Selena Gomez

[Bowbow82]

In your posts you made great points too! I think threads like these are good cause we can see different sides to things and see why this situation is so weird and never ending drama between them all when there doesn’t need to be.

Hailey should start being mindful of what she posts. She should just use social media to post things about her skincare or any work she’s trying to promote and photos/videos of people in her life. If I were her I would not post any tiktoks that could come across as being witchy or things on stories that could be misconstrued. She’s 26 she’s not 16 and she’s in the public eye so she should learn to use social media for the right reasons like for business or sharing photos. She should not speak about or refer Selena to anyone cause there’s absolutely no reason for her and her friends to speak about her husbands ex which I’m sure they have after seeing things her friends have posted over the years aswell as Hailey going on that podcast talking about Selena. Hailey is married to him she should be focused on their marriage. I doubt their marriage is as perfect as they make it out to be online cause he seems toxic but that’s for them to deal with. If her friends or people who know her want to say hateful things or throw shade towards Selena then they’re not the kind of people she should want to associate with.

As for Selena I’m sure Justin moving on getting married so fast was painful for her. I know it’s easier said than done to just move on and forget things but so many people go through the same thing and are able to move on. She is 30 she should also know better at her age that certain things she posts, songs she puts out and things she says in interviews are going to lead to speculation , people talking about her and Justin and some people like Hailey will get hated on . If she doesn’t want people associating her with her ex anymore then she needs to be careful with her behaviour and words.

If anyone says anything hateful about her weight I get that would hurt her and she has the right to stick up for herself but sometimes assumptions can be made by her fans or her about something that wasn’t hate towards her at all and sometimes even if something was hate and bitchyness towards her it’s really not worth giving attention and energy to cause if we all spent our time giving attention to every bit of hate it would be never ending. She has a career she’s doing well in so she should not let anything take away from that. No amount of drama is worth getting involved in when she should not want to be associated with the biebers at all. Ignoring them might be hard but it’s the best thing to do. Justin seems like the type of person deep down that doesn’t want Selena to forget about him and get over him so she should not want to give him or Hailey any attention anymore no matter what she needs to rise above drama and move on with her life. Following her ex’s wife I don’t think is the best move for her mentally.

As for Zayn Malik hopefully they are just working on a song together and nothing more. He’s had a lot of issues and yeah people can change but I don’t know if that would be healthy for her to be involved with him.

I love how you’ve summed this whole drama up. That was a refreshing read to be honest, unbiased and raised fab points. I feel like an English teacher saying that but I agree with everything you said. Kudos for mentioning the trolling about Selena’s weight, that was uncalled for from trolls

 

[account70032]

I love how you’ve summed this whole drama up. That was a refreshing read to be honest, unbiased and raised fab points. I feel like an English teacher saying that but I agree with everything you said. Kudos for mentioning the trolling about Selena’s weight, that was uncalled for from trolls

I guess I’ve found my calling being able to sum up these kinds of situations in an honest , unbiased way and settle it so the world can be at peace again maybe they should bring Justin, Hailey and Selena to court and I think I could have a chance at ending this whole thing once and for all! I appreciate you reading my essay long posts and saying nice things like a cool English teacher. I agree with what you spoke about too and yeah of course no matter what nobody’s weight should be made fun by anyone cause it’s uncalled for and cruel.

 

[Yupyupyup]

I honestly wouldn’t be surprised if the trolls that were giving her tit for her weight were the same trolls also giving Hailey hate, they’re all pretty fickle and jump tit with the tides!

 

[OmgObsessed]

Holy hell I aim to be as calm and collected as Hailey. This just proves further she isn't a bad person. Selena literally started the drama and Hailey calmly reached out. Then Selena still tries to play like the victim.


Man imagine dealing with an alcoholic bipolar person not seeking help obsessed with YOUR husband and yet you're the bad guy?! "Bless" Hailey.


I agree I'm tired of this narrative and Kardashian nonsense too. I'm honestly like who gives a tit?? Plus I'm tired of videos glamouring true crime. Drama channels just keep recycling the same nonsense: Selena vs. Hailey, racist J* talking, that TikTok makeup girl, Kardashians. They all title their videos the same too.

 

[Kiwi_Paddy]

Holy hell I aim to be as calm and collected as Hailey. This just proves further she isn't a bad person. Selena literally started the drama and Hailey calmly reached out. Then Selena still tries to play like the victim.


Man imagine dealing with an alcoholic bipolar person not seeking help obsessed with YOUR husband and yet you're the bad guy?! "Bless" Hailey.


I agree I'm tired of this narrative and Kardashian nonsense too. I'm honestly like who gives a tit?? Plus I'm tired of videos glamouring true crime. Drama channels just keep recycling the same nonsense: Selena vs. Hailey, racist J* talking, that TikTok makeup girl, Kardashians. They all title their videos the same too.

It really does not matter about who said what and who started it as the real victims are the young girls following this drama and thinking this is acceptable behaviour. Selena has the best PR as she has a career and reputation to protect where as Justin should be helping Hailey with this.

 

[Sickofit2022]

Holy hell I aim to be as calm and collected as Hailey. This just proves further she isn't a bad person. Selena literally started the drama and Hailey calmly reached out. Then Selena still tries to play like the victim.


Man imagine dealing with an alcoholic bipolar person not seeking help obsessed with YOUR husband and yet you're the bad guy?! "Bless" Hailey.


