Right, I'm going to say something and if it is awful then please feel free to report to mods etc.
I'm very sorry that someone has lost their life, that's awful. Especially as he has children.
However as the survivor of narcissistic abuse i have educated myself over the past few years. Threatening to take your life and actually taking your own life are the tools of a narcissist. Dying by your own hand is the ultimate 'win' for a narcissist. You can't try and justify or understand it if you don't have the experience.
Their brains aren't wired normally. To be dead and make others look bad is just one example how they 'win'. It's why estranged parents kill their children to spite the other parent.
I'm not sorry about anything I've posted on here. I have only ever mocked obvious bullshit, which is what I believe everyone else has done.
All we have done is called out the lies of an obvious fantasist. No one on here needs to feel bad about anything.
Just waiting for notadoc Jess and et al spinning shite that it was all Tattle's fault.
I hear you. Narcissistic collapse (I think they call it) is when a narcissist is no longer able to maintain their projected image of themselves, whether due to criticism, shame or being exposed - ridicule in particular (narcs take themselves incredibly seriously) - and a breakdown of some kind ensues. I’ve seen it in a close family member, and I think that’s what’s happened here.
There were two aspects to Jason’s downfall, I guess. One was the plagiarism and the academic side - the plagiarism itself, the inflated CV, dodgy hirings etc. The other was the whole fantasy life that he had constructed, which fell apart under the mildest scrutiny. If it were not for the fantasy life, I don’t think the story would have attracted as much attention (plagiarism / academia is too dry by itself for most people). And most people with a fantasy life (and there are plenty of them around - I think we all know people like this, I certainly do) don’t actually end up being exposed like Jason was. In normal life, these people just end up being ignored, or people just roll their eyes when they tell another tall story. Everyone knows what they’re like. And for what it’s worth, I think Jason’s family must have known to some extent - how could they not?
I suspect the last straw might have been that people from his childhood were starting to talk. That was the last piece in the house of cards.
Cambridge has a lot to answer for too. Universities these days usually have departments which offer mental health support to students (as part of their duty of care) - you’d think the same would be the case for academics, particularly if they are on suspension or undergoing review. So I wonder if they offered this sort of support to him.