He’s awful. Why would you do that!?? He’s so controlling I feel.Yeah he's deleted it, just had a look and it isnt there
I think Derrina is indeed struggling with the ghost of Gemma. I think the ‘issue’ with being with a widow is knowing they wouldn’t have chosen you had it not been for the loss of their partner. To me, it’s obvious and just a fact and a part of life that would be the case when someone is sadly widowed? They menntioned before how hard it was for Derrina to live in a house of Gemma and Simon’s, how it wasn’t the ‘plan’ and was forced due to lockdown but she knew this when she met him? Not easy, no, but I just don’t know what’s there to be so upset ahout. Like, that person is not here anymore! Their belongings their stuff, it’s part of the situation, she knew what she was waking into. Obviously Ethan does love Derrina and I don’t think he’s been forced in to that at all. They clearly support him through his grief and I think this walk is testimony to that. Derrina is obviously a really nice person to Ethan you can see that she’s not some wicked step mum! Although I think there’s a lack of maturity surrounding the things I mentioned previously.He’s awful. Why would you do that!?? He’s so controlling I feel.
It’s like he wants to erase Gemma but still wants to be in the public eye as the grieving Simon Thomas.
Do we think Derrina is genuinely struggling with the ghost of Gemma hanging around? Or do we think it’s more Simons doing? I mean do either of them think how Ethan must be feeling? It just seems like no one can upset Derrinas feelings but to hell with how Ethan or gemmas family now feels.
Very eloquently said and well observed. I agree 100% with this.I think Derrina is indeed struggling with the ghost of Gemma. I think the ‘issue’ with being with a widow is knowing they wouldn’t have chosen you had it not been for the loss of their partner. To me, it’s obvious and just a fact and a part of life that would be the case when someone is sadly widowed? They menntioned before how hard it was for Derrina to live in a house of Gemma and Simon’s, how it wasn’t the ‘plan’ and was forced due to lockdown but she knew this when she met him? Not easy, no, but I just don’t know what’s there to be so upset ahout. Like, that person is not here anymore! Their belongings their stuff, it’s part of the situation, she knew what she was waking into. Obviously Ethan does love Derrina and I don’t think he’s been forced in to that at all. They clearly support him through his grief and I think this walk is testimony to that. Derrina is obviously a really nice person to Ethan you can see that she’s not some wicked step mum! Although I think there’s a lack of maturity surrounding the things I mentioned previously.
But what makes me so uneasy is how Simon spent a long time as a grieving Husband, and suddenly now Gemma seems to come accross as purely Ethan’s mum? Hang on a minute she was your wife too, like you made a book about this and wrote and spoke out a lot about how you were left a grieving husband but it’s all just ‘puff’ in the air gone on social media now!? And that side.. that is definitely in my opinion to appease Derrina/ keep their new life the focus. You can’t re write history though!! If you loved someone, you loved them. He referred to her as ‘Ethan’s Mum’ and always does. I find that really weird like he wrote that twice. Not even Gemma if he didn’t want to do a pet name?
8 and a half years ago she died?! My god he's been playing the poor widowed husband for 8 yearsJuat seeing comments from Ethan's fundraising walk yesterday and someone wrote about Simon moving on so quickly.....hit a nerve i think
Then Gemma's mum writes a long comment, probably had to say nice things else she wouldn't see Ethan.
She didn't pass away 8.5 years ago. Gemma died in 20178 and a half years ago she died?! My god he's been playing the poor widowed husband for 8 years
Oh right! Sorry I completely miss read it! It was someone commenting that they lost their mum.She didn't pass away 8.5 years ago. Gemma died in 2017
what sort of sick fucker thinks that this is an appropriate time to whip out the camera and take photos for Instagram? Support Your child ffs. My heart breaks for that little boy because Simon just uses him as a trophy. I hope he has a good relationship with Derrina and Gemmas family as his dad is an absolute dick.This makes me really uncomfortable.. why would you need to photograph a moment like this when your son is upset
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He’s used countless other private, emotional moments for his own gain, so why not this one as well? He’s just vile.This makes me really uncomfortable.. why would you need to photograph a moment like this when your son is upset
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What the shitting Christ?This makes me really uncomfortable.. why would you need to photograph a moment like this when your son is upset
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Just when I thought he couldn’t get any worse “look what you’ve done, you awful Council. I don’t care you have many a child to place, look at my son!”
These are the moments where as a parent you step up, even though you too may be desperately upset. You comfort your child and reassure them that it is not the end of the world. You look for positives. Not stand back, take a photo and broadcast his misery to the world.
I suppose he wants the local council to see and change their minds as he has tagged them.
I noticed the council being tagged,wouldn’t like to think they change their mind off the back of this moron complaining,surely that would mean another kid would lose their place.
These are the moments where as a parent you step up, even though you too may be desperately upset. You comfort your child and reassure them that it is not the end of the world. You look for positives. Not stand back, take a photo and broadcast his misery to the world.
I suppose he wants the local council to see and change their minds as he has tagged them.
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