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Nottonightbabe

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There really should be a study to see if there’s a correlation between illiteracy and setting up Go Fund Me pages! 😉
It appears the less educated one appears, the more money is needed from complete strangers “to give them the send off they deserve!”
Costs a lot of money to fly high with the angles these days.
 
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Hollie Day

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I'd say its the women in the brothels that are in a more of a vulnerable position than the seedy men who visit them.
 
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pommynoir

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Anyone following case of Fiona Pender? Digs haven't found anything. But might be a secondary purpose of freaking out the main suspect or his relatives (still living in Ireland).

Ive just read this, has the whole story for anyone wanting to follow it. Including his alleged confessions to his (ex) wife.

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The tragic disappearance of Fiona Pender

Fiona Pender was a 25 year old Irish woman who vanished from her home in Tullamore, Ireland on August 23rd 1996. At the time of her disappearance, Fiona was 7 months pregnant. Despite an enormous police investigation and numerous campaigns for information, she has never been found.

Fiona was the only daughter of Sean and Josephine Pender, born on July 13th 1971. She also had two brothers, Mark and John. Tragically, however, Mark was killed in a motorbike accident in June 1995, after his bike hit a verge and swerved into oncoming traffic. Not much is known about Fiona's early life, but her brother John would later recall "I've nothing but good memories of childhood with her. She was bright and bubbly and she always had a smile on her face."

By August 1996, Fiona was sharing a small apartment with her boyfriend John Thompson. The couple were living on Church Street in the small town of Tullamore, having returned to Ireland from London in the winter of 1995. At this stage, Fiona was working as a hairdresser and part-time model. On the surface, her relationship seemed normal and happy; she was 7 months pregnant, had her own little home and lived with her partner. However, under the surface, things were not as perfect as they seemed. It's alleged that in early 1996, while in the initial stages of pregnancy, John had strangled Fiona to the extent that she lost consciousness and had blood vessels burst in her eye. She later confided the details of this event to her brother John but swore him to silence, stating that she didn't want to worry her parents. She believed that her partner had changed his ways and thus, had forgiven him for attacking her.

On Thursday 22nd August, Fiona and her mother Josephine went out shopping, hoping to buy clothes for her baby that was due in a little over 2 months time. During the course of the day, they made two trips to the Bridge shopping centre in Tullamore, with Fiona being described as "in good form". She had also told her mother that she was looking for a bigger house to live in, as their current apartment wouldn't be big enough for the couple and their new child. After they'd finished shopping, Fiona and Josephine got a taxi back to the Pender home, approximately 10 minutes away. Josephine fondly recalls how Fiona started flicking through a copy of Hello magazine and showed her father a photo of the singer Eric Clapton holding up a salmon that he'd caught. Sean was getting his own fishing gear together that afternoon in preparation for an upcoming trip and the two had fallen about laughing and joking at the image. After having lunch and catching up for a few hours, Fiona was walked home by her parents and brother John. Josephine vividly remembered this moment, stating "My son John joined us, and the three of us walked Fiona back to her flat at Church Street. We walked into the flat with her. It was around 7 o'clock and I gave her a kiss. I remember clearly, as myself and John walked across the road I waved back at her. And that's the last memory I have of Fiona; her little face at the door."

On Friday 23rd August, Josephine called round to Fiona's flat and knocked on the door but she got no response. She noticed that the blinds were still down, and assuming that Fiona might have been sleeping, she decided to leave. She also remembered that some of Fiona's friends had returned home from America and figured that she could have been out with them, catching up. With little cause for concern, Josephine headed home. The following evening, on Saturday 24th August, Josephine and John decided to go and say hello to Fiona and the two made their way to her flat. Worryingly, there was still no response and the flat was in darkness with the blinds still drawn. Josephine immediately knew that something was horribly wrong and hurried home to call Fiona's partner, John Thompson. John explained that he hadn't seen Fiona since the morning of the 23rd at around 6am, when he'd left the flat to go and work on his family's farm, which is where he'd been ever since. However, he agreed to meet the Pender family and they all went to the local Garda station to report Fiona missing that night.

Although Fiona was reported missing on Saturday 24th, it was Monday 26th before an appeal was made and an investigation was launched. By then, it was obvious that Fiona wasn't in any of her usual spots and nobody had seen or spoken to her since the 22nd. With the knowledge that she was 7 months pregnant, a nationwide appeal was made by midday on Monday and a huge investigation was immediately launched. A thorough examination of the flat revealed absolutely nothing, with no signs of a disturbance or break in. In fact, Josephine noted that Fiona's shopping bags were in exactly the same spot as they had been on the 22nd and that nothing had been unpacked. Ponds, bogland, forests and mountains were all searched over the following weeks but they were eventually called off, having uncovered absolutely nothing. Fiona's due date eventually passed and it was at this stage that reality began to sink in for her family as they realised that Fiona wouldn't be coming home.

