no judgment here…. I also have feelings for someone who is in a relationship. I am single. I am not proud of it and nothing has happened but I honestly feel like he’s the one for me. He is in a stale relationship too. I think people are scared to leave stale relationships for whatever reason. I’ve been there before and you have to just take the plunge. Does the other person have feelings for you do you know?100% this! Me and my partner get on ok but if there wasn't external factors we would have both called it a day a good while ago...
Now onto the next part.. started catching massive feels for someone else. Nothing has happened, but there are really strong.
Now this is where it gets even more messy, they are also in a relationship, one of my bff and also a female (never had the feels for another female before). Sparks have been seen by others so really don't know what to do in this situation.
My current partner, who really is amazing, but as I've stated there's absolutely nothing there. He's so safe and the comfortable option. But the feelings for my friend are absolutely next level. Like that intense I wish I could turn them off
I've not mentioned this to anyone, I've even made a new account on here as I've been inactive for a while, thought this would be a good place to come and get advice
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I know I need to take the plunge. If they don't have the feelings it's going to be so hard! We work together, they always refere to me as their "work wife". Everyone else at work can see it too, always making little jokes. Neither of us get offended, both laugh it off.
We do alot together out of work and even have trips booked together with mutual friends. They also mean alot to me on a friendship level to so its not the case of right ok see you later. As I've said the physical line has never been crossed. It's like a magnetic pull.
If you know the guy is in a stale relationship you must have some pretty deep conversations.
Yeah we’ve had deep conversations & he’s told me and his friends at work have also told me too. But he won’t leave as he’s worried about upsetting her and being the “bad guy” which I get as I was in a stale relationship years ago but life is too short! I think maybe take the plunge and see what she says? But you need to do something about your relationship too I guess