Rampant Consumerism

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Shops such as Trespass are exactly the same. Massively price up their items to a top ticket price, eg £100 for a few weeks (which is nowhere near the actual cost price to make the item). Reduce to £50 under a “discount” or “sale” offer when the true coat price could be anywhere between £18-£30.

These companies know how much they need to sell an item to cover costs and make a decent return. They KNOW that by over inflating the initial price the item is massively overpriced compared to cost price.

It’s all smoke and mirrors to trick you into believing that you have bagged a bargain but in reality you are still paying over the odds for an item which has been made as cheaply as possible to ensure that they can squeeze as much profit out of each sale as possible. In these discount shops which seem to always have a bloody sale on (DFS is another great example) you are only getting a bargain when the item is heavily reduced to around 60%-70%.
 
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Wrt fast fashion and pretend sales, this video from Justine Leconte (she is a fashion designer and has very interesting vlogs) cheered me up.

 
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Our youngest daughter has suggested that we do a secret Santa next year, (one gift) she's concerned about the environment and wants us to cut down on waste. We already recycle, shop local and use renewable energy. We love nothing better than a day out trawling the charity shops.
I love a browse in charity shops can find some great bargains esp homeware and books.
 
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I bought totes slipper socks for 9 quid because it was in the sale and to be honest.

I walked out and thought “like duck I’d have spent that if it wasn’t on *sale*”

I hate myself but I love the socks 🤣🤣 do you feel me...
I’m a mess.

we didn’t really do Christmas gifts though so let me enjoy my frigging socks. 😂🤣

but the serious bit, it all feels too much, on Boxing Day and the 2 days after, our local Tesco had 10’000 transactions 😳 I was speaking with the manager and they were shocked with how many people seemed to be shopping after 24 hours without the ability to shop. It’s crazy. I miss the days when Christmas was 5 days stuck with your family and your credit card got a rest
 
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I bought totes slipper socks for 9 quid because it was in the sale and to be honest.

I walked out and thought “like duck I’d have spent that if it wasn’t on *sale*”

I hate myself but I love the socks 🤣🤣 do you feel me...
I’m a mess.

we didn’t really do Christmas gifts though so let me enjoy my frigging socks. 😂🤣

but the serious bit, it all feels too much, on Boxing Day and the 2 days after, our local Tesco had 10’000 transactions 😳 I was speaking with the manager and they were shocked with how many people seemed to be shopping after 24 hours without the ability to shop. It’s crazy. I miss the days when Christmas was 5 days stuck with your family and your credit card got a rest
Don’t feel bad, I bought a £50 cushion today and I’ll have you know that it wasn’t even on sale 😣 But it was perfect for my bedroom feng shui next year so I technically needed it. I had loads of other stuff in the basket but I moved it all to my wish list and called it a day. And if I really messed up, I can always return it for full refund. Enjoy your socks, may they warm your feet throughout the long and miserable winter 😁
 
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I'm pretty good at not overspending but that is because we grew up poor in South Africa and my dad always said if you can't pay cash then you can't have it.
Some of my tips would be:
1. Do not to take tags off clothing and if you haven't worn it within 28 days return it to the shop!
2. Save up a little bit for the sales and do Xmas and birthday shopping for the coming year. I've just spent £200 on gifts for 2020 but I got LOADS of stuff. I really hunt for bargains that are quality, also gives me a bit of a day out over the holidays
3. If you really want something expensive don't buy it, wait a week or 2 and if you still want it go and get it (bonus if it's sold out!)
4. I agree that shopping on ebay, gumtree, depop etc are great for second hand items especially mobile phones

Our youngest daughter has suggested that we do a secret Santa next year, (one gift) she's concerned about the environment and wants us to cut down on waste. We already recycle, shop local and use renewable energy. We love nothing better than a day out trawling the charity shops.
I love that you're daughter cares so much wish more children would be like that.

Although I often think it's the parents fault that Xmas is over-commercialised. Most kids would be happy with one decent gift or a great day out
 
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I definitely need to calm down my consumerism this new year. I'm not in debt but I do pretty much waste a lot of my left over money after bills. I'm a bit of a magpie for accessories, bags, clothes, to the point I never get to the bottom of the laundry washing pile and it is stressing me out. I have started donating clothes and sitting on my hands and not impulsively buying things online, but I want to keep it up.
I was thinking about this the other day - we buy so many clothes now and it actually creates a lot of anxiety with laundry/ironing piles. A few generations ago most people had 3 or 4 outfits at most. I know times were much much harder then and I’m not trying to say the past is better but perhaps there are some things that we’ve gone too far with as a society.
 
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I bought totes slipper socks for 9 quid because it was in the sale and to be honest.

I walked out and thought “like duck I’d have spent that if it wasn’t on *sale*”

I hate myself but I love the socks 🤣🤣 do you feel me...
I’m a mess.

we didn’t really do Christmas gifts though so let me enjoy my frigging socks. 😂🤣

but the serious bit, it all feels too much, on Boxing Day and the 2 days after, our local Tesco had 10’000 transactions 😳 I was speaking with the manager and they were shocked with how many people seemed to be shopping after 24 hours without the ability to shop. It’s crazy. I miss the days when Christmas was 5 days stuck with your family and your credit card got a rest
I've not bought anything since before Christmas because I've not been shopping. I thought I don't need anything so I'm staying away from the shops. :giggle:
 
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I've not bought anything since before Christmas because I've not been shopping. I thought I don't need anything so I'm staying away from the shops. :giggle:
See I had to go shopping for January birthday gifts. 😆 we have twins here who will expect gifts, feckers don’t understand it’s right after Christmas.

and the kids stuff is 50% off so I’m planning 4 weeks early and now it’s done 😬
but that’s all I’ve bought or need.

