Sarah Ashcroft

[sillydot]

I think give her a break tbh. I don’t know many ‘influencers’ who lay bare as much as she does. No crypted posts, no bullshit. I admire how honest she is (mainly cuz I’m nosey as fuck) I like seeing this vulnerable side to her. We live in a world where people only show the good parts, or are faking it on social media to look like they have a dream life when the reality is very different. She isn’t. That I respect

 

[BeccaBanana]

I have never known of any man who’s married or been in a long term relationship just leave to be on there own. There’s always been either another woman or they’ve had their eye on another woman and want to make themselves available.
I’m mid 40s and had and seen my fair share of relationship break ups and divorces, and can honestly say any man that blindsides a woman like that, has been in a ‘new’ relationship within a couple of months after. I really hope for Sarah’s sake this isn’t the case as it will break her heart even more and no one deserves that, especially when you’ve given your all to someone. But I really wouldn’t be shocked if ‘starts’ dating someone new very quickly.

 

[sillydot]

Her latest reel is heartbreaking to be fair.
I think he has either cheated or decided he wants different things. I think she was expecting the engagement/wedding whereas he just wants to travel the world and be surrounded by young girls.
I always thought it was strange that they only ever rented and never bought a place together. she used to say it was because Joe wanted to have his own money to contribute and wasn’t there yet. Maybe he has just never been that invested.
Either way I wouldn’t wish heart break on my worst enemy, it is hell.

Do u reckon they had split before the ski trip she went on with his company?

 

[CloudMeringue]

I went to school with her and this is what she used to look like before all the filler.

To be fair, as someone the same age as her, this is also what I looked like 10-15 years ago! She's definitely had a lot of filler and the weight-loss is making it look even more pronounced, but I'm also unrecognisable from my backbrushed hair/concealer lips phase (thank god)

 

[nickgrimshaw]

The break up statement :

I think it sounds like more of his decision rather than hers

I followed her since before they were together and she was more fun and interesting back then anyway, so hopefully she'll find a way to get that sparkle back again

 

[Misspookie]

I disagree here. Her age is relevant. She has always spoken about wanting/having kids. As a female time isn’t on her side.

just because you live in the medieval times it doesn’t mean the rest have too. There’s plenty of options available and women are having kids into their 40s now. Stop putting pressure on women when they have enough judgement and pressure as it is.

 

[Rosie34567-2]

Tbh I don't know who she is (or he is) and the first vid I saw was the "We Broke Up" vid, so I have zero context for any of this...

But here's the thing, I feel like I don't even need to know the details. This story happens way too often, to too many women: Where guys will just use women, lead them on for years, and then "oops, never mind!"

I'm so annoyed on her behalf lol. The audacity and male entitlement. He broke up with her after using her as a bangmaid that he could split rent with, wasting all of her 20s, and having convos about getting engaged? Spineless. Absolutely pathetic. He knew. He must've known earlier on that she wasn't the "one," but he didn't want to give up the convenience(s) and benefit(s) of being with her.

Is she toxic in her own ways? Probably (most influencers are), so I'm not saying she's perfect. And her fake cheekbones kinda scare me LOL. But, I actually think she handled this quite gracefully, given the circumstances. Good riddance!

 

[sillydot]

So he was clearly having an affair and left Sarah for another woman. Tried to blame her for the breakdown of their relationship, and didn’t have the balls to tell her the truth. I’m sorry but what a complete cunt.
I thought her YouTube was great.
She has every right to be pissed off, she was with him for 7 years and thought that was her end game.

 

[saz2525]

Joe’s having a baby!!

