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ns93xx

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Yeah for people who don’t have to go back work!! For the first few months it’s okay but most people have to go back to work after 9 months Rachel!!
 

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Lurker4321

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I couldn’t agree more! I have a baby the same age and it makes me feel absolutely rubbish when she subtly boasts about how her baby is doing this and that and how she bfs…(not all Mums are able to bf for many reasons Rachel!) she always seems to come across quite friendly on her stories but the ‘I’m better than all of you’ undertone is always there… I don’t think she realises how damaging this can be to the other mums who are watching her posts!
Yes she comes across as all nicey nicely but definitely has that I'm better than you feel. I'm sure we would all be able to cook from scratch and not let our children ever watch TV if we had our husbands at home with us allday and didn't have to go to work. The miniature nursery set up makes me 🤮 When she gets the activities out and puts everything away immaculately every day. Just close the door and walk away.
 
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Lurker4321

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Definitely went looking, they all do! 🤣
Well more fool her then as surely ignorance is bliss? What gets me with these accounts is how they get on their high horse. Turn it onto the tattlers saying we are mean and trolls. It's a gossip site, we are allowed opinions, when you open your life to the public you have to expect some criticism. Nobody is sending her any hate, she has gone looking for it.
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I really didn’t mind her until she had her daughter. I mean, even with one baby, how do you still keep everything pristine like she does? Her recent posts have made me feel like a bad mum at the best of times, I have two boys, 4 and 1. My 1 year old is only a few weeks older than her daughter and I’m unable to do half the things she does due to being back at work full time because not all of us have hubbys that have great jobs, having lack of space and the lack of time to make every meal from scratch. I hope she realises how lucky she is to be able to have all the help and time that she has.
Yeah I used to like her content prior to the baby. I thought she was a bit of a goody two shoes and it strange she didn't work but she was nice enough. Keeping house I think was a way of repaying hubby for not having a job and probably took any guilt away that she had deep down.
I think that's what I find so irritating about her. She has such a privileged life and it makes me sad and yes perhaps a little jealous, definitely annoyed when she moans about how tired she is. She doesn't have to work. She's so lucky. She has one child, she could have a nap. She doesn't have to school runs. The narrative she shows could be damaging to mum's especially first time ones, she doesn't seem to see that?
 
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Lurker4321

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The standard of parenting she has is not realistic or healthy. She should get some time to herself, I think the BF is a way of claiming she can't leave her. She also is very lucky that she doesn't have a job to get up and go too when she is moaning how tired and how many times she has been up in the night really annoys me.
 
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Lurker4321

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She even admitted on a recent story she felt guilty whilst her husband watched the baby and she had 20mins to herself for a shower???? I mean wtf? She doesn't know how to be herself. I wouldn't be surprised if she home schools the poor child when the time comes Nothing wrong with that but there is when it's because the parent has such attachment issues. I just find her so extra. She is going to write a letter for her daughter for every birthday. She is so ott. The way she parents is just not sustainable or normal surely? Oh and now surprise surprise she works for the legging company what a shock-NOT!
 
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Serg91

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She dresses her in long sleeved things and trousers all the time even in summer. I'm sure she had a woolly hat on the other day. I know summer can be crap but it's definitely not that kind of weather. The socks, leggings and sandals is bad. Just put proper shoes or trainers on if you think it is cold?

Anyone reckon she's pregnant? She's unusually quiet. Probably feeling like shit and hasn't got quite the same energy for the account.
I have always thought this. Why is she always wearing long sleeved clothes?! Or fleeces and woolly hats it’s deffo not necessary! I feel sorry for “baby girl” as I don’t think she really has a life.
 
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ns93xx

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Yes- however as a mother you shouldn't completely lose yourself in the process! It's OK to have a glass of wine (or two) go up the pub with your mates, god forbid go away for a weekend with friends or your other half.

As for Jolly Phonics, that's aimed at the earliest preschool children. This little girl is not going to school is she? The play room is a ready-made classroom!

She mentioned going out to the lunch wiht a friend the other day, was that aimed at us. "Look I do have friends."
I can see her home schooling her! Nothing is ever going to be good enough for her and won’t be able to bare being away from her.
 
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Lurker4321

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Mine all have too! Yeah does make you feel a bit crap when she posts stuff like that. Would be good for her to get out the house and get a bit of a life.
 
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ns93xx

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That kid is definetely going to be home schooled - shes far too "clever " to go to mainstream school ! ( or she'd have us believe)
Oh 100%
She’s not going to want to leave her so she’ll definitely home school her!
 
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Lurker4321

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She really loved boasting about her 4 bathrooms didn’t she! There was absolutely no reason to post that other than brag about it! such a chore to just clean 4 toilets and do absolutely nothing else all day 🤦‍♀️ us poor peasants who have to clean whilst looking after children at the weekend as we have to WORK!
It seems baby girl gets whatever she wants already and probably never gets told no! what’s with the ‘days with you’ post? Surely that’s everyday 🤦‍♀️ most people use that saying when they have a day off with their children!
Exactly, day in day out the same. She posted the other day something along the lines of being unapologetic for admiting becoming a mother is her greatest and proudest achievement. It's mine as is many mothers but we have lives and interests. I just find her attachment to her child and husband so un healthy. If he left her tomorrow she would be fucked.
 
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