Ewan and Me

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Sorry couldn't see if there was a thread for this account. Does anyone else get weird vibes? It seems so exploitative when he can't give consent. Also all the content she posts about Jude who she looks after also!
 
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That post is what sent me here, very very odd behaviour i understand if they are best friends but some of those pictures are inappropriate for just bring friends?!
 
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She really strange! Imagine if that was an adult male saying those things about a vulnerable autistic girl?
 
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That post is what sent me here, very very odd behaviour i understand if they are best friends but some of those pictures are inappropriate for just bring friends?!
Yes the pictures are very uncomfortable to see!
 
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I used to like her and same with James Tommy and Jude's dad but I think they both exploit the duck out of them, we know waaaay too much about them boys and it doesn't sit right with me.
 
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I used to like her and same with James Tommy and Jude's dad but I think they both exploit the duck out of them, we know waaaay too much about them boys and it doesn't sit right with me.
I actually thought Ruby and Jude’s dad were going to get together but he recently announced a new girlfriend
 
I actually thought Ruby and Jude’s dad were going to get together but he recently announced a new girlfriend
She apparently has a boyfriend too. Wonder what he feels about how she poses with Jude?
 
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I always thought she was amazing with Jude. I still do but it is a bit weird I agree. I have a lot of admiration for Tommy and Jude's parents, I'm starting to think the attention and money is becoming more appealing to them though which is worrying.
 
I always thought she was amazing with Jude. I still do but it is a bit weird I agree. I have a lot of admiration for Tommy and Jude's parents, I'm starting to think the attention and money is becoming more appealing to them though which is worrying.
I have two boys with complex needs it’s so hard I can’t believe the mum went on to have more children she must be mad!
 
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I find it all so weird. Ruby comes across like a wounded healer to me, desperate to save anyone she crosses paths with but keen to ensure eyes are watching.

Some of the things she says are really out of order tbh, she talks about how her brother being sectioned wasn’t okay, without admitting why. She tends to gloss over his physical aggression and violence. Her boyfriend in videos seems like he’s faking getting on with Ewen for Ruby’s sake rather than a genuine connection, which I can understand. It may be okay now, but as soon as Ewen’s fists start flying towards him or Ruby I think reality will set in for him. She has made being Ewen’s sister her whole identity and that’s gotta be tough to live with if you’re hoping for a future with somebody.

I do feel sorry for her though, she’s obviously been massive parentified. Her friendship with the other lad strikes me as bizarre too, I can’t shake the idea that she’s desperate to show it off for the kudos. Look at me, how inclusive am I? Aren’t I amazing? Give me head pats! If it were a NT man befriending a young woman with similar challenges people would think differently.

She’s smart as the way things are set up (to exploit Ewen) she gets engagement from people praising her but also from anyone criticising her, both benefit her and give her something to turn into content.

Very bizarre and I’d have more respect if she spoke honestly about the reality of their lives but instead she just presents the best bits and pretends the rest doesn’t exist. I saw someone say what a wonderful uncle Ewen will be, absolutely insane to comment. She’s said he struggles around little children due to the noise and unpredictability, he would be a danger to them more likely.
 
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I find it all so weird. Ruby comes across like a wounded healer to me, desperate to save anyone she crosses paths with but keen to ensure eyes are watching.

Some of the things she says are really out of order tbh, she talks about how her brother being sectioned wasn’t okay, without admitting why. She tends to gloss over his physical aggression and violence. Her boyfriend in videos seems like he’s faking getting on with Ewen for Ruby’s sake rather than a genuine connection, which I can understand. It may be okay now, but as soon as Ewen’s fists start flying towards him or Ruby I think reality will set in for him. She has made being Ewen’s sister her whole identity and that’s gotta be tough to live with if you’re hoping for a future with somebody.

