It's the Ferguson's #7 Using his daughter for insta because he traded ex for a spinster

[helloitsme321]

I started looking at these threads after becoming increasingly uncomfortable about the way Al and Jen have been commenting about I and her Mum’s family over the last few weeks. I’ve been a follower of theirs for several years and have only previously found them occasionally mildly irritating. The recent public bashing of Is mum has been horrendous, especially given I is openly on their profile and therefore her Mum’s identity cannot be hidden (surely this could potentially put them at risk?) Flicking between their IG and these threads I’m astounded how they directly use content from here to gauge how they need to direct their stories and posts and how they are now clearly trying to backtrack on how vile they’ve been by talking about Is other brothers etc in a positive and nice way. I’m actually astounded

 

[C7645]

Thread number 7 for al and Jen Ferguson, credit to @OrangeStrawberry for the winning thread title from the last thread - Had to modify so it would fit!

General Overview of the last 6 threads - It's worth reading at least the overviews on each of the previous threads

• Al cheated on his pregnant wife, Hannah, with Jen. Al claims him and Jen were only friends at the start, and it turned into something more. But he also claimed he fell in love with Jen when he first saw her.
• Hannah was working flat out in her job as a midwife, while carrying baby Isla, to make a decent life for her family. While Al was off fucking another woman, without a second thought for his wife and unborn child.
• Al left Hannah and Isla, 5 weeks after Hannah gave birth. He left his small baby for Jen, who he moved in with straight away.
• Al never asked to have Isla stay over until she was four. But has made numerous claims that Hannah kept Isla from him, which simply isn't true. He was the one who walked away, leaving Hannah with all the responsibility of selling and sorting the house, while she had a new-born. But according to al, he was the victim!
• Jen wasn't the only woman Al cheated on his wife with, there were others. Nice man!
• Al was offered every Saturday with Isla by his ex-wife in court, but Al turned it down. He stated he needed that time to "get to know his new wife"
• The dads net is mostly in Jens’ name, so it looks as though al doesn't have a penny to his name. No money = no maintenance for Isla!
• l used to manipulate his visits with Isla by dropping her off late, knowing it would interfere with Isla and Hannah’s breastfeeding schedule. He did this to prove she didn't need to be breastfed.
• Al was once confronted by someone in DMs about the stuff he puts up about Isla. In this conversation, the person questioned Al’s behaviour towards his ex-wife, Al replied with an article about woman who manipulate men into getting them pregnant. Implying he was forced into sex by Hannah, and that he didn't want Isla at all! This screenshot can be found on thread number 1!
• Al the cheat exploited a loophole in his child arrangement order and collected I when school closed early without telling I’s mum, who only found out when she went to collect her from school thereby extending his time with her and taking away legitimate time I should have spent with her mum at the same time as promoting an ad for Tesco mobile about keeping in touch with loved ones.
• Al shared a story from 7th February 21 about how a group of six people continue to troll them and that he has employed a private investigator to obtain information such on these people and that he knows their IP addresses and locations (which he shared) and stated these people are all known to them. The hilarious thing is most of us here don’t even live near them, but they are that paranoid they believe we are. Al even shares a part of his PIs ‘client report’
• Both still visit tattle for content but rather than screen shot the text they just retype it out to remove our reference to Al – Although during thread 6, Jen claims she won’t be visiting us again (Shame)

