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his account had always been private until he got the confidence to be on her vlogs, now it’s open. I’m getting the feeling he’s gonna be very comfortable with his new found fame 😂 going by that.
She doesn’t seem phased about sharing the baby herself, although I know she has been worried about people “knowing” them when Ireland is so small, I’d be the same,
Melanie Murphy (skerries own Beyoncé) is a joke 😂
I do hope Ashling has a balance, like give the kids name ffs 😂 don’t make a song and dance about it all like Melanie has, but keep his/her face off line as he/she grows.
A new born is a new born. Melanie is making it a circus at this point.

Babies all look the same, it’s very easy to keep your child off line without the song and dance that other one has made.
i didnt know that about his insta. maybe he does like the "fame" (lol fame 😂) that comes with youtube/social media. tho if the relationship broke down he may not like it so much especially having his private life out there.

yeah she probably will have a balance, but i do hope she keeps the babies face offline.

do you think they'd do (or at least try) to do what the saccone/jolys have done/are doing by having a reality-style show but on youtube? i think its something aisling always wanted with jimmy but he wasnt into it, but if paddy was up for it it could be something they'd do.

i always get the feeling she would love to be famous and well known like some other youtubers/influencers but it never worked out that way for her.

i dont follow melanie. her content is not for me personally and im not a fan of melanie herself. i did watch a few of her videos in the past but there was always something about her that i could never warm or take to for some reason and thus i never really errr "vibed" with her

also no uploads this week. she must have been "busy with work"....
 
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i didnt know that about his insta. maybe he does like the "fame" (lol fame 😂) that comes with youtube/social media. tho if the relationship broke down he may not like it so much especially having his private life out there.

yeah she probably will have a balance, but i do hope she keeps the babies face offline.

do you think they'd do (or at least try) to do what the saccone/jolys have done/are doing by having a reality-style show but on youtube? i think its something aisling always wanted with jimmy but he wasnt into it, but if paddy was up for it it could be something they'd do.

i always get the feeling she would love to be famous and well known like some other youtubers/influencers but it never worked out that way for her.

i dont follow melanie. her content is not for me personally and im not a fan of melanie herself. i did watch a few of her videos in the past but there was always something about her that i could never warm or take to for some reason and thus i never really errr "vibed" with her

also no uploads this week. she must have been "busy with work"....
yep, he stayed on private the whole time his face wasn’t really seen in her vlogs, and prior to that when he had no name 😂 but when she started showing him he went public 😂

I’d for sure say she would have if she hadn’t been so burned in her last two relationships (and had it all played out online) I think she also knows she lies so much it’s dangerous to document too much online and have it come back to bite her.
Something is off about this job, I don’t for one second believe she’s working.

she’s been very quiet online but he’s still posting so can’t be anything serious or they’d both be off.
Not even one Zara swipe up for scanky leggings in an extra extra extra small - one size up now she’s pregnant and allowing herself “large fridays”

Side note; I can’t believe a girl with an ED/nutritionist uses that term when talking about a takeaway.
 
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yep, he stayed on private the whole time his face wasn’t really seen in her vlogs, and prior to that when he had no name 😂 but when she started showing him he went public 😂

I’d for sure say she would have if she hadn’t been so burned in her last two relationships (and had it all played out online) I think she also knows she lies so much it’s dangerous to document too much online and have it come back to bite her.
Something is off about this job, I don’t for one second believe she’s working.

she’s been very quiet online but he’s still posting so can’t be anything serious or they’d both be off.
Not even one Zara swipe up for scanky leggings in an extra extra extra small - one size up now she’s pregnant and allowing herself “large fridays”

Side note; I can’t believe a girl with an ED/nutritionist uses that term when talking about a takeaway.
😂😂 maybe theyll start their own "show" on youtube. never say never especially when it comes to these influencers 😂

yeah true. i was always convinced she was mad to do it with jimmy but he wasn't into it and john wasn't on social media (i dont think) but now with paddy he doesnt mind an online presence it could be different. she might finally get o do it.

i dont think she is working either. for a full time job she has a LOT of free time to vlog, film some beauty/pregnancy vids, be online etc. i dont know of anyone (myself included) who has a full time job that would have the time to do all of that as well. it doesnt add up.