Months passed with seemingly very little progress but then, in April 1997, John Thompson, his father and his 3 sisters were arrested and taken to Tullamore Garda station. They were interviewed for 12 hours straight but eventually released and returned back to their respective homes, with no charges pressed. However, it was later revealed that Garda considered John a suspect in Fiona's disappearance. Also around this time, some interesting information came to light by two different witnesses. One man, who had been walking home from a pub on Church Street at around 2am on Friday 23rd, had observed two men loading a "Large, bulky item that was wrapped in carpet" into the back of a large 4x4 type vehicle. A short time later, another man had been driving along a small country road in the Slieve Bloom mountains, approximately 20 miles from Tullamore, when a large 4x4 type vehicle came driving towards at him at extremely high speed and in an erratic manner, almost forcing him off the road. He didn't get a good look at the driver but he could recall that the car had a large sticker on the windscreen that said "Keep her lit". Whilst neither the vehicle, nor the two men have been identified, it was alleged that John Thompson owned a large 4x4 that also had an identical window sticker.

Several years passed with no updates in the case but tragically, on March 31st 2000, Sean Pender took his own life, his body being discovered by his son John. Josephine would go on to say that Fiona's disappearance is what killed Sean, stating "My husband cried every night for his children. He looked like a man with cancer: he was fading away, he looked so weak. He become so sick because of what happened to our family, he went so low and he just couldn't take any more. He's at peace now. I believe he's in heaven because he already suffered and went through hell here on earth."

In May 2008, a small cross was found in Monicknew Woods, in the Slieve Bloom mountains, reading "Fiona Pender. Buried here August 22nd 1996." Searches were carried out in the area but these revealed nothing. However, Garda don't believe that this was a hoax and they have stated that they find it interesting that the cross says she was buried on the 22nd whenever she was allegedly last seen by John on the morning of the 23rd. John Thompson left Ireland for Canada in 2012 but in 2014, was arrested and charged with numerous offences, including sexual assault and making death threats to his wife. Video footage had been found on various laptops that depicted the couple engaged in sexual activities, but John's wife had no memory or recollection of the events and believed that John had drugged and then raped her, recording himself committing the act. She also told investigators that she had found a similar tape several years earlier when they were still living in Ireland. She had confronted John and he had reportedly stormed off, vanishing for a week. When he returned, he told her that he wanted to move to Canada as they didn't have an extradition treaty with Ireland. Most interestingly, she told police that one night, while in a terrible rage, John had told her "You know I've done it before. They'll never find you. You'll end up like her." The only reason she hadn't spoken out sooner was because she was so scared for her safety, noting John's bad temper and violent tendencies. Shockingly, in October 2015, John walked free from court after the judge ruled that it couldn't be determined that he had actually commited nonconsensual acts against his wife and the case was thrown out. However, John's wife filed for divorce and the couple separated.

Using information given to them by John's wife before the trial, Garda began a fresh dig at a new location in the Slieve Bloom mountains in December 2014. She had told investigators that John had taken her there over 10 years before and told her that Fiona was buried there, reminding her that she would end up in the same place if she stepped out of line. However, the dig revealed nothing and Garda later determined that John must have deliberately misled her in an effort to throw investigators off the scent.

Devastatingly, in September 2017, Josephine Pender passed away after a battle with cancer, never seeing her daughters case solved or anyone brought to justice for her disappearance. John Pender has now taken up the mantle, campaigning tirelessly for information that might see his sister and her child brought home so that they can be laid to rest with their parents and brother. Sadly, the only suspect in her case is walking free on the other side of the world and there has been absolutely no evidence that could help investigators. Unfortunately, because of this, her final resting place is still unknown and her case tragically remains unsolved.

Sources: https://www.irishtimes.com/news/cri...suspect-and-a-motive-but-no-justice-1.3221455





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50sGirl

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He has epilepsy. Might have just had a fit and injured himself. Depends what injuries he has though, it doesn't give many details.

Edit - Nevermind, I missed the bit where it says they think he was attacked.
He has epilepsy but apparently because the holiday was “last minute” he didn’t buy any insurance.
I’m sorry but it only takes a few minutes to sort online so that is no excuse.
I should think, because he has a pre-existing condition, that the insurance would’ve been more expensive than usual.
I really think travel insurance should be mandatory.
 
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Prissypaws

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Has anyone read about the missing boy in Llandudno?

