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Youokayhun23
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Think he was on about 82k wasn't he? I'll look at social blade or whatever it's called.
So glad he's being called out for this and she's getting good support from his ex etc. His friends have stayed very quiet which doesn't surprise me. Though maybe they're dealing with the shock as abusers can be incredibly clever at masking how vile they are out in social situations with others
So glad he's being called out for this and she's getting good support from his ex etc. His friends have stayed very quiet which doesn't surprise me. Though maybe they're dealing with the shock as abusers can be incredibly clever at masking how vile they are out in social situations with others
Bingpot720
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100% ,that was the phrase I was looking for! I'd have had more respect for him of he'd held his hands up and said "she's right, our relationship was a toxic mess but I did this to her. I'm sorry." Instead of all the whining and "but she did this!".Agree with the last couple of comments. This is classic DARVO isn’t it?
uglybettybetty
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He’s deflecting. And this is what makes me think he could be the abuser she says he is. Narcs and abusive people are always very well calculated and usually they can influence and change how people see them. They’re very smart with how they paint out their victims. His statement, whilst very well written and obviously well thought through, seems to be a lot of “she did this to me and acted this way on my birthday and I went to a club without inviting her” whilst it’s all very toxic stuff, it still isn’t really addressing the abuse he’s just denying it. There are others who have spoken out about him. I’m unsure who to believe but I think it’ll be interesting to see how this unfolds
Blahblah93
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I'm really intrigued to see what Charlie Craggs will say about it. She's usually pretty loud with stuff like this, I wonder if she has the same energy when it's her mate.
louderforthecheapseats
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I feel for her, so many people staying silent
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Yes! Classic. If you Google "DARVO examples" it's tick, tick, tick, tick...Agree with the last couple of comments. This is classic DARVO isn’t it?
Iwantyoutoknow22
Chatty Member
Same. So many screenshots, don’t paint her in a good light
Bingpot720
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And what a career it has been, getting paid to talk about...being trans? I don't really know. I only started following him when he was with Megan (because I adore her) and never got good vibes from their relationship.
louderforthecheapseats
VIP Member
There’s a lot to take in there. And she’s back on talking about what he’s said
There’s some very random shit going on there. Making him call 111 so she didn’t have to appear in court for something she’d done?! Surely as a lawyer/trainee lawyer she must know that’d put her career on the line
Wonder what way this is going, especially given she’s not the only one to speak out
There’s some very random shit going on there. Making him call 111 so she didn’t have to appear in court for something she’d done?! Surely as a lawyer/trainee lawyer she must know that’d put her career on the line
Wonder what way this is going, especially given she’s not the only one to speak out
Bingpot720
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LottieLamour reposted which I thought might help but it hasn't got anywhere near the reach she needs. Feel awful for her.
I would agree but it feels like nobody has even noticed! If it wasn't for Dani's story I wouldn't have known, as I don't know of/follow Olivia. Maybe because of his damage limitation efforts
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louderforthecheapseats
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His posts on his grid are all with Charlie Craggs but not sure that’s who you mean. I’m a bit disappointed with some of the people who I follow who are still following him to be honest
I don't know who his friends are so have no idea who this could be, but it's awful.
Also, Stephanie Yeboah has (sort of) posted about it. Olivia reshared a few stories from people calling him out, but i knew none of them. He was on 81k followers the day she disclosed his abuse. Now hes on 79.8k.
Bingpot720
Member
I'm still following him because I want to see his sorry excuses. Cannot WAIT to see him cancelled. All the stuff after him and Megan broke up, therapy talk, "working on himself" etc etc. Clearly didn't work hard enough!
And these. She must feel so shite that everybody is so silent!
Not sure who is being referred to on the second pic.
A lot of people I follow are still following. I noticed lalalaletmeexplain unfollowed but she hasn't posted about it. She normally calls people out
Not sure who is being referred to on the second pic.
A lot of people I follow are still following. I noticed lalalaletmeexplain unfollowed but she hasn't posted about it. She normally calls people out
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Bingpot720
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Stephanie Yeboah has now shared Olivia's post on her stories.
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Not getting as much traction as I'd hoped, but obviously the GE is forefront at the moment.
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Not getting as much traction as I'd hoped, but obviously the GE is forefront at the moment.
Deathbecameher
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I’m so torn as well, I don’t believe you’d lay everything out like that if you were covering your tracks…but also really don’t want to believe someone would be so twisted as to make up those lies…