I agree I'm tired of this narrative and Kardashian nonsense too. I'm honestly like who gives a tit?? Plus I'm tired of videos glamouring true crime. Drama channels just keep recycling the same nonsense: Selena vs. Hailey, racist J* talking, that TikTok makeup girl, Kardashians. They all title their videos the same too.

Why do we think Selena is an alcoholic? I don’t not believe it I just want the tea and cannot locate it on the internet.

 

[Yupyupyup]

Why do we think Selena is an alcoholic? I don’t not believe it I just want the tea and cannot locate it on the internet.

I’m not sure if it’s just rumours but there was birdies talking about that’s the reason she went to rehab and that’s why her kidney died off a lot faster than it should have for someone suffering with lupus. It’s also rumoured that that’s the initial reason her and her donor fell out because she was posting about drinking and having drinks after the donation and apparently her donor said something about it which rubbed Selena the wrong way (because she was to be surrounded by yes men!).

 

[whatstheteab]

Why do we think Selena is an alcoholic? I don’t not believe it I just want the tea and cannot locate it on the internet.

She was drunk off her ass at the AMAs in 2019. There’s a video of her stumbling around on the red carpet.

 

[Burritobowl]

I'm not team Selena or Hailey or anyone, I believe that Justin is the one to blame, however, I think most people are being really naive, like, we all know celebrities go to the same events, share make-up artists, channels, managers, etcetera, all of the parties that are involved in this mess could have fixed this privately, maybe they thought the gossip would burn out in a couple of days, but this subject has been talked for almost 2 months.

I don't think any of them are evil or nice, just jealous of each other and living in absolute wealth.

However, what I find super weird, is the fact that Selena's fans still ship her with Justin, like, I mean, there are edits all over tik toc on how badly Justin treats Hailey, but did everyone forget that he was crappy towards Selena also, he didn't treat her like she was the love of her life, he constantly cheated, did drugs, committed felonies and broke up with her multiple times, he only got mad because she was able to leave that relationship, but they weren't 'goals', I mean, even Selena has songs literally thanking for getting away from him.

If Justin doesn't love Hailey, he FOR SURE didn't love Selena.

 

[OmgObsessed]

I honestly wouldn't even be surprised if it was secretly a collaboration to get attention. We were just pawns this whole time. They'll release mascara like Kylie now too

Or I'm just bitter we were given "fake news" Tuesday and feel everything is nonsense lol

 

[whatstheteab]

She’s rumoured to be dating Zayn Malik. If true, she really knows how to pick them doesn’t she

 

[GrilledCheese]

She’s rumoured to be dating Zayn Malik. If true, she really knows how to pick them doesn’t she

The guy who referred to his own daughter as the "sperm from his rooster" and has cheated on every girlfriend he's had. She deserves better

 

[Lotte92]

I dont think fans help situations like this. Especially as many of them are so young. They have tunnel vision. Everything is black amd white to them their idolis perfect and anyone that offends them even slightly is evil and must be taken down.

 

[L3moning]

I dont think fans help situations like this. Especially as many of them are so young. They have tunnel vision. Everything is black amd white to them their idolis perfect and anyone that offends them even slightly is evil and must be taken down.

Yeah, I think there is a fair bit of that. Fandom wars are bad enough when they involve TV shows or music, let alone when it extends to real people as well.

 

[KYLIE]

She’s rumoured to be dating Zayn Malik. If true, she really knows how to pick them doesn’t she

thats been a ”stan ship” for years now, so I doubt it’s true.. it’s randomly been shipped more at the moment (hate that I know that lol) so I am assuming the only reason people think it’s true is because a random pop culture Twitter account posted it.

No photos, no proof, just a random fan sending in a “tip”. you’d be suprised how easily people take it as gospel. You think one of the highest profile celebrities can casually date Zayn Malik and not get pictured in the city… please…

Same as deuxmoi, people send in stuff that’s a blatant lie all the time for attention etc.

I think honestly for a healthy and lasting relationship, Selena needs to do what Ariana Grande did, date someone on the outside of the direct Hollywood circle with a more “normal” life (i.e. not a singer, actor)

 

[Yupyupyup]

Are Selena fans even really her fans? Why do they ship her with the most horrifically toxic men? It’s like they never want her to know peace

 

[Immi290]

She was drunk off her ass at the AMAs in 2019. There’s a video of her stumbling around on the red carpet.

Who doesn't get drunk and stumble about once in their lives. There has been multiple times I've been off my head and I don't rely on alcohol to get through
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Why can't two celebrities not have dinner with each other without being rumoured to be dating?

 

[whatstheteab]

Who doesn't get drunk and stumble about once in their lives. There has been multiple times I've been off my head and I don't rely on alcohol to get through

The difference is that Selena had a kidney implant and has lupus. Getting that drunk can be extremely dangerous but she clearly doesn’t care.

 

[Immi290]

The difference is that Selena had a kidney implant and has lupus. Getting that drunk can be extremely dangerous but she clearly doesn’t care.

Ahh yeah I forgot about her kidney, my bad. Yeah that is really dangerous like she got a second chance and then misuses it

 

[redstraw16]

there’s now a story floating round about Selena and Zayn hooking up in 2012, most likely just someone jumping on the story and saying whatever but at the same time it wouldn’t surprise me.

watch them just release a song together instead