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Fizzwhizz2020

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He probably does have asthma. There’s no reason for him to lie is there? A lot of people with breathing issues cough a lot and the NHS probably won’t test him anyway. If he does have asthma he will also be high risk and not wanting to catch it. Don’t think you should worry so much hun
 
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WhatABore

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So I have been working from
Home since March but have to go into the office every so often for a week straight to do a certain job role.

ive been in today and yesterday and there is this guy in who is coughing constantly !! Im
Talking every few seconds ! He’s about 5 metres away from me and we are socially
Distanced!

we have to wear masks but not when sitting at our desks

anyway I spoke to my manager as worried as my husband is high risk and said has anyone asked him if he has had a test - apparently they spoke to him and it’s asthma that gets worse in the cold!

fair enough I guess but surely they should not be allowing him in until he can show a negative test!

he’s agency so won’t get paid if he is off sick
!!

I really don’t want to go in and today felt like I wasgoing to cry - silly I know but I got really worked up!!

my boss said she could move me but the office has no windows so no fresh air circulation and need to be by the printer for this role !!

im due in the rest of the week and a day next week!

wha would you guys do?’
I have asthma and another thing that makes me cough a lot and I get constant stares every time I cough. I understand others concerns but I know 100% it's the same cough I've had for years.
Only thing you can do is keep your distance if it makes you feel uncomfortable.
But if he's been coughing for weeks, that pretty much confirms what he's saying

He’s coughing. He shouldn’t be at work!
I've had a cough for years due to 2 conditions.
Symptoms are a new cough.
Everyone that has anything wrong with them that causes a cough can't be made to stay at home 24/7
 
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littlepup

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It's not and, it's or. You only need one symptom to be eligible for a test.
Sorry you’re right, it’s changed. Previously I couldn’t get one due to not losing the smell/taste.

Still, if it isn’t a new cough, they wouldn’t be eligible. Of course they could lie but there’s a wait time. If the company is prepared to pay while they’re off, I guess that would be acceptable.

It wouldn’t surprise me if the fella in question turned out to have Covid, but it would be discrimination to force him to stay home until he can prove it and where does that stop? Does he need to prove he hasn’t got TB either? That’s the point imo

Honestly this thread has really shown some peoples true colours. Were in the middle of a pandemic thats killed thousands of people, one of the main symptoms is a cough. Anyway has the right to be concerned about someone who is coughing continuesly in this present time. Eapecially if they also live with someone high risk.

The world is crazy at the minute and I know alot of people are stressed, worried ect but please remember a little kindness goes along way ❤
You’re right, a little kindness goes go a long way so that’s why you’d hope that people would understand that there are other conditions that can cause a cough. Conditions people have to live with everyday and are now causing them to be treated like outcasts, jeopardising their livelihoods. People have the right to their concerns but they also have the right to not have their private health information made public and not be discriminated against. IMO management should be saying it’s dealt with and not divulging his health conditions.


It reminds me of HIV workplace discrimination.
If you’re making people prove they don’t have Covid in this scenario, it’s only a step away from making people prove they don’t have other diseases because they have ONE visible, possible symptom.

I’ll say no more and yes people are in a heightened state of alert, more fragile, but unless they know it’s a new, continuous cough as per guidelines, it’s entitled to suggest someone should be tested when they could be asymptomatic themselves. It’s discrimination whatever way you cut it.
 
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JoeBloggs

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Where did I say they’d offered me an alternative office - they offered me a different seat but that’s no possible as I need to be by the printer
You said and I quote 'my boss said she could move me but the office has no windows so no fresh air circulation and need to be by the printer for this role !!'.

You boss has offered you other options, you are working more than 2 meters away from this person. You work can literally do no more for you if you need to be by a printer.

The man gave his explanation for a cough, but it seems you are not happy to accept it or compromise on your need to be next to a printer. He hasn't done anything wrong.
 
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allforthegram

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So I have been working from
Home since March but have to go into the office every so often for a week straight to do a certain job role.

ive been in today and yesterday and there is this guy in who is coughing constantly !! Im
Talking every few seconds ! He’s about 5 metres away from me and we are socially
Distanced!

we have to wear masks but not when sitting at our desks

anyway I spoke to my manager as worried as my husband is high risk and said has anyone asked him if he has had a test - apparently they spoke to him and it’s asthma that gets worse in the cold!

fair enough I guess but surely they should not be allowing him in until he can show a negative test!

he’s agency so won’t get paid if he is off sick
!!

I really don’t want to go in and today felt like I wasgoing to cry - silly I know but I got really worked up!!

my boss said she could move me but the office has no windows so no fresh air circulation and need to be by the printer for this role !!

im due in the rest of the week and a day next week!

wha would you guys do?’
Hmm a difficult one, i understand your Concerns, but equally someone coughing doesn’t immediately mean they have covid, there are still many many other reasons.
Keep your mask on, make sure it’s an appropriate one, keep up your sanitisation and maybe escalate your concerns in writing to your manager and just have a friendly word with your colleague?
good luck!
 
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WhatABore

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So... did the guy test negative (as I strongly suspect he will). Of and for the record, your manager has breached confidentiality for disclosing someone’s medical condition.
I personally think regardless of the guys result, the OP will possibly lie as the thread has gone against them
 
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Gertrude

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I don’t have asthma or anything but sometimes I get scared to cough at the supermarket. Last time I did, people gave me weird looks, so now I try and hold it in and look like this 😳
Omg the other day I was queuing at the post office and felt a sneeze coming but forced myself to hold it as I didn’t want to get the weird looks (even though sneezing isn’t a sign of covid) I almost wet myself in the process 😂
 
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JoeBloggs

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The thing I've learnt is you cannot manage other people's behaviour, only your own. It can be frustrating or worrying but I just ensure I am doing what I feel is the right thing to do for me (whilst respecting others). Some people don't seem to social distance so I just move rather than get cross. 🤷‍♀️
So I think the best course of action is to move away from this person or work from home. He cannot (and should not) be penalised for his asthma, its unfortunate that he has a cough and I get why its made you worry, but he's explained and you have to accept that I think.
Exactly this. I really don't think its someone's place to speak to them about their coughing. Fair enough raise it with HR if you have concerns, but it is not an employees role to question with health of a fellow employee.

