Lyddingtons
Active member
I’m delighted to announce that this current boyfriend is not an ex of mine.
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Started this thread as wanted to discuss her stories but didn’t want to clog the MAFs thread now that she’s left.
She had a Q&A today, many questions asking how her Only Fans and whether her kids know about it. She said she’d told the older one about it (think he still is only primary school age?) and was really open with him. He was also there in the background when she was asked why she’s doing it, she said she was a “dirty bitch”. Also when asked what her favourite food was she mimicked a blow job. She’s disgusting and I feel so sorry for her children and what they must be exposed to.
She had a Q&A today, many questions asking how her Only Fans and whether her kids know about it. She said she’d told the older one about it (think he still is only primary school age?) and was really open with him. He was also there in the background when she was asked why she’s doing it, she said she was a “dirty bitch”. Also when asked what her favourite food was she mimicked a blow job. She’s disgusting and I feel so sorry for her children and what they must be exposed to.
itscoldoutside
Chatty Member
She's definitely a safeguarding issue. She was saying she's not worried about her kids knowing she has OF (and being bullied as a result) because lots of women on OF have children. I'm not sure how that removes risk from her children? In some ways I'm conflicted about Gemma as she's crying out for male attention and is clearly very damaged, but I feel even more sorry for her children.
Ah yes good point.Does anyone want to recap her MAFS 'highlights' for any newcomers?
I'll start with 'you better get used to the taste of fish' to her new husband at the wedding breakfastmore like dog's breakfast!
Gemma was matched with WiFi face Matt who is a Wish version of a Sons of Anarchy extra. Initially it seemed like they were the perfect match however it soon became apparent Gemma’s bawdy jokes were too much for Sheperds’ Pie Head aka SPH (reference to Matt’s god awful hairstyle he seems to think people want to replicate).
Comments/incident, that even the biggest Carry On fan would wince at, include:
Stating she would be “slipping off the chair”, to her mother, on her wedding day.
Telling her new husband he should get used to the “taste of fish”.
Apparently “masturbating” in a restaurant on their honeymoon - Gemma said this is bullshit and she was “bantering” but it’s not actually clear what happened.
Crying in the commitment ceremony after telling the room she’d told SPH she had a “hell of a blow job” on her.
I feel there’s many more, so please add.
It was very clear SPH had the ick but Gemma had seemingly fallen head over heels despite him also being a total bellend. SPH ended up eyeing up the most odious woman also in the experiment, Whitney, and they’ve now got together. Gemma went crazy at this.
Gemma has claimed the show has done her dirty with editing, has launched a crusade against reality TV and wants to publicise how it can ruin lives….as though this is brand new information. She did it to find love and not for the fame, apparently, yet now goes on her stories looking for freebies and collabs on the daily. As well as going to the press claiming she had an “adult sleepover”
with a previous contestant. She has recently started an Only Fans as well, which her primary school age child is fully aware of as she’s told him.
My first ever recap, probably missed loads out! Please add anything I’ve forgotten.
Shinythings
VIP Member
She's exactly the type of person that should not be in sex work. She is far too damaged and relies on it for validation. She's teaching her children that sex is love and teaching them such unhealthy views in relationships because the only people she will be attracting with the attitude she has is those that will use her.
There's a huge difference between being sexually confident and secure in yourself and....well Gemma.
Unfortunately she is following a pattern that many women do who grew up in care or were adopted
There's a huge difference between being sexually confident and secure in yourself and....well Gemma.
Unfortunately she is following a pattern that many women do who grew up in care or were adopted
CrackingOwlSanctuary
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Just cracked open a fresh 4 pinter of B.O.B. milk that will outlast this relationship, guaranteed.
