Absolutely this. That aesthetic was A Thing waaaay before she had a baby.Judging outfits is fair game I’m sorrycommenting on her actual body is different. Her whole aesthetic is so frumpy and old, she really ages herself in my opinion.
I really hate this holier than thou notion that once a woman has a baby, she must be forgiven for everything because she HAS A BABY. Having a baby does not mean you're untouchable or get a free pass from any judgement. I say this as somebody who's had one and exclusively breastfed for nearly three years and understands the identity struggle.