lol true that is dangerous and if she reads this thread she may well be realising that. yeah true and she has had a few tweets up. she is probably fuming this thread has taken off.

yeah that large friday thing winds me up i have to say. call it treat night, take out night or whatever but i think calling it "large" friday is pretty awful. she has a serious issue with image and its almost like she thinks people would think or talk ill of her if she gained a few pounds. i dont understand constantly have to reference her size regardless of what it is. like so what if you buy a 6 or a 16 theres no need for constant referencing. 🤷🤦

someone commented on a video recently that she looked different (in a good way) and aisling responded saying "it must be all the pregnancy weight ive gained". maybe its just me but she doesn't seem to have gained a pound. i do hope she is okay mind you. ed's are very difficult to deal with and i hope this pregnancy isn't a trigger for her ed.
 
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She will restrict massively up until the baby is born and afterwards I guess.
it’s her eating disorder that feels the need to constantly mention how little she’s eating and how small an appetite she has, she seemed angry her doctor hadn’t seen her weight as a problem to be honest, she made a comment like “he didn’t seem worried so” and the look on her face said a lot.
I do worry about how she’s going to be, she doesn’t strike me as someone who will cope with a baby and how different her life will be, and I doubt paddy knows much about babies or ED’s. God how will he fit a baby in around his football 😂

the fact she freaked out about the calories in a pot noodle, that she’d just bought an hour earlier 🥴 and therefore threw it out speaks volumes.
 
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She will restrict massively up until the baby is born and afterwards I guess.
it’s her eating disorder that feels the need to constantly mention how little she’s eating and how small an appetite she has, she seemed angry her doctor hadn’t seen her weight as a problem to be honest, she made a comment like “he didn’t seem worried so” and the look on her face said a lot.
I do worry about how she’s going to be, she doesn’t strike me as someone who will cope with a baby and how different her life will be, and I doubt paddy knows much about babies or ED’s. God how will he fit a baby in around his football 😂

the fact she freaked out about the calories in a pot noodle, that she’d just bought an hour earlier 🥴 and therefore threw it out speaks volumes.
Yeah I remember thinking exactly that, she seemed disappointed that her doctor didn't feel her weight was an issue. I think she said in a video her eating issues and weight loss stemmed from the break up with Jimmy, the weight was really falling off her around that time, but did she have an ED before that? She appears to still have massive eating issues even during the pregnancy and is probably using the pregnancy sickness as an excuse to restrict even more. I'd say she is terrified of gaining weight in her pregnancy and I really hope she is getting professional help with her ED during the pregnancy both with nutrition and with the psychological side of it. I often wondered if her ED was part of the reason she studied nutrition in the first place.
 
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Yeah I remember thinking exactly that, she seemed disappointed that her doctor didn't feel her weight was an issue. I think she said in a video her eating issues and weight loss stemmed from the break up with Jimmy, the weight was really falling off her around that time, but did she have an ED before that? She appears to still have massive eating issues even during the pregnancy and is probably using the pregnancy sickness as an excuse to restrict even more. I'd say she is terrified of gaining weight in her pregnancy and I really hope she is getting professional help with her ED during the pregnancy both with nutrition and with the psychological side of it. I often wondered if her ED was part of the reason she studied nutrition in the first place.
I know someone who knew her when she was a teenager, but that’s a long time ago, they say she didn’t, but she was always a very vain girl and a bit of a bully.
Now it’s very hard to know if she did, and she just didn’t know it herself or wasn’t open about it, personally I think you’re right and it really kicked in post jimmy, same with her depression which she acknowledged herself was because of her situation so she was only going to be on medication short term, I think heartbreak made her drop a lot of weight and that planted a seed.
Her attitude during the pregnancy is so damaging, I was getting sick of her “you guyssss I just have no appetite/it’s 3.30 and I haven’t even had lunch/I can’t eat anything attitude on Instagram stories. It’s all she talked about for a while.

what ever happened this show 😂

 
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Ugh I hope she doesn't try to be like those bleeps Sacconee/Jolyes! I don't think she would go to their extreme though bc she does seem to value a bit of privacy, even if that is just to cover her lies.
Also although I think Paddy is alright with being in a few videos and getting a little bit of "fame", I don't think he would be willing to showcase his whole life online. But sure I guess we'll see 🤷‍♀️
I feel like she did have an ED before Jimmy but is was somewhat stable and then after Jimmy, everything just went down hill.
I honestly didn't think you could be a nutritionist if you have an ED, like they don't even let you study it in college?
Something is def off about her job. I wonder if since she got pregnant they decided to not extend her contract :unsure: it would be super rit of them but it is also very believable to of happened.
 
