Same here, and it will have repercussions for M as the children get the blame for it even though it’s not in their control!i was ALWAYS late to school and it used to give me such anxiety knowing i couldn’t help it. I still give my self far too much time to get places because of it nowI do like her but theres things where i think if she was rough from a council estate she would be slated.
As everyone else has said I don’t see how this relationship will last, where is the normality like spending a weekend together watching tv, doing the food shop, getting a takeaway etc?!