Overview of thread 6

• On 19th May 21, Jen posted a story that show her progress at the gym and stated that she starts a second job on Monday 24th May 21. Nothing more was ever mentioned since and we’ve never seen her go to work. Although there was mention on 5th July 21 that Jen looks after some Children in the week, but we still don’t know if this is her ‘job’
• Jen set up an accountability group for her fitness journey but again nothing else was mentioned or posted about this.
• After it was mentioned that Jen and Al the cheats didn’t seem to have many/any friends, they went of a night out with ‘Friends’ where Jen posted pictures of herself with former school pupils
• Al ‘bought/was gifted’ a salon day for Jen where she had hair extensions put in, this was followed by numerous stories of her wafting her hair about and follow up gifted appointments.
• They also had ‘friends’ stay over at their house that they hadn’t seen for 4.5 years, which meant that they moved out to let them stay at theirs. One 28th May, they posted that they were staying at Jen’s parents’ house. It got a bit confusing later, as Jen made reference to how weird it was sleeping in a house that she slept in with Louis’s dad 15 years previous and that is was where she use to put Louis to be bed as a baby.
• In June we also had more stories about having different friends over for a BBQ, she even provided OK magazine for the adults in case they got bored of Al and Jen repetitive conversation
• In early June to stories from the cheats turned to ‘Step mum / Bio Mum’ narrative. Jen made a post in which she claimed someone said to her ‘If my girls had to have a step mum, I’d wish for someone like you’
• On the 6th June, they posted several stories having a go at Isla’s mum. They claim that H questioned Isla about her time with them and that is why they share so little of Isla (Oh the irony). They also claimed they had been blocked on all accounts since Al and Jen met. They also stated the situation with Isla’s mum could not be any worse and they have zero communication (which we know isn’t true) as in the next story they confirm that Al the cheating troll has a weekly call with Isla and that when Isla is there, she doesn’t speak to her mum at all. They also storied that Isla has ‘many different people providing childcare’ implying almost that Isla’s mum palms her off. They also said Al’s offer to help have been declined.
• They were asked in a series of Q&A if Isla’s mum could stop them posting about Isla(but remember, they share so little of Isla) they stated that they’ve suggested both parent avoid posting on social media (Hannah’s IG and FB are private – The cheating Ferguson’s aren’t) but that this was declined, so therefore they will continue to post Isla. Also given that they share so little of Isla (I’m being sarcastic) just over 50% of the Q&A stories had pictures of Isla.
• They parenting theme continued (AKA airing their dirty laundry) when the cheats said that they have separate parent evening ‘due to poor communication due to separation’
• They were asked if they (Al and Jen the cheats) were on the same page regarding co-parenting and Jen said neither her nor Al had planned to have children with their ex-partners (nice for Louis and Isla to know) but they absolutely knew that they wanted children together
• Jen had so many questions of step parenting that she was going to set up and stepparent Saturday/Sunday – it didn’t last long probs because they posted all those questions to themselves
• The told us their car broke down but nothing more was ever mentioned, and they have since done stories in a car
• On the 8th June Al storied how he came home from work at 10pm and found Jen and Ted asleep with a sick bucket for Ted and that it was Jen’s birthday the next day. However, Ted made a miracle recovery, and they were able to go away to Jen’s favourite place (not the Island known as the IOW) but to Whitsable! Because the cheats always feel the need to answer us Tattlers, they storied that Ted’s Grandma is a nurse and she ‘diagnosed’ that he didn’t have a sickness bug. Also, not sure how Jen was able to manage getting time off so soon after starting a ‘new job’??
• Jen rehomed some rabbits from pets at home for Ted and Isla against Al’s wishes, they were seen on one post and a couple of stories and never seen again
• More stories of nights out with ‘friends’ however this time Jen posted stories of herself with some of Louis school friend drinking (and tagged their private IG accounts) when we questioned it on Tattle, Jen was quick to respond on stories saying that the school friends were over 18 (Louis is only just 16) and said this was the only photo taken as Louis’ mates ‘love social media’ and they asked to share the photo. Jen also claimed that Louis’ friends themselves posted this to the ‘It’s the Ferguson’s’ account (Ok then), she also said that these friends also go on holiday with them (we’ve never been seen before) and stay over with them (again, never any mention before)
• More parenting Q&A on the 19th June. Jen posted a story about what support she would have liked from Hannah as a step mum and her answer was that all she’s wanted was recognition for putting herself before everyone else (yes you did put yourself first when you slept with a married man with a pregnant wife) And that all she wants is a thank you.
• After always telling the gram how they have no money (they previously put a story up about being in a difficult financial situation but didn’t give more details) Al posted a story to announce that Dadsnet was crowdfunding (maybe seeking for a mortgage deposit for the Island – IOW) They were looking for over £100,000 and had already got £26,334 from 22 investors. There was no link in this first story, and it took until a while before for them to share the link
• Louis left school and Jen was nervous having her photo taken at a graduation event with her ex – all very odd. Lots of stories about Louis leaving school, all super important to them but why should 30k stranger’s care
• FUN FACT TIME – Did you know Jen completed the first degree in Reiki? – Did we care? No
• The cheats attended an award ceremony (That you pay to enter) for best small agency and won, we still don’t actually know what Dadsnet is doing? Anyone???? ANYONE?? They still had time to check Tattle for our comments though and shared them on a story
