I would never up my game, if he’s not satisfied with what he’s got i would leaveI’m in a happy long term relationship but I totally have a crush on an older guy who is a bit of a wanker (which I think adds to it!)
And if my bf ever told me he fancied someone else I would damn well up my game to remind him why he’s with me!
I'd be really interested in the age of the people who say yes. No judgement because we're all anon and who cares anyway since it's hypothetical, but I would have probably said yes in my 20s and maaaybe part of my 30s but it would be a big no way for me now. Not because I'm past it, but there's too much history and trust to be broken by my age. Doesn't matter about not being found out. I would know and I don't get enough sleep as it is so I don't need another thing keeping me awake.if you could have a one night stand with someone you fancied, nobody would every find out...
would you do it!?
anyone brave enough to say yes
Literally meDoesn't matter about not being found out. I would know and I don't get enough sleep as it is so I don't need another thing keeping me awake.
Oh don’t get me wrong if it was serious feelings for someone else I wouldn’t be begging anyone to stay, I’d be putting on some Lizzo and cracking open some Rose! But if it was just a harmless crush, I’d help him forget about them quicklyI would never up my game, if he’s not satisfied with what he’s got i would leave
This is exactly it, I’ve had crushes before and they always fizzle out once you realise they aren’t this fantasy person you thought they were!I started this thread, I now spend several hours a day pretty much every day with the man in question and can honestly say now I know him there's no attraction
I think this is spot on!I have recently became single and there’s been a few guys that have been flirting with me but I think to myself “do I actually fancy them or do I just like the attention?”
Yep and when feelings start you can start to question your morals. I find the whole crush thing really distressing personally.Its perfectly normal to find someone else attractive but I would say 'having a crush' as such is more than simply thinking someone physically looks hot. When genuine feelings of fancying them and them being affected emotionally by someone else comes into question then in my opinion you are verging on a morally grey area. Though a little different when it comes to a celebrity you are likely to never meet or have any chance in hell of acting on.
Agreed, I mean there are lots of people who I would say are attractive women or that they look hot but I would never use the term having a crush or that I fancied them. I just recognise them as being good looking physically, not involved at any kind of emotional level and no thoughts of anything other than they look good.Yep and when feelings start you can start to question your morals. I find the whole crush thing really distressing personally.
I would be so hurt, Infact jealous but yes I would be tempted if nobody ever found out and I really fancied the person...but life the pops in my head and remember I wouldn’t be able to live with the guilt and wouldn’t like it if it was done to me. So hey ho as temped ad I’d be I think I’d always (I think) resistQuestion for everyone, not just the original poster:
Throw it on it’s head....
if you found out your husband really fancied someone else and was thinking about them, would you be hurt?!
ans since were all anonymous.
if you could have a one night stand with someone you fancied, nobody would every find out...
would you do it!?
anyone brave enough to say yes
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