I read this on Reddit, I hope you can benefit from it too:
There is no Dream Girl
Hear me out. Your brain will benefit from this if you’ve struggled with a man leaving you for his “dream girl”.
Back in college, I lived with my boyfriend and a friend in a two-story townhouse. It was all carpet and the floor used to get gross. We went to Target and bought one of those upright vacuums. Finally, clean floors! I was excited!
I ended up hating that thing. It was a pain to carry up the stairs. And eventually the suction wasn't so great. I didn't realize at the time that it was due to the fact that we never changed the bag. If I actually bothered the change the bag, it would have been a lot better. That still doesn't solve the stairs problem. We donated it.
My boyfriend and I moved to a new apartment and bought a canister vacuum instead. We really wanted a Miele, but settled for an inexpensive Eureka knockoff. I loved it at first. But the cord retraction thing wasn't reliable. I had it for many years, but donated when I moved out of state.
Eventually I had a new boyfriend who forced me into getting a shop vac. Because they were powerful and had a HEPA filter. And they're super cheap. I had never used such a powerful vacuum. It was great, but it was louder than a jet engine. And it was unwieldy. And the air outlet blew dust and crap everywhere.
A couple years after we broke up, I gave that shop vac away. I was finally gonna get a Miele. My DREAM VACUUM. It took forever to arrive, but finally it came the other week. Good suction, smartly located air outlet, HEPA filter. But it's a really ugly color. And it is still a vacuum so it takes up a lot of space. If I could have a different color, I totally would. I'd love to have a lavender-colored Miele. Of course, I'd probably get sick of that eventually since my color preferences change over time.
Even though it cost me an arm and a leg, I definitely won't have this vacuum for the rest of my life. It's a vacuum, after all. If it breaks, I'll get a new one. If I want a prettier color, I'll get a prettier color (as long as I can afford it, of course). When I die, whatever vacuum I ended up with will simply be whatever the latest vacuum that I bought was. Plain and simple. It's just a vacuum, after all.
**NVM see women as objects. They do not see them as partners, equals, or full human beings. They seem them as objects. They see them the same way I see vacuums.**
*Should my old upright vacuum be sad that I got rid of it?*
No. I didn't even know how to use it. And it's not the vacuum's fault that my townhouse had stairs.
*Should my Eureka canister vacuum be said that I donated it? I loved it at first and had it for a long time...*
No. I used it until it didn't work as well anymore. And the novelty definitely wore off.
*Should my shop vac be sad that I got rid of it?*
No. I mainly got it because social expectations (boyfriend at the time). It wasn't the right tool for the job anyway, since I was using it in my house.
*Should any of those vacuums have felt threatened by knowing a Miele was my dream vacuum?*
No. The days are numbered on any vacuum I own. It's just a vacuum. If I want a different one, I'll get a different one. I might even get a different Miele. And if some hot new brand comes out, then I’ll want that one instead.
*Isn't the Miele an "upgrade"?*
For now it is, but only for my use case (an apartment). But if my situation changes, I'm sure I'll miss the shop vac. If I lose all my money, I'd definitely sell the Miele. Every vacuum was an upgrade compared to the one before it *by virtue of it being a new vacuum.* The whole upgrade thing doesn't really matter. It's an illusion, really. **I just love a new toy.** Anyone who lives in a consumerist society understands the appeal of a new toy.
*Isn't the Miele better than all the other vacuums you owned before?*
Not really. It's better at some things and worse at others. It takes up more space than the upright, cost 20 times as much as my Eureka canister, and is way less powerful than my shop vac. It'll wear out over time, too.
The moral of the story:
* You are not a vacuum.
* You should not aspire to be a vacuum.
**Find a man that sees you as a beloved partner and human being, not a replaceable object.**
There is no "Dream Girl". Because if there is, she's not a "girl", **she's a "thing" or an "object". And she’s replaceable. There's always a shiny new model out there — a new “dream”.** Don't envy your replacement. He sees them as replaceable utility objects. **He has rotten values that distort his perception of humanity.** Those same objectifying values will lead him to abandon his “dream” for someone “better” (read: newer), or abandon her if she “stops working” (gets sick). Furthermore, those rotten values are in the same family as those that propel people to rape, murder, and commit atrocities. You don’t want someone with those values. **You want someone with a heart who sees people as people and values you as a person, not an object.**
YOU ARE NOT A VACUUM.
despite the fact he abandoned me at a train station. My husband is worth a million of him. However it was great for the ego that he still thinks of me like that. 
You deserve better 
xx
But it will go away, one day you’ll just think why do I care, that will be the best day ever until then do what you have to do. If it means looking at their page everyday then do so, if it means blocking them and never seeing them again then do so. Everyone heals differently. I hope you get the closure you’re looking for 
sometimes I think they stayed together out of spite/was at that age when everyone was getting engaged, houses, married etc