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Not to brag but I also got a free pair of those last time I was in the hospital
Didn't get an affiliate link though
QueenBW
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I can be hard on Estee, but those stories really hit me. She wasn't acting and I don't think she was trying to capitalize on Sarah Everard's case for views or likes or even sympathy. She didn't even seem to have planned to tell her assault's story until she got those messages about "not all men" (seriously, anyone still spouting that needs education, stat).
I'm pretty sure many of us here have a story to tell about sexual harassment, assault, and/or rape. So I'm glad Estee spoke of her own experience, might make some people feel less alone. And I do hope she gets help, it sounded like she's still very triggered and traumatized, which is perfectly understandable, and it's therefore the best time to go to therapy and work on healing the trauma.
I'm pretty sure many of us here have a story to tell about sexual harassment, assault, and/or rape. So I'm glad Estee spoke of her own experience, might make some people feel less alone. And I do hope she gets help, it sounded like she's still very triggered and traumatized, which is perfectly understandable, and it's therefore the best time to go to therapy and work on healing the trauma.
please can we not with the 'not all men' bs in this thread?
weepingfeet
Active member
Nah mate. Not the time for this. Seriously.
It's really brave of Estee to be open about this, especially given she probably struggled with it for a while. I don't think I could do the same.
It explains all the weird acupuncture videos. Hope she finds healing in therapy. I think I was being way to harsh on her during that time, little did I know she was going through something so traumatic. Dealing with trauma takes years and years, really hope she finds solace and a trauma free home with Effie.
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I'm so glad this thread is taking this so seriously. Y'all are so cool. I like this place a lot. Thank you.
I totally broke down today too recounting so many ways men have left me scared and traumatised. But seeing such solidarity and support has really also been uplifting.
I totally broke down today too recounting so many ways men have left me scared and traumatised. But seeing such solidarity and support has really also been uplifting.
Lemonz
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I actually like this - im soooo bored of 'Scandi-chic' blondes with oatmeal clothing colours and brown and greys and drab drab drabSure sign she's gone off the deep end. New reel, has dyed her hair PINK.View attachment 411656View attachment 411657
laura-palmer
New member
I'm a bit of a lurker here but after watching the 10 year video I couldn't help but post. This Mirror Water thing sounds like a phoney, culty scam. For someone who has such little insight and refuses to engage in actual mental health therapy to support reflection on her own behaviour and mental health difficulties, to launch a 'product' about reflection and some kind of "internal revolution" is the height of hypocrisy. I work in mental health and to launch a service like this whilst being openly critical of medication and therapy (which actually helps people and isn't an aesthetically designed bandaid product) is unethical and dangerous. She's going full GOOP.
To each their own but calling it 'eww' adds to the stigma about buying secondhand, but we really should try to dismantle that because it's so much more sustainable. My friend works in a charity shop and honestly most of the things that arrive look like they've never/barely been worn. Just food for thought sorry to get off topic
Adopting a dog is admirable and should be encouraged, however, bringing poor Effie over from Greece to London might not have been the best idea.
I am from Greece and we do have quite a few strays, both in the cities and the islands (if I remember correctly Effie was rescued from an island), however most of them are well taken care of by the locals and many volunteering organizations try to gather and neuter them to curb the issue. Not saying that there aren't any instances of abuse and mistreatment, but I'd say that's a minority and most people try and care for the strays in their neighborhoods. Some cats and dogs are pretty much "neighborhood pets" and they live healthy, happy lives.
The whole "rescuing" the animal from a horrible life on a sunny, warm Greek island, to give her a better future in cold, gray London with an erratic owner just left a bad taste in my mouth when I first learned of her adoption story. The poor thing was probably more traumatized by being displaced and shipped to a different country to be given to a crying woman in the middle of the night like a hostage than from her life back on the island!
Obviously I don't know the circumstances behind Effie's adoption, but I think adopting locally from a shelter should be the first priority, either in Greece or the U.K, rather than shipping a live creature to you from abroad. There is a sort of savior complex hiding there that I just find a bit distatestful.
I am from Greece and we do have quite a few strays, both in the cities and the islands (if I remember correctly Effie was rescued from an island), however most of them are well taken care of by the locals and many volunteering organizations try to gather and neuter them to curb the issue. Not saying that there aren't any instances of abuse and mistreatment, but I'd say that's a minority and most people try and care for the strays in their neighborhoods. Some cats and dogs are pretty much "neighborhood pets" and they live healthy, happy lives.
