Scorpihoe
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Have you tried talking to your partner? Lockdown is hard at the moment and is causing a strain on relationships. I know it’s difficult but maybe speak to him and see how he feels! If you’re truly unhappy and don’t see the relationship going anywhere then I would say leave.
But I don’t think “breaks” solve anything. You’re just delaying the same issues you have with the relationship/each other. It’s better to talk the issue out, I think. Consider if you did go on a break, what would you do? Would you move out? Would he? When do you decide when the break is over? And is this stable for your son if he comes back and then there’s another break? I think talk to your partner first and see how you feel
Sorry I don’t mean to sound harsh, I know it’s difficult at the moment
But I don’t think “breaks” solve anything. You’re just delaying the same issues you have with the relationship/each other. It’s better to talk the issue out, I think. Consider if you did go on a break, what would you do? Would you move out? Would he? When do you decide when the break is over? And is this stable for your son if he comes back and then there’s another break? I think talk to your partner first and see how you feel
Sorry I don’t mean to sound harsh, I know it’s difficult at the moment