• Al made a joke about making an only fans account – I mean if the crowdfunding bombs and they need to downsize to the IOW, he might need the extra £1.50 from Jen
• In a previous thread they storied that they had a ring camera in their bedroom (we all though it was super odd) but on the 11th July that disclosed they had several camera’s all over the house ‘To protect the boys’ We still thought it was weird and Al answered us directly (in a story) to say that the camera are not for sex reasons, nor creepy reasons but for safety that if another adult of one of the Children (Implies H) made a false allegation they could ensure the safety of ‘The Boys’ They also said the cameras are only on at certain time to protect the boys, therefor implying only on when Isla is there but Jen was able to check Al on the camera’s when Isla wasn’t there – More lies they’ve tripped themselves up with
• The cheats were asked a question about if, when Isla was older, she didn’t invite her Stepdad, how would Al feel and his answer was that he would be thrilled with her decision. (Would he be so ‘thrilled’ if that extended to Jen not being invited)???
• The cheats were also asked how they met, Al did say while he was teacher training and was observing her but failed to mention that he was married at the time.
• Al storied that Isla had witnessed the police being called many times when he had turned up (uninvited) to her mum’s house and seen it all from her window. He also stated that if finances weren’t an issue, he would go to court for a forth time to get 50/50 access
• On the 13th July Al storied that Isla has had a phone for a month, which is odd seeing as he says he can only contact her once a week and also odd when he took her to the IOW later in the month for Isla’s birthday and H couldn’t get hold of any of them – more of that later
• Isla’s Birthday. In case they hadn’t told us enough times, but this was the first time in 9 years they had Isla on her birthday, you would have thought they’d have wanted the time offline to spend together but not Al the cheating troll. They had a pottery party for her and then storied that they were going on holiday for a week (its implied that its all of them). Isla was due back to her mum on the Sunday as per the court order and back in school that week. There was no way for H to contact Isla or the cheating Ferguson’s. A tattler shared a screen of a story H posted. The lying Ferguson’s again tried to play the victim and claimed they had not been online all day and didn’t know the chaos they had caused however this was not true as comments about the situation had been deleted during the day. Al the troll even stooped so low as to take the screenshot of H’s story from Tattle and use it as a background for one of his stories. Two days after the debacle they caused Jen contradicted Al is a story and said that she spent her first holiday with her parents and children online fretting, crying and raging because of a bunch of twats (Isla’s other family maybe) and dickheads online (us) Jen also said she won’t be wasting anymore time on us or them and wont be reading what is here ever again
• Tattle got name checked!! – Al posted a story answering a question if the things here were true. Obvs he said 99% wasn’t true but the 1% that was true was that he met Jen while he was married but then blamed his infidelity on the marriage being over before it started. He blamed the church, Christian counselling BUT if all of this was true why was he still having sex with his then wife and conceived Isla? If the marriage was over, why even have any sex??
• Al posted a story a couple of days after returning Isla to say his court ordered weekly phone call had been with hell and that this was an actual breach of the order in place. The following morning Al posted another story in which he is in fact having a facetime with Isla but used this story to throw more crap at H by saying that covid rules and ‘selfishness’ meant Isla had a performance that he wasn’t allowed to attend as the two tickets her Mum and Stepdad. Al forgot that he had earlier planned to be back on the IOW. A tattler confirmed that in fact Isla’s stepdad did not go
• A tattler posted a further screenshot (with info blocked) from H’s private IG account where H thanked people for their support and in which she was super dignified and said she wont be lowered to an online battle of the lies posted about her online (from Al the cheat) Al again used this screenshot from tattle in his own story to yet again (He did make an hilarious type which read that he was in fact spreading lies LOL) It showed him the be the petty, twisted and bitter man we know him to be.
• The also storied a screenshot of a comment by a tattler and claimed it was ‘Isla’s parents’ replying to each other – assuming he means Isla’s mum and stepdad – this was denied by said Tattler who thought it was hilarious
• Al is such a dedicated father that while he was on ‘The Island’ known as the IOW he only worked 8 hours a day! We’re not sure how he fitted work, family time and tattle time into each day. Isla is currently with the cheats for just over two week and Jen storied that this is the first summer she is the ‘Primary Care Giver’ as Al will be working. Does he EVER take time off with his family and WHERE IS the second Job Jen is meant to have??
• Al proved what a BeggyMcBeg Face he is by doing a PR with Asda but when they actually shop at Tesco (Finest food don’t ya know – even with their ‘financial’ issues)
• In a now deleted Q&A story from 28/07 (Not when Tattlers are up early though to get that screengrab!!) Al posted a IG message from a follow to the question of ‘Does Isla’s step dad ever wonder why his wife is so obsessed with her ex’ The message from the follower said they often found ‘that people who are caught up in nasty battles were due to jealously or unresolved feeling between the adults’ The irony is it more likely Al the cheating troll has the bitter jealous feeling. More typical projection and characteristic of narcissism. Al also said he has had a conversation with Isla about the ‘truth’ of the weekend and that she herself knows the real truth.
• They’ve been very quiet since Isla joined them for her 15 days with them, maybe they have taken our advice after all LOL (Doubtful)