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With her job, if she does work for the civil service, they wouldn't be able to just let her go like that. She said she had a temporary contract and then got made permanent. If that's the case she would be entitled to 6 months paid maternity leave. I actually do believe her about her job, if she's working online she could get a lot done in the day and still have time for filming since she doesn't have to commute or anything. I don't know why she'd lie about it, especially with a baby on the way like she's not a really big influencer I don't think she could live off just her YouTube money. Although maybe I'm being too naive seeing as she is lying about living in Dublin when she lives in Mullingar! I fell for that one till reading this thread!
 
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She will restrict massively up until the baby is born and afterwards I guess.
it’s her eating disorder that feels the need to constantly mention how little she’s eating and how small an appetite she has, she seemed angry her doctor hadn’t seen her weight as a problem to be honest, she made a comment like “he didn’t seem worried so” and the look on her face said a lot.
I do worry about how she’s going to be, she doesn’t strike me as someone who will cope with a baby and how different her life will be, and I doubt paddy knows much about babies or ED’s. God how will he fit a baby in around his football 😂

the fact she freaked out about the calories in a pot noodle, that she’d just bought an hour earlier 🥴 and therefore threw it out speaks volumes.
what was that about the doctor? I can't remember exactly what it was but i do remember her mentioning something about it. didnt she also mention she should/needed to gain a pound a week or something?

hmm yeah i dont know how she will cope. its a big thing having someone rely on you 24/7 for everything. even though she will have help with her parents and paddy i just dont think the reality of it all has really clicked with her fully.

lol football, nights out with friends, trips away and whatnot. hes going to find it hugely restricting i think but maybe not maybe he wants to be a young dad.

yeah that was a hullabaloo over a pot noodle. surely youd check the nutrition info before buying? also the comment about not eating the skinny bars (or whatever they were) all the time..... did anyone say or assume she would do that? its like she feels she has to justify a treat or junk food. i dont have an ed myself so i am unfamiliar with the characteristics of them myself. i know very little of them.

Yeah I remember thinking exactly that, she seemed disappointed that her doctor didn't feel her weight was an issue. I think she said in a video her eating issues and weight loss stemmed from the break up with Jimmy, the weight was really falling off her around that time, but did she have an ED before that? She appears to still have massive eating issues even during the pregnancy and is probably using the pregnancy sickness as an excuse to restrict even more. I'd say she is terrified of gaining weight in her pregnancy and I really hope she is getting professional help with her ED during the pregnancy both with nutrition and with the psychological side of it. I often wondered if her ED was part of the reason she studied nutrition in the first place.
i am pretty sure she did have an ed since her teenage years. i recall her mentioning in a very early video (one of her first i think) that she "had issues with food" but it was too painful to speak about publicly (at that time).


I know someone who knew her when she was a teenager, but that’s a long time ago, they say she didn’t, but she was always a very vain girl and a bit of a bully.
Now it’s very hard to know if she did, and she just didn’t know it herself or wasn’t open about it, personally I think you’re right and it really kicked in post jimmy, same with her depression which she acknowledged herself was because of her situation so she was only going to be on medication short term, I think heartbreak made her drop a lot of weight and that planted a seed.
Her attitude during the pregnancy is so damaging, I was getting sick of her “you guyssss I just have no appetite/it’s 3.30 and I haven’t even had lunch/I can’t eat anything attitude on Instagram stories. It’s all she talked about for a while.

what ever happened this show 😂

that article is very telling about her issue with image.

