MancBee
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I had a quick look at her Twitter. There's no way I am going there again, or joining in a Tattle conversation. She is draining without any of the comedy element provided by our Jack. I can see why Jack seems to be distancing herself, she would find it hard to compete with the constant ailments. Every conversation would be about who is most ill.
I had a friend like that, but had to distance myself. He "has" a list of complaints, physical and mental health, and is forever at the doctors. He takes huge amounts of medication and gets all sorts of benefits because he says he cannot look after himself. I am convinced the doctors prescribe whatever he wants to get him out of the surgery. He goes to any benefits interviews in dirty clothes, without washing himself and walking with two sticks. Yet he can go out on the piss, take drugs and (before the pandemic) go on holiday trecking up mountains, dance through the night and stand at a concert for hours. This is why I am always wary of people like Hattie.
Also Hattie wants to ban the word hypochondriac. To paraphrase the words of the good old Mandy Rice Davies., well she would, wouldn't she.
3 days ago she hadn't had the energy to brush her hair for over a week but had only just come back from a four day freebie holiday at a glamping site, where she had "a lovely time." Can't brush her hair but is constantly on Twitter. Can't brush her hair but can cope with a house move, one of the most stressful things. Can't brush her hair but has a website advising on how to deal with MH issues. I could go on.
I have said before that I have had a complicated medical history, however my BFF said to me recently "I forget to ask how you are health wise 'cause you don't go on about it all the time". Hattie just seems to revel in her diagnoses, wearing them like a badge of honour.
What a way to live your life.
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