Just to remind you all this thread is about the way Al and Jen behave, we do not bring up the miscarriages or loss they have suffered. It is sad they lost those babies, and we are not people to mock that. We won't give them any more reason to make out we are the bad guys.

Also, when commenting please try and include a little message about their cheating antics. E.g. Jen (the woman who cheated with a married man) is looking her age recently! Al (who cheated on his pregnant wife) is such a childish man! Its stops them being able to use us for sympathy content. And it boils their piss!

Here’s to thread #7!

Apologies for any typos above! It was an epic overview to do and I became a little word blind towards the end

 

[stripeykate]

Just discovered this family today when someone else I follow mentioned about their account getting hacked, so I googled the Ferguson’s, and landed on all this, what a way to spend a few hours!!

I’m a family law solicitor and my husband is a family law barrister, so we see “co parenting”/high conflict situations like this every day. I can tell just by reading Al’s posts about H that I would hate to represent him, and he’d be an awful bully. So much sympathy for his ex.

Is there any reason why H still allows Isla to be posted on A&J’s public page? It would be the simplest application to court to say that Isla shouldn’t be pictured on a public page, by either parent. Sounds like H’s pages are all private, so no issue with it for her, but A&J would hate that they could no longer monetise I, and all the “she’s back home” stuff. Any judge who looked over an application, and could see the wealth of screenshots across all these pages where I is mentioned, and clearly used as a pawn to control/slate H, wouldn’t hesitate to grant such a petition. A&J would be wasting their money trying to argue against it.

If I was H, it’s exactly what I’d be doing.

 

[Rippedjeanmaybe]

I actually feel quite bad for them to be honest

I don’t, sorry to sound harsh, but after the horrible things they’ve spouted about Isla’s mum, not to mention all the nasty tricks they’ve pulled on her? Nah they deserve none of my sympathy to be honest. It’s only an Instagram account with 30k followers, hardly life or death. *cue* the cheats quoting this

 

[Sooz]

Tell all your followers you were fucking a married man with a pregnant wife without telling your followers you were fucking a married man with a pregnant wife.

 

[Pumpkinandrose]

I'm starting to feel very uncomfortable with the constant mention of Hannahs two little boys. This is the fourth time in the last 3 weeks they have brought them up.
Hannahs two boys are absolutely nothing to do with Al and Jen, I cannot believe they have shared the littlest ones name! A complete violation of Hannahs families privacy again. She posts about her children to her private social media, how dare Al and Jen use them for content!

I know I'm late to the party but what a fab title and recap

 

[GoldSilver]

“Children always have and always will come first?”

Is that why you walked out on your daughter when she was a baby Al?

They must be sat refreshing this page every single day.

And a tip for you Al. If you’re working 16 hours days then somethings going wrong if you still can’t afford accommodation for your family!!

 

[NoodlesToodles]

Hold up. Ted is the child that doesnt do I pads or toys etc.... but he seems to be in to minecraft? have I missed something? As for the radishes
....... well it seems relatively normal for them in the grand scheme of things

 

[platesofmeat]

Here’s something else to screenshot Al & Jen

Your kids can’t consent to you sharing every aspect of their lives as they grow up with thousands of strangers, especially difficult family stuff.

