Ingham Thread Offtopic

I love the crazies when they add entertainment but not when they add a possible law suit or legal action or at generally trying to argue with their shadow. ?
I do think @Helen @Yel need to maybe keep an eye on her posts. I hate defending Jane Ingham for anything but those accusations are wrong. I would assume it’s sassybellend or one of her batshit crew

Initially when I read the infamous post over there I thought it was funny. Then when I realised she was fully serious with her accusation, I just couldn’t understand how she’d seen a photo of a girl with her grandparents and came up with it!
I’m assuming most people are the same as me when taking photos of children, my own or others, although I feel I should add for clarification not random kids milling about in the park ? I don’t analyse where everyone’s hands, feet, eyes are and think ‘if I take a photo of my teenage daughter hugging her dad it might be seen that he’s grooming her’ because that’s OUTRAGEOUS!
I think @Oohthedrama you got it spot on when you mentioned her background. There’s no reason why anyone would think that without having gone through something awful themselves, would see a clearly innocent photo and turn it into something sick.
There were a couple in agreement too so I genuinely feel bad for them ?

Hi Guys, I'm completely out of the loop... can someone give me the low down?

Please and thank you x

Do not grieve the loss of your colleague and her multi talented family. She may have left here but her spirit lives on elsewhere. Her ask the sass section of another forum is attracting a decidedly high number of hits. Being multi facaceted and completely mad she has been able to dispense advice on a wide range of subjects, These have have included tatto cover ups, selecting the right job to start after succeeding at all your interviews and how to deal with a doggy who is fretting as it was dead for a few minutes but is now alive and wondering what happened
Her culinary advice efforts were less successful and in particular her cooking with crack section became decidedly risky to continue after some fatalities were recorded.
The other advice section on the forum dealwith legal matters and these are handled by a certain ex policewoman of high esteeem. As the tagline says treat her propper she was britains top copper and her advice has so far helped people facing prosecution for allowing their dog leads to trip up disabled people on crutches. She has also offerd sterling advice on how to ridicule your ex partners
The running a successful e commerce business is handled by a gentleman with great experience of doing just that and inbetween dealing with his refunds on paypal he finds time to offer encouraging advice to others starting out.
His wife can also do you some passport photos for a very modest sum though we are currently experiencing some delays in people receiving the photos they have paid for

Anyway this was just posted so that you can rest assured that whilst she may not be welcome on this forum her loveable personna is doing good elsewhere on the wibbly wobbly web

Are you Australian? We get the Border Security programme here in the UK - Australian officers are hardcore, no bringing in your 1000 year old eggs, let alone your (alleged) tendency towards young women!

EDIT - this was a reply to Ellerious, my phone is having a meltdown atm!

Zelda18 said:

Yes it was all very convenient that he suddenly gave Isabelle his old phone even though she, in every sense of the world turned her nose up at the Samsung as it wasn’t the usual iPhone.

Getting rid of evidence and then palming the device onto a then12yr old child.
No one is going to check there are they?

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Oh trust me the feds would’ve ripped it out of er hands and torn that kids phone to bits if they knew she had it. It’s condition of entry they comply

Ellerious said:

Yep I am. That show is a cracker lol. Full of asians with nothing to declare and a suitcase full of the weirdest shit you’ve ever seen.

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Some British schoolboys over there for a football tournament all got a tongue lashing because they hadn’t cleaned the mud off their boots and could’ve brought Australia to its knees with ‘non native’ bugs and diseases. Love it.

Kimbo said:

Some British schoolboys over there for a football tournament all got a tongue lashing because they hadn’t cleaned the mud off their boots and could’ve brought Australia to its knees with ‘non native’ bugs and diseases. Love it.

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I saw this!! mud haha that show is just amazing I love it people know the rules and still act sooo shocked lol xx

Kimbo said:

Some British schoolboys over there for a football tournament all got a tongue lashing because they hadn’t cleaned the mud off their boots and could’ve brought Australia to its knees with ‘non native’ bugs and diseases. Love it.

