Dancinatthedisco
Active member
I really think the “I couldn’t do such and such because I love my kids too much” comments are so so unfair. Its obviously implying people who do make these choices don’t love their children as much as the rest of us which is of course nonsense.
I returned to college to study in healthcare last year and I have nothing but admiration for doctors and the huge sacrifices they make to study. They are sacrifices I could not make myself, which is why I could never be a doctor! Especially females and mothers because they are under such criticism. A mother can only advance in her career if she sacrifices her children?? I wouldn’t doubt for a second that Lisa (and her husband) are making these short term sacrifices exactly for their children’s future. Maybe it’s the system that needs adjusting? I’m studying/on placement during the week and working part time at the weekends to get through college, I have 3 small kids and it’s definitely impacting my time with them but myself and my husband know and agree it’s for the bigger picture and a better future for them, I would be so hurt if people assumed in doing so it’s because I don’t love them and am happy to be away from them.... it’s exactly my strong love for them that’s pushing me through and I can only imagine how people in Lisa’s position feel!
Anyway just my 2 cents, people don’t have to agree.
I returned to college to study in healthcare last year and I have nothing but admiration for doctors and the huge sacrifices they make to study. They are sacrifices I could not make myself, which is why I could never be a doctor! Especially females and mothers because they are under such criticism. A mother can only advance in her career if she sacrifices her children?? I wouldn’t doubt for a second that Lisa (and her husband) are making these short term sacrifices exactly for their children’s future. Maybe it’s the system that needs adjusting? I’m studying/on placement during the week and working part time at the weekends to get through college, I have 3 small kids and it’s definitely impacting my time with them but myself and my husband know and agree it’s for the bigger picture and a better future for them, I would be so hurt if people assumed in doing so it’s because I don’t love them and am happy to be away from them.... it’s exactly my strong love for them that’s pushing me through and I can only imagine how people in Lisa’s position feel!
Anyway just my 2 cents, people don’t have to agree.