Apologies for the very wordy title but hoping it captures what I'm seeking advice with.
Tonight my 6yo broke my heart by asking "Am I the weird one, Mummy?" I do suspect a trigger for this is the busy time of year plus his sleep has been horrific this month. I was a bit shocked by his question so checked no-one at school or home had said this to him (answer was no). It has troubled me for some time that he's quite an anxious child, such as always checking what is happening that day and he clearly bites his nails.
To add to this, I have quite bad anxiety which was partly influenced by my own anxious, people pleasing mother. My low self esteem is something I'm trying very hard to work on at the moment.
Self confidence is such an alien concept to me. But I don't want my son to grow up with this baggage either. At the root of all this is how do I help support my son's potential anxiety whilst also working through my own issues in this area?
Tonight my 6yo broke my heart by asking "Am I the weird one, Mummy?" I do suspect a trigger for this is the busy time of year plus his sleep has been horrific this month. I was a bit shocked by his question so checked no-one at school or home had said this to him (answer was no). It has troubled me for some time that he's quite an anxious child, such as always checking what is happening that day and he clearly bites his nails.
To add to this, I have quite bad anxiety which was partly influenced by my own anxious, people pleasing mother. My low self esteem is something I'm trying very hard to work on at the moment.
Self confidence is such an alien concept to me. But I don't want my son to grow up with this baggage either. At the root of all this is how do I help support my son's potential anxiety whilst also working through my own issues in this area?