It's the Fergusons #8

[Cleopops]

Hang on, hang on, hang on,
They said before they have an entire wardrobe of clothes for her, so.....
How come if nothing is ever returned there's an entire wardrobe of clothes
And if that was true why wouldn't you send her home in the clothes she was wearing that originated from her house therefore solving supposed problem?
I suppose Dad of the year is too busy posting memes 24/7 on Dadnset to have time to check they have a swimming costume, and St Jen has to prioritise volunteering with the elderly

 

[hattie20]

So, if a child says they don’t want to go are you supposed to force them? Make them go somewhere that they aren’t comfortable?

You can bet if it was the other way round and I’d lived with the saints and didn’t want to visit her mum, he would be respecting her choices and shouting about it.

 

[Ellegee]

Saw this shared today & thought of a certain person!

 

[Folklikeme]

Why does he keep calling her high conflict. I thought there was zero communication, how can it be high conflict. I really feel sorry for Isla all her business splashed across the Internet

 

[hattie20]

It’s never their fault though is it? Always the nasty “bio mum” ruining their lives and traumatising T.

It’s getting so old now, I can’t believe people are still falling for their nonsense.

 

[hattie20]

They know bringing up the Isla calling Jen mum thing gets a reaction. They’ve used it for years.

This really is all they have got, isn’t it?

I mean, no one actually gives a shit about Mark Owen or Jen going to the gym.

So they have taken this and just run with it. Like others have said before, it’s what bonds they pair of them together too.

It’s actually quite sad.

 

[ShhItsASecret]

No time to get things done, but time to come on Instagram and tell us all that she hasn’t got the time! What a martyr.

Also- Louis is a fucking adult, he doesn’t need you to drive him to school. FFS! Saw this meme and it’s absolutely them.

 

[cgl22345]

It’s sad really that they were the ones who cheated and who caused this mess, but they portray themselves as the victims and people actually believe their bullshit that her mum is this evil nasty person.

Her mum is just hurt, as anyone would be who was cheated on when pregnant and abandoned post birth. How can neither of the nasty pair see how much that must affect someone…

I’s mum is over them and not hurt by what they did. It sucked at the time but now she has built a new life and family with Is stepdad and new siblings. She is really happy, but gets fed up with the verbal abuse from Al, and the sneaky behaviour from them both- picking I up early etc. she was never bitter and put her daughter first at all times. She is what those 2 will never be- a brilliant parent.

 

[Crazymum]

This really pisses me off . They went away for their 3 weeks holiday and now they’re moaning that it will be 6 weeks since they’ve seen I as she’s off on her family holiday. And love how they have to bring in that T won’t get to see his sister . Tough the little girl has her other family and brothers too not just T.

 

[Mammy4]

They’re disgusting . Im beyond annoyed at them . Just let her enjoy her birthday. Why are you dragging shit up all the time. She will hate them in years to come! I feel so much resentment to my mother after she behaved likes this! I’m 44 now. I’m with 6 kids married for 24 years. Some parents just are evil and drive the narrative and live in fairy land. Generally the cheating one that one’s to sound good! I still find it hard and I was 8 when it happened!

Ugh I just look at the posts and wonder what is planted in that little girl’s head it makes me so sad for her. They won’t be happy until they have destroyed her mummy… I’m sure they are bitter about her mum’s happiness and they just want to tear her down. Anyone would think she was the one who ended the marriage… not that he was having an affair whilst she was heavily pregnant.
I truly wish they would just act like parents instead of sharing that child’s life on social media. It’s really not fair that Isla’s life is all over social media without the agreement of her mum too. She’s 10 now and old enough to understand. She sent YOU a photo Al, not 30 thousand people.

 

[Mrspowell]

So H came up on my suggested friends on FB tonight… so I was having a little nose. On her mums Facebook there’s some open posts about the time they took isla and made out they were taking her away for a week when actually it was one day, having seen the posts, it was actually clearly worse than we knew at the time I can’t imagine the terror he caused them all. Someone in a comment calls him the double crossing adulterer. Very apt

 

[Win]

They are so boring. I’m only hanging around to see them pay their own their own rent.

 

[Ellegee]

They replied to a couple of comments to say thanks but I’s mum has posted the same photo so it’s okay. The replies seem to have been deleted now though. Not sure how I’s mum would post the same photo of I at L’s dads house? And it’s hardly the same. These drips have 30 thousand followers.

How do they know if they’re blocked everywhere & there’s no communication?

 

[Rippedjeanmaybe]

Imagine telling people that both parents can submit an application and that they both get voided if neither parent can agree… what an awful situation for an 11 year old. Starting high school is traumatic enough without your parents using you as a weapon to the point that you get placed in a random school.

 

[Gingercream]

I can’t take anything she says seriously since she was seen getting out of the car to pose for photos at a BLM march and then getting back into the car and driving off without taking part in the march. Everything she does is for attention.

 

[Wizzywoo2]

No point in Isla being with them as he's turned up took the golden child and pissed of to the football so isla would have been left with Jen as girls clearly can't go to watch football with their dads! She so much better of away from that toxic pair.

 

[Gingercream]

And cheating Al spends the day at the office! You'd think he'd take time to spend time with I!

I don’t think he’s that bothered whether he sees her or not, it’s just his angle for engagement and instagram likes. He chose not to see her when she was a newborn as he was too busy with St Jen (Al cheated on his heavily pregnant wife) but that was before they had dadsnet etc and when he had a proper job.

 

[Christmascupcake90]

I feel so sad for Isla. Regardless of what 'side' anyone is on ( we only get to see one side of course) none of this is fair on that little girl.

She seems a lovely girl who is close to all her caregivers/parents and siblings. Her private life is being blabber all over social media, where her peers will be able to see it, where she will be able to see it.

The adults can say they are ' raising awareness' doing it for support etc etc and yeah even if that is the case- they now need to put that girl first. She is of an age now where she shouldn't have such private things about her life shared. They need to do the decent thing and stop talking about their situation on a public account.

 

[lUra1233]

there must be huge safe guarding issues- contact wouldn’t be stopped for no reason. (Unless I has decided she doesn’t want to go!) not surprising really.

 

[hattie20]

Probably wants to turn him into the human blob so he doesn’t cheat

She probably spends her life paranoid that he will cheat on her and leave her too (seriously Jen, don’t worry. His personality alone is enough to send women running in the other direction).