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Ironic isn’t it given just going outside here has a 90% kill rate possibility. You’ll perish in the heat or wildlife will get you

OliviaPope said:

So your a MARA agent too now along with someone who can diagnose 6 week old babies with autism.

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person of many talents more talents than Sarah I

OliviaPope said:

So your a MARA agent too now along with someone who can diagnose 6 week old babies with autism.

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So it would seem. Sorry it’s bothering you.
Do you have a problem with people having autism?

As for your migration agent comment that was just ridiculous. I said I practised criminal law not that I buy peoples way into the country. Personally I’d like to see a lot more UK family men detained and deported for Asian child sex junket tourism. They make up a large proportion of the perpetrators. Of course I’m certainly no expert as you point out, I don’t believe I claimed to be but if I came off that way I apologise.

allthatjazz said:

I saw this!! mud haha that show is just amazing I love it people know the rules and still act sooo shocked lol xx

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The food people try to smuggle in is hilarious.

I don't think you can spot autism at Jace's age personally hes far too young, by me they don't like to try to diagnose before the age of 5

Ellerious said:

Ironic isn’t it given just going outside here has a 90% kill rate possibility. You’ll perish in the heat or wildlife will get you

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I’d love a rummage in those big wheelie bins that they throw all the disallowed items in.

allthatjazz said:

I don't think you can spot autism at Jace's age personally hes far too young, by me they don't like to try to diagnose before the age of 5

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My department will take a referral at 2 depending on the outcome of the ASQ’s.

all I said was I recognised behaviours from my own experience and it’s worth investigating because in doing so it would investigate his failure to thrive and I said it was unlikely he would be diagnosed with it so early. I said it because maybe they’d actually do something for him. He might just be a skinny kid but surely if there’s an issue it’s better to uncover it and not necessarily spectrum it could be many things physical or neurological.

My point was only that early intervention is best to help kids with autism and I have said over and over there is nothing at all wrong with being on the spectrum.

As for his detention story it .. its shite, simple as that. It did not happen in the manner he described it

Kimbo said:

I’d love a rummage in those big wheelie bins that they throw all the disallowed items in.

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Oh yeah god only knows what’s breeding a new genetic mutation in those bins lol

allthatjazz said:

I don't think you can spot autism at Jace's age personally hes far too young, by me they don't like to try to diagnose before the age of 5

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It’s 7 here officially, my little girl got a provisional diagnosis at 5 , but we go back this month to find out definitely.

allthatjazz said:

I don't think you can spot autism at Jace's age personally hes far too young, by me they don't like to try to diagnose before the age of 5

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That’s ok too. Some studies are now finding even 2 month old babies show signs of it. There a few YT vids about it the findings of the studies. My son was informally diagnosed at 2, it’s hard to tell whether maturation will point to no diagnosis at 5. He was very obviously stimming and had fixed and rigid behaviours from about 6-8 weeks. He was formally diagnosed at 5 which is standard for here. His paed also noticed it in him at 4 months old. t’s a possibility nothing more.

I’m not wishing Jace to be anything other than healthy and content.

Sayitso said:

It’s 7 here officially, my little girl got a provisional diagnosis at 5 , but we go back this month to find out definitely.

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My nephew was diagnosed at 3 but they knew something wasn’t right since 18 months

Anna79 said:

My nephew was diagnosed at 3 but they knew something wasn’t right since 18 months

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It’s probably so different too depending on where you are on the scale, she’s high functioning and it’s harder to spot in a girl than a boy.

allthatjazz said:

I don't think you can spot autism at Jace's age personally hes far too young, by me they don't like to try to diagnose before the age of 5

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My daughter was 7.5 yrs before she was diagnosed. We started noticing small things around age 2 but the health visitors, doctors etc had no concerns. She had severe speech & language delay, but was only ever given a diagnosis of an expressive language disorder. She attended a special speech & language unit and her speech came along really well. However It wasn’t until she was around 5 that we started to notice behaviour changes, lack of socialisation and sensory issues that we pursued it further.
My friend’s son is 23 and has only just been diagnosed. He could hardly read, write and was non verbal through his entire school life yet no one, not even his mum or the school ever raised concerns.