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Does anyone remember a few months back when a load of these influencers (Danielle, Kenny, felicity Hayward) all went on a virgin cruise trip, there was an influencer with them who I cannot for the life of me remember the name of and i really want to check if she’s unfollowed Kenny because she was really pally with him. I think her name started with K, she was really petite and seemed very bubbly and fashionable i remember Kenny posting stories with her
His posts on his grid are all with Charlie Craggs but not sure that’s who you mean. I’m a bit disappointed with some of the people who I follow who are still following him to be honest
She’s put up the allegations again and he’s now posted a 31 page response on his page, loads of screenshots of her messages to him, she slashed his tyres, he’s alleging her abusive behaviour
Jesus Christ. Ive just read the whole document. I have absolutely no idea what I think about it all.
Same. So many screenshots, don’t paint her in a good light
There’s a lot to take in there. And she’s back on talking about what he’s said
There’s some very random tit going on there. Making him call 111 so she didn’t have to appear in court for something she’d done?! Surely as a lawyer/trainee lawyer she must know that’d put her career on the line
Wonder what way this is going, especially given she’s not the only one to speak out
There’s some very random tit going on there. Making him call 111 so she didn’t have to appear in court for something she’d done?! Surely as a lawyer/trainee lawyer she must know that’d put her career on the line
Wonder what way this is going, especially given she’s not the only one to speak out
I'm still erring on the side of believing her. I don't believe Megan would have spoken out if he hadn't been abusive towards her as well. The screenshots don't paint her (Olivia) in a good light either but his statement is a lot of "yeah that happened BUT BUT BUT" which...y'know. Not innocent.
They both seem like twisted people, based on what they’ve shared. Toxic beyond toxic.
Judging by his mention of high profile influencers on his story, I am guessing that he is going to be suing for defamation and loss of earnings. I wonder what Danielle Vanier thinks of his response, she was another one who was very vocal about him and regularly posted about him on her story. It seems to me that the whole relationship was extremely toxic. Olivia seems like a very erratic person, she really reminds me of someone that I know who has BPD. I’m not trying to make excuses but her behaviour seems almost identical to that that I have seen from BPD. His response has obviously been very well calculated and I suspect he has been in talks with solicitors. Right now, the evidence kind of shows Olivia as being a liar. But of course we know that he could be painting this out in that way on purpose. A lot of the time abuses and narcissistic people do this and usually get great pleasure from staying calm whilst making their victim look crazy. Which is why I am a little bit hesitant and don’t really know who to believe anymore.
I’m so torn as well, I don’t believe you’d lay everything out like that if you were covering your tracks…but also really don’t want to believe someone would be so twisted as to make up those lies…
I have been trying all day and the link to his response won't work for me!
Try the link in his bio
Reading it again (and this tit is bleeping LONG) it barely addresses her accusations at all. Just "she did this" and "people told me she was like this". It's whataboutery and distraction. He DID pin her down (as part of sex) - he can't say for sure that she wasn't scared/unwilling. His mate DID grab her arm (he says to get her out of his car). He DID say that she "disrespected him". And then it just bangs on about "she did XYZ" and "boohoo I've lost loads of money".
No doubt it was a toxic relationship and Olivia doesn't cover herself in glory. But victims don't have to be angels to be victims.
No doubt it was a toxic relationship and Olivia doesn't cover herself in glory. But victims don't have to be angels to be victims.
He’s deflecting. And this is what makes me think he could be the abuser she says he is. Narcs and abusive people are always very well calculated and usually they can influence and change how people see them. They’re very smart with how they paint out their victims. His statement, whilst very well written and obviously well thought through, seems to be a lot of “she did this to me and acted this way on my birthday and I went to a club without inviting her” whilst it’s all very toxic stuff, it still isn’t really addressing the abuse he’s just denying it. There are others who have spoken out about him. I’m unsure who to believe but I think it’ll be interesting to see how this unfolds
I think in these situations we are always searching for the "right" and the "wrong" sides when usually it is nuanced and much more complicated (although such situations exist). For me, in terms of which side it falls towards I tend to believe a majority female and/or vulnerable voice particularly when there are multiple people making accusations. I just think it is always more difficult for such people to remove themselves from situations mentally, practically etc and if the other party who tries to act all cool and collected was in such a bad situation when didn't they just leave? I find this situation more complicated to read though given that both sides have clear vulnerabilities. But given other people have also come forward and these people have gone on to have healthy relationships, it seems like he is the common denominator.
It’s possible that both of them are narcissistic, abusive, toxic assholes.
It’s extremely telling that Olivia hasn’t posted since yesterday, she is probably feeling quite exposed right now. He has basically shared so many incidents that weren’t even related to the abuse allegations. I wonder if she is going to respond to his Google doc and address the incidents
People who lie often provide excessive details in an attempt to make their story appear more credible and convincing. A person who is being completely honest doesn't feel the inner need to “prove” anything beforehand. A person who is telling the truth is already mentally prepared to answer any question asked because they do not have to remember a memorized script, they only have to recall a memory.
Cough cough Kenny cough. 🫣
Cough cough Kenny cough. 🫣
Yes! it felt very deflective. Very disappointing to see influencers liking and commenting on his post. Especially disappointed to see small influencer Kaz Foncet has shown her support for him and commented on his post. She is a cancer charity owner and works with a lot of women. I couldn’t find her account at first but I remember she was on a cruise with Kenny, I wondered what her stance would be. I feel so extremely disappointed in anyone who is standing by this man. But especially disappointed to see someone who is an advocate for women dealing with cancer, standing by him. I think a lot more will come out about him. The fact that there are other women who have admitted to suffering because of him says a lot. The fact that he has produced a humongous document with loads of unrelated incidents makes him look even more guilty in my opinion. At first I was confused and didn’t know if I should believe him. He seems to know what to say, and his document is very well written. But abusers often do this and often know exactly what to say to paint out their victims as being “crazy” which is exactly what his doc is doing