We have a massive problem in Western society where some disorders are viewed as being socially accepted and embraced, whilst others are heavily stigmatised. How on earth did we get here?!
Going by my social media, about 80% of my followers believe they have ADHD. Some of them are on waiting list to be formally diagnosed, and some seem to be self diagnosing. They want to be ADHD, and put out humours reposts of having an ADHD brain. Teehee.
How many of those people do you think would be so keen to self diagnose themselves with narcissistic personality disorder, borderline personality disorder, antisocial personality disorder, schizophrenia, depression or autism? They won’t, because they are not perceived as being disorders that give them an advantage. They are disorders they perceive to give them a disadvantage.
I know this will be an unpopular comment but I go back to my previous comment - we are just not being honest anymore. We are all too scared of offending and questioning people who self identify for some kind of leverage. These people are being indulged, and their real problems are not being addressed.