If you feel unsafe, you need to raise it with your HR, do what you can to keep yourself safe or alternatively work from home.

The guy never once explained himself ? He didn’t speak to anyone as nobody knows each other anymore as so many new people since working from home ? The only person who asked him was his manager - it would of helped if maybe he had told his colleagues around him that he had asthma
He doesn't need to explain himself. His medical conditions are not public business. He's agency, he probably isnt going to be there long so why on earth would he tell anyone.
 
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JoeBloggs

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I asked what other people would do yesterday when I thought he’d be in the office the remainder of the week ???
But the answer is the same. Work from home or stay away from him. You don't seem happy that people didn't agree that he should have been made to have a test.

He may well be back in the office tomorrow, so if you are not happy with him being there, request to work from home or move seats.
 
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MaxieMoo

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How I read it was that she had gone to work and there was someone coughibg continuously. She didn't say it was new but she didn't say it was an ongoing thing either. Hence why i addressed both 😊
I get that. I just feel like the poor guy is being accused of having Covid and risking people's health and their families just because he has a cough that he has reasonably explained is due to his asthma.

My husband is clinically vulnerable. I work in a hospital. I worked through the whole of the first lockdown and the second. I take all the appropriate precautions to keep myself, my family and my colleagues safe. I get the OP's concerns but I just feel it's unfair on thus guy because there has been insinuations that he has Covid and also that he is agency and doesn't get paid if he doesn't come to work. I might have read that wrong as I'm tired but I just feel this is all a bit unfair on the guy who, imo hasn't done anything wrong.

Right, now I'm off to scoff my advent calendar 😁
 
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Leahhutchinson

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Where did I say they’d offered me an alternative office - they offered me a different seat but that’s no possible as I need to be by the printer


Laughable - because his manager took him aside and asked him about a cough ?? Is anyone actually reading what happened
So why can't you work in the other office and walk to the printer? I have asthma and It makes me so anxious when I'm coughing and I would hate to think my colleagues are all thinking I have covid (and I work in health care in a very busy hopsital ward so have to wear a mask for 12 hours a day). Keep your mask on for the day or move offices and walk to the printer and just think how he may be feeling stuck between a rock and a hard place trying to pay his bills
 
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Countrybumpkingirl

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You couldn't have said it better. Nowadays people are basically scared of coughing for people like this...
I am at high risk, so rather than panic, I just keep away from people and make sensible choices. I think people are being almost too precious but have no issues breaking/flaunting lockdown when it suits them (not saying OP is doing this I am talking about Joe Public)
 
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mermaidexoxo

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I suffer badly with seasonal asthma. If I’m in a cold and dry environment I am coughing non stop. You have every right to be concerned however If you notice any other symptoms from him, I.e temperature, fatigue, going to the loo a lot with the runs flag it up to management or speak to him directly if he’s showing signs he needs a test. Try not to worry too much but also take into consideration a lot of covid cases can be asymptomatic too. So people who aren’t coughing could also have the virus. Including yourself.
 
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Scorpihoe

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I don’t have asthma or anything but sometimes I get scared to cough at the supermarket. Last time I did, people gave me weird looks, so now I try and hold it in and look like this 😳

I feel so bad for this guy
 
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Laur91

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The guy never once explained himself ? He didn’t speak to anyone as nobody knows each other anymore as so many new people since working from home ? The only person who asked him was his manager - it would of helped if maybe he had told his colleagues around him that he had asthma
huh? If he told his manager he has asthma cos his manager asked then yeah, he explained himself? Why does he have to declare to his colleagues that he has asthma? It’s none of anyone’s business!

I have asthma myself calm down - I’d expect people to be concerned if I was coughing all over the place during a pandemic too

surely this is more reason for you to be understanding? What if you or your husband were coughing at work and you said ‘oh I’ve got asthma’ and then continued to be accused of lying or speculated over? :/ why is it not possible that he just has asthma, like you?
 
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JoeBloggs

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I have told my work about this and they basically said everyone has to take it in turns to do this role . Theres some very vulnerable people in the office also having to do this role
Your work have done what they can, your over 5 meters away from him. They have offered you an alternative office, I am not really sure what else you expect them to do?

If he took a test he could easily be positive tomorrow. Someone else in the office could also be positive but asymptomatic.
 
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GiggleBee

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Honestly this thread has really shown some peoples true colours. Were in the middle of a pandemic thats killed thousands of people, one of the main symptoms is a cough. Anyway has the right to be concerned about someone who is coughing continuesly in this present time. Eapecially if they also live with someone high risk.

The world is crazy at the minute and I know alot of people are stressed, worried ect but please remember a little kindness goes along way ❤
 
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Scorpihoe

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I want to track this guy down and tell him it’s okay to cough because he has asthma and to stand up to these office bullies.

Oh and also consider legal action for his boss gossiping about his medical history and having to take time off
 
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No style rocky

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The OP said everyone they'd asked irl agreed with their concerns, so what was the point asking/sharing this on tattle? I feel bad for this guy, no doubt he was picking up on an atmosphere in the office environment
 
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