasty, twisted vile piece of work and I for one am all in favour of Doreen going for her. Incidentally ive followed Doreen for a while, you're either very brave or very stupid to take her on, she'd eat vacant vav for breakfast

 

[Rolandtherat]

I do think it's good that doreen keeps going. We all moan when someone starts with outting vav then shuts down and that's the end of it. We have wanted someone who won't back down to her and her huns bullying ways. It seems to be working, plenty folk commenting.

 

[Boppiebop]

Summit really fishy going on here

 

[Peeltheavocado]

Hydrate to dilute your urine and pee in a warm bath (not ideal but it will help). Avoid coffee, tea, alcohol, carbonated drinks, and acidic juices (like orange or cranberry). Cold compress and erm lubricate your opening Speedy recovery doll

ALL of this!!

 

[Boppiebop]

So its a garnier pride ball there at ?

 

[LennyBriscoe]

I’ve just watched Doreen’s video on Margaret. Oh dear, the big reveal was a damp squib (but well done Doreen you managed to plug your book) I think Doreen needs to wind her neck in now, by all means make videos and argue with Vav and her flying monkeys but don’t take on someone else’s story when they ARE NOT squeaky clean themselves. Why does Margaret want to drag this all up again? If she had a breakdown (supposedly) because of it then why is she revisiting something that caused so much distress. I’m not convinced she wasn’t infact sacked. I can’t imagine that after her not losing her job for her conviction for stalking her ex partner and his girlfriend (I posted the newspaper screenshots further up), that her employer would have tolerated yet another incident of her using the internet to harass someone (not sticking up for Vav as she is the spawn of Satan) but if I had been convicted of stalking and harassment I would not be on the internet commenting on a strangers social media and making comedic videos and clap backs which could be perceived as harassment. Vav overreacted massively to the emojis but she was entitled to respond. I don’t think when Margaret left the emojis she was just commenting on some random, she knew who Vav was, she tried to take her on and she lost spectacularly. She put her career at risk knowing Vavs reputation for being a nasty piece of work and her penchant for contacting employers was well known long before then.

Also I’m surprised to read that Margaret has slagged off Tattle on Ashleigh Mcnabs videos when she spends her days commenting negatively on any video talking about Steph. She’s obsessed by Vav, if I was Vav I would be worried with Margaret’s past form

I don’t think you have to be squeaky clean to have someone tell your story though. Isn’t that what Steph goes for, skeletons in people’s closets? She goes for folk she can manipulate and blackmail. She’s nuts - she records everything, said herself she saves every message etc and just has to cause maximum impact. No matter what Margaret did, even considering speaking to her son over emojis is outrageous.

Yes she maybe had a right to respond but she didn’t have to. And there’s no way her response was proportionate to the emojis! I personally think regardless of what Margaret did, Steph’s actions were indefensible.

If the best that comes out of it is Steph is pissed off because someone uses her to sell their book then I guess it’s better than nothing. I hope Doreen doesn’t wind her neck in and maybe more people will ask her to speak up - I’ve seen Cedar Rose in her comments. It’s all unbelievable given how old they are and I too am glad my life is nothing like theirs…but it blows my mind how much Vavron has got away with over the years so I’m here for anyone who wants to emoji her, talk about her and definitely someone like Terri who will be the one who has induced the “look at my huge fake smile, I don’t care about anything but inwardly I completely regret posting that comment”

 

[NO4Reactor]

I don’t think Doreen is going to “wind her neck in” anytime soon. Plenty of people on here have been desperate for someone to talk about Steph and not back down, and then when they do, they have a problem with it? Vav would happily speak about people, harass them, call them, send her followers after them, get her family members to go after them, the list goes on. She only backs off because the person on the receiving end can’t cope anymore. Look at Cedar Rose.
Lots of people who dislike Vav are in other peoples also discussing Steph, not just Margaret. Or maybe I’ve missed something. You’ve already posted the article about her past for the second time. That’s ok if you don’t agree with what Margaret did, I don’t think it’s ok either. It looks like Margaret was punished by the law for what she did and held accountable. Steph has never been held accountable as far as I know. It must have been awful for HAHM when Steph and her mother became friends. That can destroy a person.

I see steph is using Bible verses in her captions, and reposting things about Christian’s when she doesn’t act anything like a Christian.
Anyway, nothing will stop people like Steph, she’ll just continue exploiting her son, treating people like crap and getting away with it. But eventually there will be consequences, she’s already lost friends irl. Her friendships are transactional. Many of us here have stable and loving family’s. Some of us successful careers. We don’t need to exploit our children on the internet or share every single part of our life online. And we can discuss things on here without arguing and calling each other silly names as well.

Apologies for posting the newspaper article twice, I wasn’t sure if the person I was replying too had seen them so uploaded to try and get my point across with an added paragraph to show how serious the crime impacted the victims and to stress why I think what Margaret did is awful.

 

[NO4Reactor]

I get what you’re saying, but tbh it’s doing its job, I’ve seen many people in the comments saying they had no idea vav was like that and unfollowed her, and I’ve not seen many supportive comments for vav either. So whilst it may be to us seasoned tattlers oldish news, it’s opened some newer people’s eyes, and that can’t be a bad thing.

Yes, good point. I sometimes forget we have several years of Vavs hideous behaviour behind us, yet others still don’t know what she has done. Hopefully more people will have their eyes opened by Doreen’s videos.

 

[witchtwiccan71]

Yes, good point. I sometimes forget we have several years of Vavs hideous behaviour behind us, yet others still don’t know what she has done. Hopefully more people will have their eyes opened by Doreen’s videos.

We’ve been around the block with vav, this isn’t our first rodeo, and rightfully we are sceptical, but the fact Doreen is doing what she’s doing and doesn’t seem to be quitting anytime soon is great, I mean for a start she got more comments on that video than vav gets on 3

 

[NO4Reactor]

I won’t comment anymore on my thoughts on Margaret, we all have our opinions on the matter and I can’t be arsed to keep on justifying mine. I’ve spent far too long on it today and to be honest I’m sick to death of the lot of them, not one of them has a clean spreadsheet. Doreen may be the one to expose Vav once and for all (if she doesn’t lose her bottle like everyone has before her). I haven’t looked at the comments on her video because quite frankly I’ve had enough of it, but from the posts here it sounds promising. Fingers crossed

 

[Rolandtherat]

Jesus thought that was nanas hand

 

[Shaker78]

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What's the best way to recover from the traumatic nature of trying to be catheterised 2x in short succession after bowel surgery? Asking for me I'm in bleeping agony and I wouldnt wish the pain on my sibling I can't stand it's that bad not doing a beefy and needing to post a sympathy tiktok or 5 for my hardship, I just want the pain to be less and that I can lift my youngest but can't for 6wks tbf he can climb himself but there's something special about a smooshy toddler hug

That sounds so painful. Sending you get well wishes

 

[Rolandtherat]

Always about men. Bet she thinks even the gay guy fancies her

 

[Rhoec]

I do think it's good that doreen keeps going. We all moan when someone starts with outting vav then shuts down and that's the end of it. We have wanted someone who won't back down to her and her huns bullying ways. It seems to be working, plenty folk commenting.

Totally agree

 

[Aitkens Rowie]

Summit really fishy going on here

I had pink salmon in my head when I saw the dress

 

[rogueapostrophe]

I had pink salmon in my head when I saw the dress

It's the colour of Aimee's peef (IYKYK)

 

[lottie5378]

Yer just a tart beefy and god disna protect thieves

When you filter yourself so much you look nothing like yourself when the majority laugh at you not with you