She misses out on NY not having a proper job. All her friends are Irish and she has lived there 10 years. She doesn’t have one American friend or a friend of a different race. She could have really expanded her horizons by working and mingling with colleagues from all over the U.S/ world. It could have been a side gig she posts so little and her followers haven’t gone up in years. I do give her props for not buying a load of bot followers though.