Intimacy advice

[standupsitdown]

I agree, the grass is not always greener.
The poor guy has lost his sex drive and could be depressed and probably has no idea you’re so unhappy. Who knows what’s going on in his head or what stresses he’s experiencing.
I feel you owe it to your marriage, yourself and your kids to try and work on this. You need help and that’s what relationship counselling is for.
He could see his GP to discuss his sex drive, maybe get his bloods done.
You could be having a mid life crisis too, it could be you’re so fixated on what you haven’t got that you feel dissatisfied and don’t see what you do have. Seeing a therapist even on your own could help clarify your situation.

 

[Mrspowell]

His mum has suffered with depression and I wonder sometimes if he is, he can very very chaotic but I’ve asked him to get help to no avail. He comes across as ‘fine’ all the time. And has said he wouldn’t commit suicide but I don’t know. I live a nice comfortable life and hes loving in many ways so it’s hard to know if I’d be doing the wrong thing to leave. Despite deep down knowing I think. He’s very serious and struggled with his confidence but we’ve been together since we were so young, I’m always bigging him up but it’s got a point where I’m like come on enough now. So difficult to talk about things with him as he becomes so so upset and down that I then feel guilty depsite just saying how I feel

couples counselling would be A good and counselling for him, but the cost is astronomical

 

[Rocknrolla]

What makes you think he could be gay?