I'm a redhead so any sort of huge heat turns me into a puddle of ash. Was away on holidays and sought shade at every chance, lashed on the factor 50 and wore a big floppy hat, my teenagers wouldn't stand near me

Got home this weekend and sat in my garden, under an umbrella and got burnt
Plus I'm mid 40s, perimenopausal and my patience ran away some time ago. I would like to sleep without my husband thinking my nakedness is an invitation to him being in my space, it's not.
Oh and another thing. I wish people would just wash themselves. I'm not talking about the sweat over the day, fresh BO does not smell. Its the funky onion/
gross corpse smell I mean

A wash cloth and some soap helps if you can't do the shower effort.