“ An extensive search is under way for a "vulnerable" 16-year-old boy who was last seen at a seaside resort wearing only his swimming shorts.
Police were alerted at about 14:00 BST on Saturday after Athrun, who is autistic, was reported missing from West Shore Beach in Llandudno, Conwy county, close to the boating lake and playpark.”

Initially looked like he was vulnerable as he’s autistic and possibly non verbal, but then people discovered this page where his parents were documenting what seems like very private information (now taken down)
Very odd, and sad.
 

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SweetPerdita

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On an unrelated note, has anyone watched the new Amy Bradley documentary on Netflix? She's the young woman who vanished from a cruise ship in the Caribbean about 20 years ago, and was then rumoured to have been trafficked (I personally think she fell overboard but who knows).
I agree. I don't think it's remotely plausible that she was kidnapped and it's stupid how conspiracy theorists latch onto this "affluent middle class white women being sex trafficked" nonsense just because they believe ludicrous Netflix shows (and Netflix have a horrible reputation for making wildly inaccurate true crime documentaries, like that terrible Elisa Lam one). The only thing that points to sex trafficking is eye witnesses claiming to have seen her but those eye witness accounts all contradict each other and every missing person case generates tons of eye witness accounts which are often later proven to be fake/mistakes.


A very drunk and troubled young woman from an emotionally abusive family goes onto the balcony of the room she's sharing with her entire family after partying till the early hours, and 20-30 minutes later her dad wakes up to find her gone, and that she'd dragged a table right up to the balcony. Which is more likely:

a) She climbed on the table because she felt sick and needed to vomit and fell over the balcony (or possibly made the decision to jump due to suicidal impulses caused by the recent major fallout and drama with her family).

Or b), a silent psychic magical sex trafficker just psychically knew the exact 20-30 minute window in which her entire family were asleep, decided to abduct someone with their family sleeping just feet away, teleported inside the room, physically overpowered a not especially petite woman in total silence, somehow moved her (conscious? unconscious?) person to somewhere else in the ship and hid it, somehow managed to smuggle a person down the gangplank unnoticed, then sold her to a brothel. Which isn't remotely how sex trafficking works, ever.

The issue with the Amy Bradley case is that every single bit of info comes from her parents who have proven to be habitual liars, and were evidently controlling and emotionally abusive (spent years insisting she wasn't a lesbian, made up a fake boyfriend and lied to law enforcement and to the media about this fake boyfriend to hide the fact Amy was a lesbian, and wrote three-page abusive letters to Amy's ex-girlfriend). It's also weird that when the dad woke up to find that Amy was no longer in the cabin, he immediately assumed she'd been abducted, rather than that she'd simply gone elsewhere on the ship.


I can't help but wonder if their obsession with her not being a lesbian is behind their fixation on her being sex trafficked. Most parents whose children are victims of horrible crimes go into denial about it, but Amy's parents are desperate to believe that she's spent years being tortured and raped over dying a quick and probably fairly painless accidental death. That's weird, especially the insistence on Amy being repeatedly raped. It reminds me of what the McCanns said about Maddie's "perfect genitals" being torn up, maybe there's some subconscious wish fulfilment in wanting Amy to be heterosexual so badly.
 
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Nottonightbabe

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Same, I've seen that too, and people saying stop hiding the fact as it's confirmed by his mates (who apparently were actually with him) that this was the last location.
Obviously trying to protect the gf but the truth needs told, he might have just been going along and not actually participating but it's starting to get a bit JS JG. Lots of thicket and drops there too, I'm getting a JS vibe.
Trying to protect the gf but also, probably trying not to admit to their own gfs that they were at the brothel as well!
 
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Melian

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40 years since Suzy Lamplugh disappeared

 
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Dotty Merton

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The missing Putney Pusher has been found and arrested! Remember the jogger who pushed the woman in front of a bus in london. He's a banker and mates with the royals so says the press.
 
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Tangent Tiger

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Yes I had a friend drown himself recently. I wish he'd spoken to one of us, it appeared he'd made his mind up to do it and we didn't know.
 
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Boogs

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I wonder if she is having some kind of mental health crisis. Jogging 45 mins at 3am for milk and wine doesn’t sound like healthy decision making.
 
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Closedeyes

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Article on the Mail about a wee 17 year old who’s snuck out of the family home and got on a one way flight to Malaysia. Turned off his phone. Family have heard nothing for a month!!
 
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Violetroselily

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40 years since Suzy Lamplugh disappeared

If any cold case could be solved, I wish it was this. Her parents did such amazing charitable work, it's so unfair they died without know what happened.
 
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