The whole "rescuing" the animal from a horrible life on a sunny, warm Greek island, to give her a better future in cold, gray London with an erratic owner just left a bad taste in my mouth when I first learned of her adoption story. The poor thing was probably more traumatized by being displaced and shipped to a different country to be given to a crying woman in the middle of the night like a hostage than from her life back on the island!
Obviously I don't know the circumstances behind Effie's adoption, but I think adopting locally from a shelter should be the first priority, either in Greece or the U.K, rather than shipping a live creature to you from abroad. There is a sort of savior complex hiding there that I just find a bit distatestful.
EllsBellsWells
Chatty Member
There’s nothing wrong with buying second hand stuff at all.
There is something wrong with selling on thousands of pounds worth of designer stuff that you got for free though. That’s pretty scummy.
Callan
VIP Member
She doesn't even style her hair anymore, I think she simply lost all joy for that kind of stuff and her 90's Nick Carter hair do is easy for her plus she thinks that bleach job makes her look hot lol... delusional
Callan
VIP Member
That whole live thing was such a flop, first of all it wasn't even live, it was pre-recorded and what's the point of saying "10 Years on Youtube" when your content only spans about 2 years, since she deleted/hid the rest. And don't even get me started on her "its a community thing" she's a mean girl, we all saw how she really reacts with the whole excel thing, "I'm gonna call you mofos out" post she had.. that's how she treats her community.
And after 10 years she still has Rebeca put that video montage segment for her, because Estee still doesn't know how to use a computer. Hilarious how they cut Aslan out of that 10 year period.. denial must be her favorite word because she lives it daily.
And after 10 years she still has Rebeca put that video montage segment for her, because Estee still doesn't know how to use a computer. Hilarious how they cut Aslan out of that 10 year period.. denial must be her favorite word because she lives it daily.
I really respect her for talking out about this stuff though. It's the whole 'Not all men but definitely all women' argument - we've all experienced this. It's not a rarity. And we need more people to be frank and honest about their experiences before people will start to realise how bad it is.
londongirl2001
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I've seen this speculation on Estee's sexuality before and I guess it's all we can do: speculate. And just because I'm lesbian doesnt mean I can correctly "identify" her sexuality :-D But I'll say this: I don't think Estee likes women at all. Like, not even as friends. The way she talks to other women has always bothered me SO much: it's pure surface level; the only things she can point out about another woman is how beautiful they are or how much fun. Same way she can't describe a product with anything more than "living for this/loving it", she can't say anything more about women. And even that is not genuine (imho of course): to me it always seemed she said those things to get compliments back, to be seen as supportive but not really acting upon that.
The reason her friendships don't last is because at some point, a friendship should go deeper than being OMG YAAAS GIRL. You don't just party together, you share stuff about your lives and in a true friendship, you can tell your friend if they messed up. If Claudia or any other of her former BFFs dared to say something that wasn't all about how great things are and having super duper fun all the time, you can bet that was the beginning of the end of that friendship. Estee has no coping mechanism at all, so how would she navigate "conflict" in a friendship? She doesn't.
If she ever thought about kissing another woman, it will purely have been on a Katy Perry-I kissed a girl- kind of level. To be cool
Obviously, this is just my opinion and speculation
The reason her friendships don't last is because at some point, a friendship should go deeper than being OMG YAAAS GIRL. You don't just party together, you share stuff about your lives and in a true friendship, you can tell your friend if they messed up. If Claudia or any other of her former BFFs dared to say something that wasn't all about how great things are and having super duper fun all the time, you can bet that was the beginning of the end of that friendship. Estee has no coping mechanism at all, so how would she navigate "conflict" in a friendship? She doesn't.
If she ever thought about kissing another woman, it will purely have been on a Katy Perry-I kissed a girl- kind of level. To be cool
Obviously, this is just my opinion and speculation
getawaywithit
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I like how she had to use the clips she deleted from her audience in order to get her audience to re-invest in her persona as an entrance for marketing ether new product. If essiebutton is old news and you deleted all old content so no viewer can rewatch, then why use it to sell your new “project”?