“Carbohydrates are not a problem but it’s the wrong carbohydrates that will cause obesity. I’m passionate about giving people tips as simple and straightforward as possible. I use the food pyramid to explain. I would always recommend to people to have more fruit and veg than carbohydrates in a day because that’s where you get your vitamins and minerals. They help with your hair, your skin, your figure. ”

if people are going in for nutritional advice, surely its based on health requirments and wanting to lose weight for health reasons not for their hair/skin? i get that figure is a part of it as people want to look well (dont we all) but maybe its just me. personally if i needed help with my diet it would be for health reasons, not aesthetics, they'd be at the bottom of the list.

i think she failed to realise back then (and fails to realise even now) that there is so much more to nutrition than how you look. its quite striking that she equates nutrition to aesthetics. i find that extremely worrying and frankly wouldnt go near anyone who was so obsessed with image and personal aesthetics for nutritional advice.

as for being "head-hunted by L’Oréal". lol no hun. 😂 she probably thought that show was going to launch a tv career for her. from what i remember she had a what, 30 second cameo if even. it was a waste of her time to be honest. all the effort for a cameo??

"a woman of all trades" what trades? can anyone enlighten me please?

the article was about the show and yet she is giving nutrition "advice" in it.

With her job, if she does work for the civil service, they wouldn't be able to just let her go like that. She said she had a temporary contract and then got made permanent. If that's the case she would be entitled to 6 months paid maternity leave. I actually do believe her about her job, if she's working online she could get a lot done in the day and still have time for filming since she doesn't have to commute or anything. I don't know why she'd lie about it, especially with a baby on the way like she's not a really big influencer I don't think she could live off just her YouTube money. Although maybe I'm being too naive seeing as she is lying about living in Dublin when she lives in Mullingar! I fell for that one till reading this thread!
when was she made permanent?? i remember her saying she was waiting to be called for an interview but she never mentioned having to go for or having been for an interview. would they make her permanent without one? i also think she mentioned if she was made permanent it was in a different department to where she was originally?

yeah maybe she would have a lot of time but personally knowing several who are working from home, theres no way they'd have a few hours to film videos, vlog, edit, be on social media and whatnot whilst doing their work. yeah they may have more time, but not several hours.

no uploads last week, no insta (talking) stories and nothing today. im sure shes okay as she was on twitter talking about netflix so cant be anything wrong.
 
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Don’t think she’s really thought about how her life is going to change...I mean in a recent vlog can’t remember which she says she is dying to go on holidays in Ireland, she has a list of places she wants to go and she doesn’t care who is going with her she’s going and taking the baby...quite an
Immature idea to have
Like the baby comes first love not you so saying you’ve holidays you want and the baby is going to tag along like an accessory if very naive
Kind of reminds me of the girls on 16 and pregnant that were planning to have the same life they had before baby and then got a proper slap in the face when baby came along
 
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what was that about the doctor? I can't remember exactly what it was but i do remember her mentioning something about it. didnt she also mention she should/needed to gain a pound a week or something?

hmm yeah i dont know how she will cope. its a big thing having someone rely on you 24/7 for everything. even though she will have help with her parents and paddy i just dont think the reality of it all has really clicked with her fully.

lol football, nights out with friends, trips away and whatnot. hes going to find it hugely restricting i think but maybe not maybe he wants to be a young dad.

yeah that was a hullabaloo over a pot noodle. surely youd check the nutrition info before buying? also the comment about not eating the skinny bars (or whatever they were) all the time..... did anyone say or assume she would do that? its like she feels she has to justify a treat or junk food. i dont have an ed myself so i am unfamiliar with the characteristics of them myself. i know very little of them.

i am pretty sure she did have an ed since her teenage years. i recall her mentioning in a very early video (one of her first i think) that she "had issues with food" but it was too painful to speak about publicly (at that time).


that article is very telling about her issue with image.