LIE.... I bought Christmas cards for a quid, reduced from 8. 😬 who the duck spends 8 quid on Christmas cards 😐 that’s for next year if I’m still alive and kicking, if not, I’m sure someone will use them Or stick them on eBay 😂
 
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See I had to go shopping for January birthday gifts. 😆 we have twins here who will expect gifts, feckers don’t understand it’s right after Christmas.

and the kids stuff is 50% off so I’m planning 4 weeks early and now it’s done 😬
but that’s all I’ve bought or need.

LIE.... I bought Christmas cards for a quid, reduced from 8. 😬 who the duck spends 8 quid on Christmas cards 😐 that’s for next year if I’m still alive and kicking, if not, I’m sure someone will use them Or stick them on eBay 😂
Birthday gifts and 50% off?! I will let you off then :LOL: I don't know how those people who buy Christmas gifts for next year in the boxing day sale do it I just couldn't be arsed I'm not over this Christmas yet :giggle:
 
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Birthday gifts and 50% off?! I will let you off then :LOL: I don't know how those people who buy Christmas gifts for next year in the boxing day sale do it I just couldn't be arsed I'm not over this Christmas yet :giggle:
I go a few days after Xmas, like today. I can't sit at home a day it drives me nuts and too cold for me to go outside!
 
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Our youngest daughter has suggested that we do a secret Santa next year, (one gift) she's concerned about the environment and wants us to cut down on waste. We already recycle, shop local and use renewable energy. We love nothing better than a day out trawling the charity shops.
We started doing a secret Santa in my family last year (just the adults, 13 this year) and we all much prefer it. Less stress, cheaper and you get to put thought properly into one person instead of buying lots of little things and panic buying at the last minute because you’ve forgotten your step dad! 🤣
 
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I love a browse in charity shops can find some great bargains esp homeware and books.
She found a Hugo Boss cardigan and a pair of Max Mara trousers in our last visit, which she wasn't delighted with and won't look out of place in her new job. I always buy books from the charity shop, and once I've read them , I take them back not always to the same shop because I believe it's good to share the charity.

I'm pretty good at not overspending but that is because we grew up poor in South Africa and my dad always said if you can't pay cash then you can't have it.
Some of my tips would be:
1. Do not to take tags off clothing and if you haven't worn it within 28 days return it to the shop!
2. Save up a little bit for the sales and do Xmas and birthday shopping for the coming year. I've just spent £200 on gifts for 2020 but I got LOADS of stuff. I really hunt for bargains that are quality, also gives me a bit of a day out over the holidays
3. If you really want something expensive don't buy it, wait a week or 2 and if you still want it go and get it (bonus if it's sold out!)
4. I agree that shopping on ebay, gumtree, depop etc are great for second hand items especially mobile phones


I love that you're daughter cares so much wish more children would be like that.

Although I often think it's the parents fault that Xmas is over-commercialised. Most kids would be happy with one decent gift or a great day out
Thank you, she's such a caring soul, she's not like most 18 year old girls.
 
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She found a Hugo Boss cardigan and a pair of Max Mara trousers in our last visit, which she wasn't delighted with and won't look out of place in her new job. I always buy books from the charity shop, and once I've read them , I take them back not always to the same shop because I believe it's good to share the charity.


Thank you, she's such a caring soul, she's not like most 18 year old girls.
Ha, she was delighted with them! 🙈
 
I swear The Minimalists have changed my life. I feel I had a spending/shopping addiction since leaving uni till about the age of 38. I was a full time teacher and was pretty much spending all my money after expenses had been paid. I had no concept of saving. I felt so yuk about myself it made me sick and depressed but I didn’t know how to get out of this cycle. I then accidentally discovered The Minimalists and have changed my life. I no long want or desire the things I use to and have spent the past 2 years decluttering my tit and live a very streamline life with intention rather than consumption. I feel so happy and good about myself. I actually truly feel happy with less. I wish I had discovered this years ago. I now have savings and feel so happy. Me and my husband are also in the process to buying a bigger house. This would never of happened if I was still on the road of spending/consuming.
 
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I swear The Minimalists have changed my life. I feel I had a spending/shopping addiction since leaving uni till about the age of 38. I was a full time teacher and was pretty much spending all my money after expenses had been paid. I had no concept of saving. I felt so yuk about myself it made me sick and depressed but I didn’t know how to get out of this cycle. I then accidentally discovered The Minimalists and have changed my life. I no long want or desire the things I use to and have spent the past 2 years decluttering my tit and live a very streamline life with intention rather than consumption. I feel so happy and good about myself. I actually truly feel happy with less. I wish I had discovered this years ago. I now have savings and feel so happy. Me and my husband are also in the process to buying a bigger house. This would never of happened if I was still on the road of spending/consuming.
What are The Minimalists?
 
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I’m feeling like this, we have so much STUFF. I’m trying to give up buying “cheap” things, encouraging my kids to really think about what they want and not feel like they have to spend money they’re given. I do really want an All Saints leather jacket though (in fairness to me I’ve wanted one for years) and am sorely tempted...
 
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I’m feeling like this, we have so much STUFF. I’m trying to give up buying “cheap” things, encouraging my kids to really think about what they want and not feel like they have to spend money they’re given. I do really want an All Saints leather jacket though (in fairness to me I’ve wanted one for years) and am sorely tempted...
I’ve had my eye on their leather biker jackets for years, they are so nice 😍 I feel like I need to buy less, but better quality, staple items like this rather than buying more frequently, the cheaper ‘latest trend’ items.
 
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