 

[ellbell]

I think I’ve said it before I really do like Sarah she’s so real and raw and actually shows her real life whether it’s good or not. I’ve followed her from early days and she’s one of the OG influencers that have stayed so relevant to us ‘normies’. So what if she’s hungover, aren’t we all she’s having a good time with her friends and a lot of the time that’s what we all say we want to see from the rest of them because the rest don’t have any real life or friends to even show anymore

 

[beachclub55]

Her and her boyfriend broke up… I would say that’s the main reason for the weight loss. Also her post kinda suggested he cheated ? Poor girl I hope she’s okay

 

[sillydot]

Yes it’s very clear it’s not her decision. Nice to see her being so raw and open about it all. You don’t get that often with influencers. Such a difficult age to go through a breakup, I guess majority of her friends are settling down having kids etc the thought of starting again is so daunting. I really feel for her. Everytime they went away I was waiting for an engagement post. Really didn’t see this coming at all

 

[szn-123]

I’m sorry, these are trashy

The collection is a little ironic

I actually feel bad for her, I think this collection was created as she was close to or thought she would get engaged this year and it all would have tied in. It did seem she was heading that way as they were together for such a long time and a majority of their friends seemed to have been getting married. The timing of the collection is bad but these things are months in the making and it seems like she was blindsided by this breakup judging by her post

 

[sillydot]

I think her video was classy. It’s clear she is still so very heartbroken and has a lot of love still for him.
I’ve been in her exact position before and it’s absolutely hell. I almost wish my partner at the time had cheated and then I could accept it more and almost hate him.
I think his job has had a massive part to play, maybe he is just the type that doesn’t want to settle down and get married etc - and that’s ok. I also think men hit a certain age and panic. Maybe he’ll regret it. Who knows.
I really like Sarah, she has helped so many people throughout her breakup it’s rare ‘influencers’ share so much. I wish her well

 

[myllip]

urgh I hate girls that go on like this. He’s moved on. He’s allowed. I don’t know why we needed an update of this it’s Joes like now, not yours Sarah and you have nothing to do with him. Such a weird thing to bring up on your YouTube

He's allowed to move on, but she's not allowed to feel hurt or feel any type of way? I think she was expressing herself very openly, kudos to her, and you can see she is hurt but definitely moving forward too.

 

[at-the-disco]

i understand her being pissed off tbh. he wasted 7 years of her life and it's hard not to be bitter. she thought they were going to get married. he ended the relationship to be alone but had a new gf 5 months later (he most likely met her a lot sooner) and her gut feeling telling her to question everything is correct.
it was a bit TMI for youtube i guess though

 

[Joannabloggs]

Joe’s having a baby!!

Men are so predictable

 

[xbxbx]

Just watched her YT video about the break up. I feel so, so sorry for her. I appreciate that she’s being vulnerable and showing her audience that it’s ok to feel this way but it’s so heartbreaking to watch. She did explain the reason they broke up but I’ll put it behind a spoiler in case anyone wants to go see for themselves.

Spoiler: Reason they split

She said he thought they were too different, he wasn’t sure if he wanted to marry her and he wanted to be alone.

One thing she said really got me; ‘what was wrong with me that the person I loved didn’t pick me’

She has also had to leave her management Komodo for obvious reasons, and it feels like a second break up.

 

[Misspookie]

I genuinely think Joe got bored of her, when they first got together she was this tanned blonde fun lass where as now she’s pale, dark haired, VERY skinny and doesn’t seem as fun anymore. I think Joe got bored and cheated for that reason. I bet it was with another influencer who came on the Komodo trips and I bet you when it comes out in the wash (cause it always does) that she was blonde, tanned and younger

you’re surely not saying her changing her hair colour matters in any of this as that would be insane and it’s irrelevant.

 

[br0wser]

She touched on the fact that they were very different and that she liked the finer things in life and could be materialistic. That must've been something Joe touched on as a reason to leave. I can imagine she's quite hard work and princessy and he's more laid back. She was probably trying to push wedding ideas he really wasn't into, I'd imagine hers would be for content and for show and his would just be a wedding on a beach with close friends. They both love travelling, which is what has kept them going this long and they seemed to be well matched in travel vlogs but I guess home life is very different.

I just find this odd because they were constantly going on lavish holidays and for expensive dinners, if he didn’t like the “finer things” why did he do it for so long?