“Carbohydrates are not a problem but it’s the wrong carbohydrates that will cause obesity. I’m passionate about giving people tips as simple and straightforward as possible. I use the food pyramid to explain. I would always recommend to people to have more fruit and veg than carbohydrates in a day because that’s where you get your vitamins and minerals. They help with your hair, your skin, your figure. ”

if people are going in for nutritional advice, surely its based on health requirments and wanting to lose weight for health reasons not for their hair/skin? i get that figure is a part of it as people want to look well (dont we all) but maybe its just me. personally if i needed help with my diet it would be for health reasons, not aesthetics, they'd be at the bottom of the list.

i think she failed to realise back then (and fails to realise even now) that there is so much more to nutrition than how you look. its quite striking that she equates nutrition to aesthetics. i find that extremely worrying and frankly wouldnt go near anyone who was so obsessed with image and personal aesthetics for nutritional advice.

as for being "head-hunted by L’Oréal". lol no hun. 😂 she probably thought that show was going to launch a tv career for her. from what i remember she had a what, 30 second cameo if even. it was a waste of her time to be honest. all the effort for a cameo??

"a woman of all trades" what trades? can anyone enlighten me please?

the article was about the show and yet she is giving nutrition "advice" in it.

when was she made permanent?? i remember her saying she was waiting to be called for an interview but she never mentioned having to go for or having been for an interview. would they make her permanent without one? i also think she mentioned if she was made permanent it was in a different department to where she was originally?

yeah maybe she would have a lot of time but personally knowing several who are working from home, theres no way they'd have a few hours to film videos, vlog, edit, be on social media and whatnot whilst doing their work. yeah they may have more time, but not several hours.

no uploads last week, no insta (talking) stories and nothing today. im sure shes okay as she was on twitter talking about netflix so cant be anything wrong.
I think she mentioned permanent jobs coming up and she said something about being kept on, she might not be permanent it might just be her temporary contract was extended. Civil service jobs are very different to a regular office job in terms of interview process. You're put on a panel in order of merit and get offers based on your ranking. So say she took a temporary job and people ahead of her in the interview process got permanent jobs, they're taken off the panel and she gets bumped up the list for the next permanent jobs that come up. I don't know if I've explained that very well but basically she's in a very good position to be made permanent if she isn't already. She wouldn't have to reinterview. Civil service is very secure compared to working in the private sector. It wouldn't be huge money but it's very secure with paid maternity leave and a pension etc. If you stay in it for years and work your way through the ranks you can end up on very good money. I'd actually well believe she could get emails and stuff done with time to spare for filming, especially if she worked extra hours on days she wasn't filming to make up time. The job is probably like entry level admin and wouldn't be hugely demanding. Maybe I'm being too gullible but it would be such a weird thing to lie about having a job, surely people in her real life would call her out on it if she was lying.
 
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I think she mentioned permanent jobs coming up and she said something about being kept on, she might not be permanent it might just be her temporary contract was extended. Civil service jobs are very different to a regular office job in terms of interview process. You're put on a panel in order of merit and get offers based on your ranking. So say she took a temporary job and people ahead of her in the interview process got permanent jobs, they're taken off the panel and she gets bumped up the list for the next permanent jobs that come up. I don't know if I've explained that very well but basically she's in a very good position to be made permanent if she isn't already. She wouldn't have to reinterview. Civil service is very secure compared to working in the private sector. It wouldn't be huge money but it's very secure with paid maternity leave and a pension etc. If you stay in it for years and work your way through the ranks you can end up on very good money. I'd actually well believe she could get emails and stuff done with time to spare for filming, especially if she worked extra hours on days she wasn't filming to make up time. The job is probably like entry level admin and wouldn't be hugely demanding. Maybe I'm being too gullible but it would be such a weird thing to lie about having a job, surely people in her real life would call her out on it if she was lying.

You make a lot of sense there.
The only thing I can imagine is that they had told her they were keeping her on but it wasn't made official (contract signed etc) and her temp contract hadn't quiet finished at the time. Then she gets pregnant and since the permanent or extended contact hadn't been signed & sealed, they just said oh well we need someone for the role now so we'll have to get someone else 🤷‍♀️ & since she was only on a temp contract they just let her go after it ended. They could of said to her that after she has the baby, if she is looking for work then they'll happily accept her CV/application for any roles they have on offer.
It is super tit but they aren't really breaking any rules.
I feel she could just be glossing over the whole work situation in hopes no one asks and is distracted by the baby. Sure after she has the baby she could just say she wants to be a stay at home mam for a while anyways.
 
