Honestly you girls are like a breathe of fresh air. And so funny, you need your own insta page for the sheer wit
I’ve read most of this thread in the last week and can’t agree more. She’s the gift that keeps on giving. I just can’t stand narcissists. now, whilst I would never condone bitching in a group chat, this creature that is Erim needs to be exposed and cancelled, the length she goes to operate a facade. she is the epitome of a fraud, cluster b, covert narcassist and a danger to young girls. If I have a daughter I would not want her on Instagram cos of this type of soulless animal that exists. And this thread and the receipts prove it, with real life victims calling her bullshit life. Her constant Victim playing, inconsistent content, over inflating her “7 figure” companies worth (net income £6k on companies house), buying followers, creating fake fan pages, the idol worship of herself, the constant need for fuel. The more lies lies and deceit. The biggest revelation is apparently her mother is very much alive and well and found a new partner! My friend told me who went to school with her. These are lies that she is using to capitalise off young women who have genuinely lost parents, makes me sick! I thought I was going crazy with the hatred I had towards this vile woman representing south Asian women. I have a relatively small following but high engagement and I kept on noticing Erim pop up in my feed everywhere. I’ve never followed her or DM her, I don’t know her, and I have never felt inspired by her profile. But she kept on popping up. I said to a friend/ follower something is off about her and she sent screenshots of her copying my content. So I began monitoring her content over 6 months. I’ve even posted about narcassistic influencers and was so close to tagging that sket. I’ve never felt so inclined to write in a group forum about someone I don’t know. Like it’s okay if you copy but give credit to the source that inspires you, Erim.
It is not obvious to the untrained eye but examples of the shameless copy pasting:
- brand content and used it for say Pandora when she has no understanding of my business model
- I’ve started a non-profit, she started tagging herself into everything Khalsa aid or child charities without putting in the graft IRL to support these charitable claims.
- Renting a flat cos she can see mine and others home renovation posts receiving high engagement. The Reno takes a lot of time and graft, with a full time important job, unlike influencing, no one is funding me and I have no contractors helping me. I’m genuinely a property developer and these things are part of my characteristics which make me “self made” and others are genuinely encouraged by it.
- she copies many other smaller platforms like tanvi, eg. the “burnout “claims - I’ve worked for the big city firms and burn out is very real working for a money grabbing corporate where tanvi was slaved, but Erim just leeches onto people’s real life experiences (google character trait acquisition) for clout.
- Editing her pics to appear curvy... I work out to get a fit toned body.
- Curling her hair to appear naturally curly like mine
- the lowest low is her jumping on Ayurveda/ meditation; as a Hindu, this is ingrained in me from a young age and is all over my insta, she just copy pasted this into her branding for the lavendar ingredient but on the other hand she is vocal how she hates being associated with Indians.
- Using 11:11 numerology after I post about codes of the universe, as this is vedic practice. Like i said vile inconsistent racist bigoted.
- Mimicking my pictures or style is minor but I’m starting a side hustle that is “self made”.
There’s loads more sorry it sounds like a rant lol but I just want her to be exposed for what she is, a fraud lying, ego driven, sociopath. I hate narcs having been to close to an abusive one. So We have to watch their actions, they are never backed up by their words. I wouldn’t care less if she didn’t try to hijack my personality, being a creative, and if you’re someone who lives authentically, these types are your worst enemy.
I’ve shared this thread with some of my followers who agree, as they would screenshot her antics to me and we’d all laugh.
It’s the shameless copying for me “sis.”
and please there is no proof of her first class degree and in what? business?! I can do that with my eyes closed. try a first class degree in law or maths from a Russell group university, without having ever received a privileged education! I put 25% of my life on insta, cos of snakes like her.
She really is just an average little girl who no one would blink an eye lid IRL and she knows this hence the facade on the gram.
This public thread is your karma Erim, and that shitty hair oil I give one more year max, with those bad reviews and your con artist ways speak for itself, negative contrived ways toward a “sisterhood”... no longevity. Once it fails she will jump on my company or others to replicate. Try it Erim, I AM an attorney, I’ll take you to the cleaners. Takes more than a little emoji to save your psycho ass
Ps. this recent outfit is exactly like my post. And agree the video has no relevance to the caption. I also don’t claim to wear modest clothes though and am not even worried about exposing myself, I’ll say it with my chest. I blocked her now, let’s hope her ghost accounts aren’t stalking.
But I am going to share this thread on my story to raise awareness of narcs. Tbh this forum is giving her market research on how to manipulate better