You're human, why not?Have many of you been happily married but still had a innocent crush on another person? Not a celeb!
I say innocent as there's no way I would ever act upon it, I love my husband
Oh don’t get me wrong if it was serious feelings for someone else I wouldn’t be begging anyone to stay, I’d be putting on some Lizzo and cracking open some Rose! But if it was just a harmless crush, I’d help him forget about them quicklyI would never up my game, if he’s not satisfied with what he’s got i would leave
I would never up my game, if he’s not satisfied with what he’s got i would leaveI’m in a happy long term relationship but I totally have a crush on an older guy who is a bit of a wanker (which I think adds to it!)
And if my bf ever told me he fancied someone else I would damn well up my game to remind him why he’s with me!
Literally meDoesn't matter about not being found out. I would know and I don't get enough sleep as it is so I don't need another thing keeping me awake.
If no one would find out then yes haha. Hello Tom Hardy!! Get in my bed.Question for everyone, not just the original poster:
Throw it on it’s head....
if you found out your husband really fancied someone else and was thinking about them, would you be hurt?!
ans since were all anonymous.
if you could have a one night stand with someone you fancied, nobody would every find out...
would you do it!?
anyone brave enough to say yes
This is exactly it, I’ve had crushes before and they always fizzle out once you realise they aren’t this fantasy person you thought they were!I started this thread, I now spend several hours a day pretty much every day with the man in question and can honestly say now I know him there's no attraction
Yep and when feelings start you can start to question your morals. I find the whole crush thing really distressing personally.Its perfectly normal to find someone else attractive but I would say 'having a crush' as such is more than simply thinking someone physically looks hot. When genuine feelings of fancying them and them being affected emotionally by someone else comes into question then in my opinion you are verging on a morally grey area. Though a little different when it comes to a celebrity you are likely to never meet or have any chance in hell of acting on.