What's the deal with Enya? Was the Moroccan "friend" a boyfriend an ex or was she in a 3 way relationship?
He was her ex, but, to be honest, everything is very strange
. Her current boyfriend, herself and her ex were living together.
She used to say that he was her soulmate, they used to speak every single day (a couple of times per day).
She used to speak (or at least try) in an almost childish way about their relationship, trying to make it clear that there was no sexual attraction between them. Of course she tried to show everything as a genuine and pure relationship while her boyfriend was just near there
.
Meanwhile, a pretty disorganized life (job, nutrition, relationships...).
I think she's a very emotionally dependent person. The kind of person who needs the focus of attention and makes everything to maintain that attention.
I understand that she is now in a vulnerable situation and all that, but I still think that she has quite narcissistic and manipulative attitudes.
She has managed to make that loss her own. I mean, a poor person has lost his life at a very young age.
I totally understand about grief, but she literally can't live her grief without showing and speaking about herself.