If I did end up getting married It would either be a very small elopement, or just a registry office quick in and out jobby. We’ve been together so long (7 years like OP) it just seems a bit... I dunno, pointless now - we’re very obviously committed to each other in all ways except a legal document. In theory I love weddings as a guest, but I’d hate to organise one. Plus I don’t think anyone would actually care enough to come 