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Wait for the next upload or Instagram where she mentions the job 😂

I think it was an Instagram story when she was talking about the permanent position and how it still had to be advertised for others to apply but she was confident she’s get it.

but then she also said she had tons on annual leave to use up so she was taking all of January off, and then forgot that lie.

there’s just something that doesn’t add up with it all.

what was that about the doctor? I can't remember exactly what it was but i do remember her mentioning something about it. didnt she also mention she should/needed to gain a pound a week or something?
she’s very focused on how little weight she’s gained, almost to make sure her audience know despite being pregnant she’s still so thin and she’s only had to go up a size to an xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxs,

I think it was one of her hospital updates, not sure if it was insta or YT, where she was talking about how little she was eating but (not a direct quote) “nobody seems concerned so whatever” she almost seemed annoyed they weren’t concerned, clear ED mindset and not aisling herself. 🤦‍♀️
 
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You make a lot of sense there.
The only thing I can imagine is that they had told her they were keeping her on but it wasn't made official (contract signed etc) and her temp contract hadn't quiet finished at the time. Then she gets pregnant and since the permanent or extended contact hadn't been signed & sealed, they just said oh well we need someone for the role now so we'll have to get someone else 🤷‍♀️ & since she was only on a temp contract they just let her go after it ended. They could of said to her that after she has the baby, if she is looking for work then they'll happily accept her CV/application for any roles they have on offer.
It is super tit but they aren't really breaking any rules.
I feel she could just be glossing over the whole work situation in hopes no one asks and is distracted by the baby. Sure after she has the baby she could just say she wants to be a stay at home mam for a while anyways.
Yeah I could definitely see her using the baby as a reason for staying at home and claiming she always wanted to be a stay at home mammy. In reality she wouldn't leave a secure civil service job of her own choice, she'd be mad leaving if she's looking for a mortgage! Even if her influencer job earns decent money at the moment it is very unstable whereas a civil service job is very secure and you're guaranteed to move up payscale increments over the years as well. That's leaving aside promotion opportunities that could arise as well and increase your pay. It would look a lot better to a bank to have a civil service job, even if the pay was lower at the moment, than to be relying on youtube and Instagram for your earnings. If things don't work out with the job she'll make out like it was her decision to leave, even though there would be no logical reason to leave the job especially when you're looking to buy a house.
 
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Yeah I could definitely see her using the baby as a reason for staying at home and claiming she always wanted to be a stay at home mammy. In reality she wouldn't leave a secure civil service job of her own choice, she'd be mad leaving if she's looking for a mortgage! Even if her influencer job earns decent money at the moment it is very unstable whereas a civil service job is very secure and you're guaranteed to move up payscale increments over the years as well. That's leaving aside promotion opportunities that could arise as well and increase your pay. It would look a lot better to a bank to have a civil service job, even if the pay was lower at the moment, than to be relying on youtube and Instagram for your earnings. If things don't work out with the job she'll make out like it was her decision to leave, even though there would be no logical reason to leave the job especially when you're looking to buy a house.
I wonder what the job is/was. She once mentioned working on an interesting case.
 
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she’s very focused on how little weight she’s gained, almost to make sure her audience know despite being pregnant she’s still so thin and she’s only had to go up a size to an xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxs,
called it.

Weetabix minis and half a banana isn’t “healthy”

her Xs coat won’t zip up.

she can’t wait to get back to jogging, she used to do 5k no bother and hopefully in a few months she’ll be back to that.

more diet cereal bars and talk of feeling “heavy” 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
 
Hi all, I like Aisling. I am noticing her reference to sizing and it’s worrying and it’s a pet peeve when people are fixated on sizing, yes it’s probably an ED trait. A 5k in 25mins is NOT a jog, it’s a serious run!
 
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Couldn’t get past the first few mins of her video with all her complaining about what she can’t do.
laughable when herself and paddy see themselves as above the rules and always have done. Poor pet can’t get her 12 inch nails done or her hair done, can’t even go for a side salad pizza with her friends 😐

She apparently has a Government role, yet she’s been breaking restrictions from day one.... interesting.
 
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