Scenario: moving to the other side of the world in 2 months and will not see friends or family for at least 2 years. was meant to move last year but was postponed due to covid. I won’t be able to see everyone I’d want to to say goodbye due to restrictions which I am okay with but I’m in two minds as to whether we should say goodbye to nearest and dearest? This would be brother and sis in law, parents in law, and our 2 very closest best friends. Seeing the brother and SIL would be this weekend coming as he is going away for 4 months due to work. Seeing the others would be next month.
I am really in two minds as to what to do. We stayed here alone for Xmas, have only seen our family when it was summer last year when we were allowed to. It’s really pissing me off seeing people breaking rules all the time cos I haven’t done this myself and I keep thinking ‘sod this why should I keep putting effort in when others aren’t’ but I know that it’s the wrong thing to do....
No nasty comments but genuinely wanting to hear what you would do in this situation? I’m not looking for validation either because I haven’t even made a decision.
I am really in two minds as to what to do. We stayed here alone for Xmas, have only seen our family when it was summer last year when we were allowed to. It’s really pissing me off seeing people breaking rules all the time cos I haven’t done this myself and I keep thinking ‘sod this why should I keep putting effort in when others aren’t’ but I know that it’s the wrong thing to do....
No nasty comments but genuinely wanting to hear what you would do in this situation? I’m not looking for validation either because I haven’t even made a decision.
but in reality that wouldn’t happen (let’s hope!!) 