Ohheymama

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CoffeeCup2020

Does anyone follow her? Thoughts?
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I think she seems like a cool person, great to have a laugh with, good parent, has done SO great with PMDD awareness and I’m glad she’s much better herself now.

I was a bit confused with coming out of a marriage to a woman to chasing rooster. If I was her ex wife I would certainly be wondering if our marriage was ever genuine. She seems to have no female interests at all now.
I’d love to know the story of her and the tatted guy that she’s been in and out of a relationship with.

I do wonder if she’s a bit codependent on her kids, especially the boy who is now apparently neurodiverse. I get the feeling the other mum is attempting to be phased out.
 
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CoffeeCup2020

And here we go again, couple of dates with a guy and the photos of them holding hands are back.
Will it be another love bomb-a-thon that all implodes as quick as it started?
 
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rydell high

I know her in real life, and my god the stories I could tell you.

She is NOTHING like how she portrays herself on social media.
 
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rydell high

Nothing I can really say without outing myself! Definitely a facade. If you type in Ohheymama in Tattle search there’s a post from an old neighbour of hers who basically says the same.
 
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CoffeeCup2020

Don’t go outing yourself! I’m going to guess at

High maintenance
Attention seeker
Rough
Loud
Not as mumsy as she makes out
Fairly nightmarish and put Ex wife through hell
Obsessed with the boy child
 
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I wld add that she always seems to be banging a drum about some cause or other, be it mental health, PMDD etc. I don’t doubt she’s had a tough time but there’s a thin line between raising awareness and using stuff for content. I did wonder what she was gonna focus on when her PMDD journey came to a close, and now we have a possible neurodivergent child.
Even if she stuck to her own health conditions it would be something, but ffs leave the kid out of it. There are some things in life that should never be put out there for public consumption. It is deeply uncomfortable to see her talking about the boy’s (undiagnosed) neurodivergent traits on social media when he can’t consent to any of this being shared. I get wanting support if you think you might need it, but why not go through official channels (health service, charities, dedicated support groups) who are qualified to help you. Why spill your guts to nearly six thousand unqualified strangers on Instagram, other than for validation? Even if a few of them are helpful, that still leaves thousands who don’t need to know. She’s always shared too much of the kids online IMO (including showing their faces most days) and now thousands of internet strangers know her son might be neurodivergent, before even he knows or understands what that means for him, and that’s even if he IS neurodivergent. Why isn’t she protecting his right to privacy instead of giving it away? It’s his health and his business, not ours. If I thought my little boy was not neurotypical, I’d be keeping it close to my chest until there was a formal diagnosis, and then I would be so very careful about who I shared it with in real life, never mind online.
I’d be boiling over if I was the other mum, who has already had the remains of her marriage and divorce put out there to be picked over by strangers, and now this.
One day the kids of all these parent bloggers are gonna sue them for the grossest breaches of their privacy, I am sure of it.
 
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CoffeeCup2020

Agree with it all. No longer getting the support and attention from her PMDD once she’d had the surgery (I’ll add I’m glad she’s recovered and is well).

Many of these mummy instagrammers decide they have a ND child when they need some new content.
If he is ND then don’t splash it all over and get a diagnosis first. At the moment it’s all Dr Google, and almost hoping and praying he is diagnosed with something. Usually the parent then decides they are also ND which is also something she’s hinting at too.

Her son absolutely seems to be the golden child and comes across pretty spoilt at times.
 
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CoffeeCup2020

Yet again beyond obsessed with a guy she’s just met and had a handful of dates with. Love bombing in full swing! Wonder how long until he’s around the kids, and then they ultimately split up/get back together/split up etc.
 
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I’ve been wondering if there was a thread on her…
Do you not find it incredibly selfish that she’s been on X amount of hols and not once taken the kids abroad? I can’t get over how selfish a mum could be!
 
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CoffeeCup2020

Yes! She doesn’t want the hassle of them basically. There is clearly a very different Terri behind the perfect loving mum insta facade.
She’s beyond obsessed with the little boy too and desperate to push a ND diagnosis on him.
 
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Yeah I’m getting sick of the stories ‘he’s so much like me’ bla bla this love bombing too. Like I’d say it was more her than these men the way it comes across! I mean how bad could the last guy of been to allow her to recover from major surgery in his home when no one else wanted to help?
 
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CoffeeCup2020

The ND is just something else to get attention for. She’s google diagnosed them. As a poster said above she no longer gets the attention for PMDD so has moved to this.

Agree about the last guy she yo-yo’d with. I know we don’t see what goes on but he seemed very very patient and kind and even though they had gone through 10000 break ups he took care of her after the op. I imagine she is probably very very very high maintenance and very much needs to be the centre of attention at all times.
Given she was married to a woman she seems to have completely abandoned being a lesbian/bi.
Not sure what I’d think if I were the ex wife.
 
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CoffeeCup2020

Also what do these guys think about being plastered all over her very public insta within a couple of weeks, carrying on like a silly teenage couple.
 
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Anotherusernamerequired

Yeah it is odd she’s gone from women to men. I’m pretty sure ages ago she said that she had never been with a man (this was when she was married) so maybe she’s always been straight in denial 😂 I just think she needs some real friends and help. She seems so lonely & desperate for love & attention.
 
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CoffeeCup2020

Yes she does come across as lonely and constantly looking for validation. Sadly Instagram and a string of red flag men won’t do her any favours.
Nor will diagnosing herself and her child ND.
 
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Anotherusernamerequired said:
No idea but do feel sorry for her. She’s aged about 15 years in 3 months! And it must be bad if you can’t enjoy your kids first holiday
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I was honestly taken aback when I saw how she’d aged due to her current situation. I’m just being nosey as I assume something serious has happened because it seems like she’s massively nose dived within her mental health
 
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Exhausted Mum

I hoped she had a thread and so pleased I found one!

This woman is a car crash and I can't understand her need to over share every part of her life especially her self diagnosing her son and herself. She clearly has an awful lot of issues which she wants the world to know about.

Going away when your supposedly as bad as she is just doesn't add up. They seem to be running feral around the resort losing clothing, shoes, being sick on sun loungers. It's so disturbing to think she's been allowed in the state she's portrayed herself to be in to have been allowed by the children's other mother to take them abroad. I know she went with a "neighbour" but his now pissed off and left her there as he couldn't cope with her! All she has done is moan and complain. If you have had a mental breakdown perhaps you should have delayed the holiday till you are more stable and well enough to care for 2 children. Rant over!!
 
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