You know what bothers me the most about this whole situation? It’s that, since Trigg died, she never mentions het grief without also immediately saying how happy she is or how much joy she feels (often followed by saying she also feels guilty for this). This to me is completely unfathomable…how can you feel happy so quickly after your toddler passing away in your backyard? And how can you type out a message saying how HAPPY your friends make you while sitting in the backyard where he drowned 10mins after you left the house? This makes me feel so sick…no one expects parents to never feel happy again after the loss of a child, but to insist on feeling happiness and joy so quickly after his passing really does not sit right with me. It’s like she is physically unable to share anything on social media that is not positive or to give the idea to her followers that her life is not picture perfect. Oh no wait, she did appear on TikTok hysterically crying once…when news broke TikTok would shut down in the US and she wouldn’t be able to post anymore…that’s the only time we’ve seen her experience genuine sadness
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I think she posts things like that because she feels she should. It's not genuine to me.
My grief for my baby son still cripples me at times, 30 years after losing him. It comes completely out of the blue, fells me for 24 hours, then I shake myself off and get back up again. I can't describe the feeling well but it's a physical pain that makes breathing difficult, your chest ache. And quite often wakes me in the night with a feeling of sheer panic. How she's behaving like this less than a year after Trigg died is bizarre.
My grief for my baby son still cripples me at times, 30 years after losing him. It comes completely out of the blue, fells me for 24 hours, then I shake myself off and get back up again. I can't describe the feeling well but it's a physical pain that makes breathing difficult, your chest ache. And quite often wakes me in the night with a feeling of sheer panic. How she's behaving like this less than a year after Trigg died is bizarre.
I’m so sorry for you
Grief is very lonely... From the woman who went on a bleeping 'grief retreat' and how her family still adore her husband who put her in the situation of having such grief
Also she is NEVER alone, her friends/family/husband are surrounding her constantly
You're not wrong! And all her gross ass followers
Gosh.
I can’t imagine asking my friend who has lost one of her two children to embroider me some aprons for my two children less than a year after it’s happened.
it feels very icky, and the fact she’s just happily done it and made content out of it is wild too.
I can’t imagine asking my friend who has lost one of her two children to embroider me some aprons for my two children less than a year after it’s happened.
it feels very icky, and the fact she’s just happily done it and made content out of it is wild too.
Because this is the reality of grief. Happiness does creep back up on you, and you feel absolutely awful for it. A month after my nan died, my mum was grinning her head off watching me graduate. She is allowed to feel happiness.
I don’t doubt everything you are saying but losing a grandparent/parent as an adult although heartbreaking is not the same as losing a young child in the awful traumatic way that has happened to them. It is not natural order or ever expected. It’s really not comparable. The way she has gone about things is bizarre.
Yes losing a child must be a different kind of pain. I honestly think I would die of heart ache. Her behaviour is bizarre.
Grief is grief and trying to pretend it’s not is just so odd. You are allowed to feel happiness after a loss.
You are comparing two completely different losses.
Sorry, but grief is not grief.
I’d lose my grandparent and go through that again and again and again rather than my child once. In any circumstance, but especially one that was so easily avoidable.
I’d never recover and would need sedated for months. There’s not a chance I’d be pissing around buying coffees and playing mahjong not even a year after. Nope.
The stans sticking up for her is worrying
What was that quote about village idiots and social media... From Local to Global: Historically, "village idiots" were confined to their local community, where their influence was minor. Online, they can find, connect, and validate each other, becoming a larger, louder force.
Anyone else think this is abit odd
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What the actual duck? It looks like a child floating face down!
WTF is that????