Hi all.
I am going through a really bad heartbreak right now. I don’t think I was ready for a relationship when I met the man of my dreams last year. He was so into me.
Sadly, my anxiety got the better of me. I struggled to be alone, hated the person I was and it spilled into my relationship. My expectations were sky high, I demanded too much attention and nit picked at everything he did.
He communicated with me a lot about how it was draining him and tiring him, how nothing he did felt good enough. And it stings because when I read over texts, I was really harsh.
He finally had enough and ended things with me. Told me I’m not a bad person but that he’s done trying, he’s finished. He wished me well and said “hope everything goes well for you” and that was that.
He was so kind and did so much for me. And everything including the intimacy was still so strong. And I’m full of regret. I feel if I had worked on myself properly it could genuinely have worked so well in the future. But his feelings for me have gone.
I’ve had messages from his family and friends telling me how lovely I am, to believe in myself and look after myself. That they’re sorry it didn’t work. And it’s so much worse.
So, how do I go forward knowing it was all my wrongdoing? I just want to talk to him and know I can’t because I chipped away at him.
Thanks all, from a very heartbroken girl x
I am going through a really bad heartbreak right now. I don’t think I was ready for a relationship when I met the man of my dreams last year. He was so into me.
Sadly, my anxiety got the better of me. I struggled to be alone, hated the person I was and it spilled into my relationship. My expectations were sky high, I demanded too much attention and nit picked at everything he did.
He communicated with me a lot about how it was draining him and tiring him, how nothing he did felt good enough. And it stings because when I read over texts, I was really harsh.
He finally had enough and ended things with me. Told me I’m not a bad person but that he’s done trying, he’s finished. He wished me well and said “hope everything goes well for you” and that was that.
He was so kind and did so much for me. And everything including the intimacy was still so strong. And I’m full of regret. I feel if I had worked on myself properly it could genuinely have worked so well in the future. But his feelings for me have gone.
I’ve had messages from his family and friends telling me how lovely I am, to believe in myself and look after myself. That they’re sorry it didn’t work. And it’s so much worse.
So, how do I go forward knowing it was all my wrongdoing? I just want to talk to him and know I can’t because I chipped away at him.
Thanks all, from a very heartbroken girl x