How so?
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Well if someone you didn’t like posted your full name date of birth and location without your consent it’d be considered doxxing.
children are people too.
Interesting, I never thought about it like that.
I kind of thought since doxing has negative intensions it was different to a baby announcement which has joyful intensions, but yeah it is the same info at end of day.
I kind of thought since doxing has negative intensions it was different to a baby announcement which has joyful intensions, but yeah it is the same info at end of day.
No no I agree with not showing babies/children etc for all of the above reasons and more, I don't with my own but what I mean is that it is counterintuitive to publicly share a child's full name, date of birth - both parental names/identity, we all know place of birth and im sure plenty know where she lives. To me that is more of your identity (particularly for social security reasons and going forward as he gets older that information is pertinent for registering everywhere and anywhere - PPS, healthcare, creche, school) than just your physical appearance as a baby if that makes sense
Edited to add: Melanie didn't share any of the above which I feel is more true privacy I mean they are still entitled to those family photos and moments on insta etc they want to share while keeping baby safe
his mates are getting ready to get their lives back on track, football and nights out, and paddy is playing daddy after missing a year of his 20’s.
hes gonna resent her I bet, its all fun and games now but give it a few months of sleepless nights, living with her family
I really do hope it works out for Aisling, Paddy does seem immature - and being a new mother myself in a great relationship with a brilliant baby, those first few months are so tough going. Tiredness really does cause stress and magnifies any issues. Best of luck to them and Aisling with her body recovery after baby.
I wish she was in a better place ED wise before bringing a baby into the world.
her history with men isn’t great, she needed a hell of a lot more therapy and a more stable relationship before becoming a mum but I don’t think that’s an option now baby is here!
her history with men isn’t great, she needed a hell of a lot more therapy and a more stable relationship before becoming a mum but I don’t think that’s an option now baby is here!
Question about Paddy's friends because I'm interested in Irish culture (I'm from the US.) He's 27 years old - is that still a normal "party/single" age for men in Ireland? Here if you are a 27-year old man, you probably have more than one friend in your group that is married and has at least one child (if not more.) It's interesting that all his mates are still single. Do men generally get married/settle down later in Ireland? I'm in a relationship, but if I was still single and met a 27 year old guy who was still in the party stage, that would be a huge red flag for me.his mates are getting ready to get their lives back on track, football and nights out, and paddy is playing daddy after missing a year of his 20’s.
hes gonna resent her I bet, its all fun and games now but give it a few months of sleepless nights, living with her family
to be fair he’s only turned 27, so he was only 26 when the pandemic hit, 25 when they started dating isn’t old at all, it wasn’t his first relationship either.
I think a “settling down age“ here, marriage and kids etc, would be around 29/30.
not many I know have kids before that age nowadays, most of my friends wou have been around 30/32 starting a family,
maybe 10 years ago to do that all at 27 would be more the norm, but not now, when you’ve spent so much time in uni/building a career.
theres a difference between being in a committed relationship to having a 31 year old girlfriend you've dated for less than a year (11 or 12 months dating I think when she got pregnant?) get pregnant.
I'm from New Jersey. Here the party guys are 19-23. University/college age plus maybe 2 years. After that, any man you'd seriously consider as a husband is well-trenched in his career and looking/planning towards a future. Not to say all men do that, but any one that will amount to anything in life is starting to grow up by 24+. If Paddy's friends are a bunch of 27 year old 'frat' boys, I certainly feel for Aisling. At this stage of life, she needs an actual man, not a boy.
ah I think frat boys are very different to normal 20 something lads here.
Well, tbf, he had complete control over that. His comment on her video that he "didn't know how that happened!" was immature. If he truly was against having a child, he could have taken steps to ensure that didn't happen. I guess it does go to his overall immaturity that he doesn't take accountability. But just because he doesn't, everyone shouldn't let him off the hook and put the entirety of the "blame" on the woman. He's just lucky Aisling didn't freak out. I can't imagine any woman concerned/anxious about her size purposely getting pregnant, in the middle of a pandemic yet!! It didn't appear she was in any danger of losing her relationship before the pregnancy, so I don't see the motive. (If this had happened during the tail end of her relationship with Jimmy, I might see some motivation.) But it's a far stretch for me to see that here.
I think Irish people tend to do a lot of the big life milestones a lot later than in other countries. Most people I know are well into their thirties by the time they have children or get married. There’s a culture of living or working abroad for a year or two in your twenties so people are rarely “settled” at that stage. And it wouldn’t be odd to be going out with someone for 5+ years before there’s talk of getting married.
which makes it really strange that Paddy and Aisling were planning to have a child next year It’s not the sort of thing you’d expect people their age to commit to
ok.
Have you read the thread? Everything you’ve said, we’ve said.she’s made out it was accidental, got annoyed when people asked was it accidental, admitted she wanted to get pregnant soon prior to that on a tweet (a tweet that disappeared after a few hours)
and has gone through more men and failed relationships in two years than she’s had hot dinners. Doubt she wanted to have another under her belt, he made it very clear on the Q&A he wasn’t all that into her, marriage into her...i really believe that and she knew it.
but were all just having a conversation. Nobody knows but ash herself
That really is so interesting! I'm from the NJ/NY/CT Tri-State area, which contains large cities and urban areas. In the more rural parts of the US Mid-West & South, the age to be married/have kids is even younger - 21 & up!
I definitely agree it was accidental! She is clearly just not wanting to admit they were careless. Although my perspective is that pregnant women are beautiful, any woman practically starving herself to have a flat tummy is definitely not looking to add a basketball to their profile.
this is so insulting to anyone with an eating disorder.That really is so interesting! I'm from the NJ/NY/CT Tri-State area, which contains large cities and urban areas. In the more rural parts of the US Mid-West & South, the age to be married/have kids is even younger - 21 & up!
I definitely agree it was accidental! She is clearly just not wanting to admit they were careless. Although my perspective is that pregnant women are beautiful, any woman practically starving herself to have a flat tummy is definitely not looking to add a basketball to their profile.
Jesus how little you know about mental illness. Just because you have an eating disorder doesn’t mean you never want to have children for fear of adding “a basketball to their profile
”what’s with the wink face.
Not sure where I said that, but not about to argue the point.
any woman practically starving herself to have a flat tummy is definitely not looking to add a basketball to their profile.
just so we can end things with a clarification.
Honestly I think you need to understand cultural differences. Just because Americans settle down at 21 doesn't mean the rest of the world does too?
Also there's nothing wrong with going out and enjoying yourself single or otherwise at 27. We are fairly progressive and most people like the idea of putting their career first and enjoying a single lifestyle and settling down at a later age. Doesn't make you a frat boy.
You can also be married, with a career and enjoy going out and having fun. I'm guessing that's probably why divorce rates are so high in America, married at 21 and not getting to enjoy the freedom of your twenties must be really hard.