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iLoveNectarines

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I'm having a really awful time at work at the moment. Constantly being pulled up on things when I see colleagues doing worse things that they aren't called in for.

I come out with less than £200 profit a month from working 2 days a week after paying nursery fees for my youngest. Unfortunately it's money that we really need.

It's just a horrific bitchy toxic environment and every day I'm in I just want to get up from my desk and walk out.

I need to get out of there for my own sanity but We need the small amount of money I make. Looking for another job isn't really feasible as I work really specific hours to help with childcare as we don't live near any family.

Not really sure what the point of this post is but just needed to vent 😔
 
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BettyCrockerr

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Is looking for another job really not feasible? Lots of places have recognised increasing needs for flexibility for their staff and there are lots of part-time options out there (obviously this depends in part on where you are based).
For £10 a day is it really worth it? Surely there’s ways to save £10 per day. How much is going on the cost of travel to & from work each day? Lunch at work? A bottle of wine at the weekend?
if she’s only banking £200 per month after childcare costs etc the easiest and most obvious thing to do to rectify the imbalance is to look at ways to recoup that £200 per month and then she can stay at home with the child.
 
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no-no

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I'm having a really awful time at work at the moment. Constantly being pulled up on things when I see colleagues doing worse things that they aren't called in for.

I come out with less than £200 profit a month from working 2 days a week after paying nursery fees for my youngest. Unfortunately it's money that we really need.

It's just a horrific bitchy toxic environment and every day I'm in I just want to get up from my desk and walk out.

I need to get out of there for my own sanity but We need the small amount of money I make. Looking for another job isn't really feasible as I work really specific hours to help with childcare as we don't live near any family.

Not really sure what the point of this post is but just needed to vent 😔
If it’s a desk job, can you potentially work remote? There are a lot of remote opportunities now on LinkedIn that allow flexible working hours.
 

Megansnarkle

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I'm having a really awful time at work at the moment. Constantly being pulled up on things when I see colleagues doing worse things that they aren't called in for.

I come out with less than £200 profit a month from working 2 days a week after paying nursery fees for my youngest. Unfortunately it's money that we really need.

It's just a horrific bitchy toxic environment and every day I'm in I just want to get up from my desk and walk out.

I need to get out of there for my own sanity but We need the small amount of money I make. Looking for another job isn't really feasible as I work really specific hours to help with childcare as we don't live near any family.

Not really sure what the point of this post is but just needed to vent 😔
Is looking for another job really not feasible? Lots of places have recognised increasing needs for flexibility for their staff and there are lots of part-time options out there (obviously this depends in part on where you are based).
 

Megansnarkle

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For £10 a day is it really worth it? Surely there’s ways to save £10 per day. How much is going on the cost of travel to & from work each day? Lunch at work? A bottle of wine at the weekend?
if she’s only banking £200 per month after childcare costs etc the easiest and most obvious thing to do to rectify the imbalance is to look at ways to recoup that £200 per month and then she can stay at home with the child.
There are of course other benefits to working - pension contributions etc which aren't reflected in take home pay.
 

BettyCrockerr

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I'm having a really awful time at work at the moment. Constantly being pulled up on things when I see colleagues doing worse things that they aren't called in for.

I come out with less than £200 profit a month from working 2 days a week after paying nursery fees for my youngest. Unfortunately it's money that we really need.

It's just a horrific bitchy toxic environment and every day I'm in I just want to get up from my desk and walk out.

I need to get out of there for my own sanity but We need the small amount of money I make. Looking for another job isn't really feasible as I work really specific hours to help with childcare as we don't live near any family.

Not really sure what the point of this post is but just needed to vent 😔
£200 a month, so £50 a week. £10 a day.

can you look at ways of cutting down any of your current spending/outgoings to save that £10 a day? If so, you wouldn’t need to work and wouldn’t have the childcare to pay for.
 

BettyCrockerr

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There are of course other benefits to working - pension contributions etc which aren't reflected in take home pay.
Yeah I know. But when we are talking about this lady who says she NEEDS to take home the £200 per month then it’s clearly the actual day to day finances that are the push point here.