Sometimes things are convoluted in a person’s life because it’s convenient for it to be that way. A lot of the time if they wanted to make it very simple they could. It’s interesting to sit and ask yourself why they might want to keep it complicated.
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How can your friend believe this crap? The disappearing is probably him being with the girl he’s with, and he’s probably deleting apps to hide what he’s up to
Agree. I honestly don’t know how anyone falls for this kind of garbage.
It’s the oldest trick in any duck boys book, delete apps, or go quiet and really it’s them with someone else or up to no good. Obviously I don’t accuse all males of doing this but in this case it really seems to be the case. OP please tell your mate to tell this fella to go do one! He’ll cause her more trouble than good, sounds like a wrongun
Also I think mostly women with really low self esteem believe this crap, because they probably don’t want to believe that it’s true! The more lies they’re fed the more they try to ignore it but in all honesty it can’t be ignored. Every man who does this crap gets found out sooner or later and hopefully OPs mate kicks him away and doesn’t forgive him
He’s needs blocked and deleted. Him bleeping off gave them the perfect excuse to get rid.
There are so many red flags here I can’t be bothered to address them individually but it’s clear this guy is a waste of space who will bring nothing to the table but drama.
If it was true about him still wanting contact with the child I’d think.. Aw yeah, that’s nice but sorry no, sounds like he’s still with that ‘ex’ and living a double life, he also sounds like a massive user. Like everyone else has basically said already, tell your friend to tell him to do one.
One way to find out would be to message the ex and ask!
Further development: he has said to my friend that buying a house is on hold because his ex is refusing to give him his money for the house deposit back. He’s moving back in with his mum. He’s not taking her to court or forcing her to even though she supposedly has a good job and was buying the house herself anyway as he ‘wasn’t going on the mortgage’. He’s never mentioned this before now. He’s just going to save up for a few more months 
Why on earth is your friend still entertaining him? She needs to wake up!
If he gave her money, without any kind of contract, then he can’t really get it back, even if he tried to take her to court - she hasn’t done anything wrong, he gave her money.Further development: he has said to my friend that buying a house is on hold because his ex is refusing to give him his money for the house deposit back. He’s moving back in with his mum. He’s not taking her to court or forcing her to even though she supposedly has a good job and was buying the house herself anyway as he ‘wasn’t going on the mortgage’. He’s never mentioned this before now. He’s just going to save up for a few more months
Frankly I don’t believe a single word this guy comes out with and I have no idea why your friend is even still bothering to speak to him - he’s talking absolute rit.