I do feel sorry for her though, she’s obviously been massive parentified. Her friendship with the other lad strikes me as bizarre too, I can’t shake the idea that she’s desperate to show it off for the kudos. Look at me, how inclusive am I? Aren’t I amazing? Give me head pats! If it were a NT man befriending a young woman with similar challenges people would think differently.

She’s smart as the way things are set up (to exploit Ewen) she gets engagement from people praising her but also from anyone criticising her, both benefit her and give her something to turn into content.

Very bizarre and I’d have more respect if she spoke honestly about the reality of their lives but instead she just presents the best bits and pretends the rest doesn’t exist. I saw someone say what a wonderful uncle Ewen will be, absolutely insane to comment. She’s said he struggles around little children due to the noise and unpredictability, he would be a danger to them more likely.
Yes I think she does like to play the martyr. When I first started following her I didn’t realise her mum and dad were still involved in caring for Ewen she made it sound like it was all down to her.
 
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Poor Ewan though, he seems so tormented 😞
He really does. I hope the family are on top of his medical care, I’ve seen numerous comments highlight that the size of his head/how swollen it is is really concerning and could be linked to the head banging, it’s really stark and you can see the size change video to video.

Ruby cares a lot, but she strikes me as sadly very naive.

I took a look at the recent posts re her friendship with another young man with autism and there are many comments warning her to make sure she isn’t setting this lad up to fail. The photos are very romantic in nature, like a couple, and the way she talks about him is also very passionate (in a thousand lifetimes I’d always choose you! That sort of thing). People often think those with high needs autism aren’t sexual beings but they are like any other person, and can be capable of romantic attraction, sexual urges and so forth. Idk how much he understands but it does concern me how she seems to almost be playing surrogate girlfriend. I hope he has people in his life watching carefully. She said she’s looking after him for the weekend, so is she a carer? In which case she needs to read up on boundaries. I can see it ending in absolute tears.
 
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He really does. I hope the family are on top of his medical care, I’ve seen numerous comments highlight that the size of his head/how swollen it is is really concerning and could be linked to the head banging, it’s really stark and you can see the size change video to video.

Ruby cares a lot, but she strikes me as sadly very naive.

I took a look at the recent posts re her friendship with another young man with autism and there are many comments warning her to make sure she isn’t setting this lad up to fail. The photos are very romantic in nature, like a couple, and the way she talks about him is also very passionate (in a thousand lifetimes I’d always choose you! That sort of thing). People often think those with high needs autism aren’t sexual beings but they are like any other person, and can be capable of romantic attraction, sexual urges and so forth. Idk how much he understands but it does concern me how she seems to almost be playing surrogate girlfriend. I hope he has people in his life watching carefully. She said she’s looking after him for the weekend, so is she a carer? In which case she needs to read up on boundaries. I can see it ending in absolute tears.
I wonder if the local authority pay her to look after Jude? We have a relative as a carer funded by the LA and even though she’s family she still had to be crb checked.
 
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i genuinely yearn for the day that what she, Jude’s parents and many of these god awful online SEN parents do is criminalised. Using children and adults who cannot give informed consent in this way is exploitation. They’ll dress it up as community building and awareness raising but at the end of the day it’s 100% self-serving. Absolutely abhorrent.
 
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i genuinely yearn for the day that what she, Jude’s parents and many of these god awful online SEN parents do is criminalised. Using children and adults who cannot give informed consent in this way is exploitation. They’ll dress it up as community building and awareness raising but at the end of the day it’s 100% self-serving. Absolutely abhorrent.
Hard agree! Used to like Tommy and Jude's parents but noticed recently they've been using them more and more for views, it's actually really uncomfortable to watch. My child is non verbal, severely autistic and has ADHD aswell as other health conditions but I do not post him online nor do I share private moments, it's his dignity and privacy and he deserves that.
 
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They're getting freebies now like the Center Parcs trip they just posted. Not that I'd begrudge a family like theirs a trip like that but the freebie trips come with a price, their disabled children's privacy.
 
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