They can’t consent

That means even if they’re ok with it now, in a few years they might look back and feel very differently that their caregivers shared intimate details of their lives (including bath pictures) so they could get some free shitty holidays. It is selfish, weird and frankly narcissistic, to care more about an online ‘community’ than the mental wellbeing of your kids.

And yes - I feel this way about all influencers who share their kids. It’s awful.

 

[OrangeStrawberry]

I don’t feel sorry for them. They (cheating Al and home wrecker Jen) used that platform to cry troll and slate I’s mum. I never once saw them use it to support dads. Karma has finally caught up with them.

 

[thesmallone]

I'm sure he's a nice kid but no thanks I don't want to send him a birthday emoji he's the cheaters kid not mine. I'd happily have sent one to Isla but I'm guessing the cheaters didn't ask for her!

You've been quoted!! So on the day of T's parties cheating Al has actually spent time coming on here to find a post to quote to drum up sympathy?! What an existence.

 

[muffinheeler]

Thread title suggestion: It's the Fergusons #8 - yawn

 

[Gossngiggles]

Haven’t told their family but posted it on Facebook. Ok hun.

 

[Pumpkinandrose]

I still find it hilarious that al and jen think all of us are Hannah or her family. The fact they think its more likely a handful of islas relatives spend the evening logging in and out of tattle accounts and making comments about them, than facing the reality that people have seen through their front and know exactly what they are

 

[Gossngiggles]

Are they still droning on? It doesn’t matter if the group is private on Facebook. Unless you know every single member of said group and trust them all implicitly then posting on Facebook is never private. It’s very basic knowledge,

As for consent, did T consent to having his most private moments shared online, in newspapers and on TV? That photo of him naked as a baby pooing on Al that was everywhere? Did he consent to having his medical issues talking about? His night terrors? Anxiety? Does he consent to being used as your content? To making money for you? Let’s be honest without him you wouldn’t be ‘influencers’. No, because he is too young to do so. The same goes for all the things you share about I.
Does H consent to having information about her private life shared? The names of her other children? Photos of her home and the car on her driveway? The details of your relationship with her? I nightly doubt it.

I bet they haven’t shared the messages on here empathising about T’s diagnosis.

Oh and there is no code, I use initials for H and the children because I prefer to give them a little bit of privacy, because they didn’t consent to having their life shared like this.

 

[Stringyone]

That is what I was thinking.
But it really winds me up how they hate on other accounts for not putting trigger warnings on the mc content (hate calling it content), but then they don’t do it themselves.

Also- anyone seen this advert for the local gyms?
Doesn’t inspire me to go to the gym or for a swim. View attachment 857979

Who swims in full makeup and earrings?

the irony of the latest post ‘you may have noticed we are posting less and less of the children’ attached to 10 photos of Ted gurning…

 

[OrangeStrawberry]

Just like they didn’t inform Islas mum when they took her on holiday for her birthday and H was really worried. They are full of shit. Hypocritical cheats.

 

[helloitsme321]

I’m really quite uncomfortable about the safeguarding aspects of this. On a public account Al is regularly slating the mother of his daughter (who is a ‘public’ figure on their IG) and also naming Is other brothers. Making all Is maternal family recognisable to strangers. That must feel horrible and scary for them.
If H is denying agreed access or calls that must be upsetting but he’d be better off writing a note for the courts rather than a story on IG. I can’t be the only follower who just feels it’s far too much of an over share. If I was kept off their IG the mum bashing wouldn’t be so bad, but they’re identifiable and I really think he needs to consider the risks this presents to I and her family

 

[Folklikeme]

It makes me so sad.. and kind of angry that they share so much of Isla's personal information for everyone to see. Who needs to know that her parents stand on either end of the road and she then goes between herself. Or what her surname is and why. Nobody and I mean nobody needs to know anything personal of that little girl. They think their superheroes cause they bought her some clothes in Tk Maxx .. what about her mam and step dad actually providing a home for her. How is Al not embarrassed and feel like a total failure living in his wife's ex husbands house.

 

[SunsetGazebo]

Call me a cynical tattler if you like but a new member with their very first post, resurrect this dead thread just at the time when they are doing a Q&A about parenting and Isla’s mum just before the school holidays the cycle seems to have begun again I see must need some engagement are they off on some freebie holiday maybe (don’t follow them anymore and haven’t even be arsed to view their stories for months)