I work as a scrub nurse and regularly see bariatric surgery done via the NHS here, and I think it’s so worrying she is going to Turkey to have this done. Firstly she is absolutely nowhere near heavy enough to qualify for having this done via the NHS. Patients here also go through rigorous pre operative assessment and counselling around relationships with food AND mental health to make sure they are the right candidates and that the surgery is the right option for them. Secondly it is major surgery with plenty of potential complications and a long recovery process. We do almost as many reversals and band removals as we do the initial surgery. It’s also worth noting that the amount of patients who have travelled to Turkey or similar to have these operations and then end up having complications and coming to have it sorted out on the NHS is on the rise. It also very easy to “cheat” the surgery and gain all the weight back. It is a lifelong commitment to changing your entire diet and attitude towards food. It is so clear that she sees this as a quick and easy way to lose weight and I’m sure she thinks this will increase her potential earnings on OnlyFans. I completely agree with the post saying no prominent and self respecting surgeon would gift this surgery, the waiting lists here on the NHS are ridiculously long after Covid and I’m sure even in the private sector you would have a lengthy wait. £2400 also seems ridiculous cheap to me, that would barely cover the costs of running the operating theatre for the 2-3 hours the surgery takes here! A disaster waiting to happen, and when it goes wrong NOTHING will be her fault.
xcyber
Chatty Member
I know it’s bad but a part of me thinks she’s just done it for more attention and engagement on insta. She just seems like the type of person to do whatever it takes to stay ‘relevant’. Like why not deal with the issue in your own? Why do you need to tell a bunch of people you’ve never met and who you don’t know? She’s not raising ‘awareness’ because everyone is already very aware of addiction. I guarantee she’ll be trying to partner up with addiction related groups to try and be the face of that somehow. Like seriously just get off social media and sort your life out.
Shesaidwhat?
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The scratty bitch. Buy your own butt plug if you’re killing it on Only Fans.Was it a calculated plan to do MAFS under guise of finding True Love, then start OF with the ensuing fame?
I think so.
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I can only imagine the shit her son must get. Secondary school is brutal. It was bad enough bringing your PE or cookery in a Netto or KwikSave bag so I can’t imagine what it must be like if your mother is on national television & the Internet being a complete dirtbag.
Noonoosanne2
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She’s quick enough to want the nhs to pick up her care when things fuck up or go wrong, the only reason she’s had this is because she’s got a freebie, she was pleading poverty not so long ago, she’s making out she’s making millions on only fans, bet she’s not declaring that to the tax man or her local council when she’s creaming the single parent and housing benefits
Lurkeryaar
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Don't forget that she said that SPH had "ruined" her chances of having a family after he decided to get with Whitney, despite the fact she'd known him for all of a couple of weeks 
MarshMallowMonster
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Was it a calculated plan to do MAFS under guise of finding True Love, then start OF with the ensuing fame?
I think so.
Gem’s Wishlist
I think so.
Gem’s Wishlist
Check out my list on Amazon
www.amazon.co.uk
It feels very much like an inexperienced teenager who wants to brag about the fact they're having sex.
I don't think that passport is going to come. I hope it doesn't. This is such a major mistake.
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Speaking as someone with medical knowledge I'm not 100% sure I believe this happened. There's no way you wouldn't realise until you saw a doctor you were minus a kidney. For one thing you'd have a massive abdominal scar which you'd not get with a boob job.A friend of a friend went to Turkey for a boob job . When she got home and went to her doctor discovered they had also taken a kidney
I wouldn’t put it past her being the type of mum trying to hit on her son’s friends once their 16+ It is no way normal to speak about those topics around your children and it’s pretty disturbing TBH.
I know, how do even go about explaining it? She’s said later on they’re just a very honest family. Clearly with no boundaries whatsoever. One of the first few nights her episode were on she was crying on Instagram, and her poor kid was comforting her in the background. It’s all so fucked up.
Managed to plough through the rest of her marathon stories. Her 11 year old also has his hair bleached and his conch pierced, because that was his choice apparently. Sure you didn’t force your personality traits on him Gemma? How would a fucking 11 year old know they wanted their conch pierced?