I don't know if she needs to rush into a marriage because I don't know that she is ready to be married and live with her husband. Married and living with Kenny is obviously living in Thailand and she clearly doesn't like the place or she would be over there living with him now. Even if she doesn't like Thailand, doesn't the love for the fiancé override that?? What's with the staying at a posh hotel, can't she stay in his house, he wouldn't be living in a shack. I went over and lived in a caravan on a compound in the middle of the desert in Saudi Arabia just to be with hubby.
He would have young Thai women throwing themselves at him.
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Lmao how she was leaving in less than 12 hours to go to Thailand, and she didn't know what time her flight was and she "
thinks [she's] going for two and a half weeks" but didn't seem sure. And she hadn't packed yet.
How do you not remember/know that info? It's interesting how she tries to present as this calm person who has her
mit together, but when you listen to what she says she actually seems chaotic AF.
She clearly isn't that interested in going.
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A bloke I knew told me that a bloke knows within 18 months tops if you're the one, and will snap you up before another bloke gets in there.
I really don't think it would even take them that long.
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Make sure he’s the one? They have been together for some time and live over the broom as they say already.
She’s invested years into the relationship . She would be a fool to not tie it down.
Look at Annie kilner and what’s gone on there. If she hadn’t of married him she would have been in a far more precarious situation potentially.
Men can be rats, athletes especially .
I think it is fair, sensible advice. If I had a daughter I’d tell her the same .
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The last thing she wants is to be back living with mummy and daddy because she has no other option in life.
Heartbreak plus financial problems combined aren’t a good recipe ! She can alleviate one of those problems and possibly both by getting married. If he’s not willing to get married sooner then he’s making excuses and wasting her time and she would be well rid of him asap and benefit from establishing that sooner rather than later too.
Men promise the moon and sometimes do not deliver, they use women and lead them on. I know a case of 7 yrs a man led a woman on for then dumped her days before Xmas and went to the Caribbean for Xmas with a woman he had led a double life with for 4 yrs!!!!
I think they need to have an honest discussion about what the living situation will be when they are married. Just from what we see I think she lives in a bit of a fantasy world that they will be married and he will come back and live in the Uk and play football for Manchester United and she can live like the princess she is as a trophy wife.
When the reality maybe that he is only ever good enough to play for a team in Thailand and she needs to live in a country where her hair is constantly frizzy and she will never use the words autumn and cosy again while sitting around in cashmere jumpers pulling the sleeves down over her hands.
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Am I the only one who thinks the above comments on a quickie wedding are wrong? To marry quick before he’s left alone in Thailand for too long?
I’m not Hannah's biggest fan either, but I’m sure she’s human with real emotions just like the rest of us, and wants a loyal and honest relationship/marriage. In my eyes, she’s doing the right thing. Make sure he’s the one before committing. If they can both get through this period and remain loyal, go for the real and authentic small wedding after. It’s not all about being financially stable - some people just want the real thing.
I don't think she loves him, otherwise why is she happy to live/sit in another country. Also as far as trusting him, she has no way of knowing what he is up to while she is in UK, maybe thats why they are in a hotel room, keep her away from mates with stories of Kenny's escapades.
we’re all here demonising Kenny and whilst I wouldn’t trust a footballer halfway round the world with no fiancée with him as far as I could throw him, I’m still in the camp that Hannah is the less interested one! Kenny does all the organising for her to come and visit so unless he feels terribly guilty for moving away and leaving her (entirely plausible!) the other explanation is that she’s just not bothered enough to make the effort herself. 
