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sleepflowers

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'Oh I haven't had a superlike in ages, let's see who it is'


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This ugly ass Chewbacca lookalike. I am DISGUSTED
Also there's no chance of getting ME to be some p*do daddy little girl roleplay, I'm inclined the other way if you know what I mean
 
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RedMagnolia

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I'd say this is not even a lockdown only issue, just generally over the past few years. I've heard some horrific things, like young teenage girls being told their vagina is ugly by boys who have only ever known porn.
Oh God, I know. A friend's daughter, aged 18, was told by her boyfriend she had a 'ham vagina' and needed surgery to tidy it up. He reckoned all other women have tucked in vaginas, no labia majora or minora on show at all. She was devastated and it took her mum, a nurse like me, ages to reassure her that her bits were perfectly normal and her boyfriend was the excess baggage that needed removing.
 
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kingdomhearts

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I was waiting for a bus at like 11pm in Manchester and a guy approached me and asked for a pound (assume he was homeless or something) so I gave it him and then he asked me on a date 🤨 yeah, gonna take me out with that £1 hun?
 
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sleepflowers

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Hinge have to be taking the piss. I'm a librarian, I have an English degree, and this is who they've suggested as my 'most compatible' today

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anonesk223

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Why does everyone ask “so what brings you to tinder/hinge?”
Actually Barry it’s because I’m happily married living in a castle with 5 kids but my finger slipped and I accidentally installed the app. Why do you THINK I’m here???
 
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Update- saw him Friday. We were together a long time. Time goes quite fast on our dates tbh. We did speak about deeper stuff at one point and I did tell him I hadn’t been intimate with anyone (I can’t lie for shit either)but now I wish I hadn’t or just lied. We didn’t speak all day yesterday so I took it as a bad sign as we speak and text a lot. Anyway He text me this morning asking to speak and then we had a phone call and he has asked to not continue dating.
 
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anonesk223

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It’s happened again!
Had such a nice first date yesterday, thought it went well and I’ve been hit YET AGAIN with the “I really don’t see anything going forward sorry”

I genuinely do not know what I am doing wrong at this point 🤷🏻‍♀️ I’ve been having a good cry this evening, sounds pathetic but I think it’s a mix of liking this guy and constantly being rejected 😂
 
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HelloStereo

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Went on a date yesterday with someone I had met off Hinge. We had Facetimed before and seemed to get on well over message (I know that's no replacement for face to face conversation).

We met outside a pub and I liked him more in person. We got a few drinks and he suggested getting food so we ordered a few side dishes. Then had another drink.

Four drinks in I suggest another place as the views are excellent and he likes the beer there.

He just turned around and went 'to be honest, I'm not really feeling it'. He offered to wait as I finished my drink but I didn't want the awkwardness so I just said he could go and I'll just finish up. Ended up sitting in the pub on my lonesome with half a pint.

On the one hand I am grateful for his honestly and not that he just left after and didn't reply again. On the other hand if he wasn't interested why would he suggest food and stay for that many drinks. I thought it was going well too, we had flirty chat and I could see him look me up and down a few times. 😭
 
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yankydoo

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How do you approach discussing dating with your friends? I used to tell my friends (whether they are single or not) all the gory details of every date and get really excited about anyone who could potentially be the one. However, I slowly started feeling stupid when each potential fell through and sharing details really lost its fun - especially when you get asked "how's Rob?" and he ghosted you two weeks ago.

I now don't tell anyone anything and honestly feel that if I meet someone now I will keep it quiet until a substantial amount of time has passed and I'm out of the danger zone. If I'm asked, I won't lie but I'll say that I'm dating but there's nothing serious to report on.
 
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Clickbait

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When I was dumped, I finally realized that he was lining me up days after his breakup from a two-year relationship (and possibly was chatting me up on Tinder before it ended). If my partner were doing that, I would’ve liked to know - so I reached out to the girl very nicely and told her that sorry to bother her but I just found out I was a rebound and he possibly was involved with me when they were together still and that I didn’t know and I’m sorry. Wow, she lashed out at me and ran to him and they both ganged up on me instead of solving their own issues. He was mad and cruel at me because now his ex knows he was a lousy unfaithful man.
Honestly, and I know this is easier said than done, but you need to stop getting involved with this man and his ex-girlfriends.

I understand that perhaps you wanted someone to sympathise with you over the fact he is a total shit but not everyone wants to know that their ex may have cheated on them behind their back unless they were in danger of going back there. Someone contacting me out of the blue to tell me that may or may not have happened would either make me angry or upset, and I wouldn’t welcome either emotion into my life. I would think the girl telling me was trying to cause trouble for the ex and/or get his attention.

You haven’t mentioned how you know the names and contact details of his exes which also strikes me as odd. If you’re taking time to hunt them down it is more time you are wasting on someone who doesn’t deserve it.

As for this man being angry for you reaching out with your theory, I can see his point of view as it looks like shit stirring.

I can tell from what you’ve written that you’re desperately hurt and upset by his behaviour and rightly so. When I read how he treated you and had the audacity to try and review you my blood boiled on your behalf, but doing anything more that involves this man is only going to prolong the time it takes to move on. Moreover it may see you painted as the ‘psycho ex’ and not believed which will cause you even more pain.

The best way to get back at David is to be happy and leave him for dust. Men like that will never find true happiness because they love themselves more than they could ever love anyone else. Good luck.
 
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roobs21

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At this stage I’m just using Hinge for validation more than anything. I’ve currently got 144 likes sitting there and I’ve matched with one guy but he’s a lot younger than me so I’m not treating it as anything serious.

Last year I matched with a guy who wanted to meet me within the space of exchanging about 2 messages. I wasn’t feeling it and at that point probably wasn’t ready to be dating as the divorce had just come through and I was all over the place. So I told him I wasn’t ready, told him the circumstances etc and he was totally understanding but said to let him know when I was ready.

I deleted my account for a few months then when I was ready I re-joined and had a few dates with a guy (who I quite frankly adore but we’re just mates now). I was just at the stage where I was about to pause my profiles again thinking it may go somewhere when I get a message request from first guy on Instagram (he didn’t follow me and I didn’t follow him) and he basically said to me “I see you’re back on the dating apps. Does that mean I can take you out now?” So I said I was but actually was about to pause them again as I wanted to see how things go with new guy. He snapped. Started sending me a stream of messages saying he should have had first dibs on me and that I should have contacted him, how dare I set up a dating profile and not let him know, called me a prick tease and a bitch. I told him he didn’t have any rights over me and blocked him - what a lucky escape!!
 
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