Notgonnalie
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Had my first argument at the school gate today covid related of course.
I was standing waiting on my daughter (age 4) to get out of school. She has a mild cold. The other parents were talking about how their children had the cold too and how the teacher said most of them have it. I said something along the lines of how my child has it too but it’s not bothering her she’s got a bit of a runny nose and coughing a bit when it’s bed time - (it’s not an all day cough - not continuous etc.)
One of them piped in “and did her test come back negative” I said what test? They said the covid one how was she getting it. I said she didn’t get it I’m not gonna test her when she doesn’t have symptoms. A mild cough at night time isn’t a symptom - she has a cold. She said you ought to get her tested. I said no I’m not she’s fine and the teachers have no concerns either. If she had a continuous cough I’d get her tested but it’s not continuous it’s just a mild cough in the evening when she’s trying to get over to sleep. When my daughter came out the parent said to her oh I think mummy’s going to take you to the doctor you’re very sick. My daughter said I’m not sick I’m happy. I blew up. How dare anyone tell my child I’m taking them to the doctor what in the name of fuck.
Is this normal!!?!? Why should I put my four year old through an unnecessary test because she coughs a bit at bed time. She’s absolutely fine. I asked the teachers if they were ok with her being in with the cold and they said of course, they’re kids they spread all sorts to each other it’s part of life. They said they’re only concerned if they’ve a high temperature, continuous cough and other covid symptoms . Sorry this probably isn’t really relevant to the thread I just feel so annoyed
I was standing waiting on my daughter (age 4) to get out of school. She has a mild cold. The other parents were talking about how their children had the cold too and how the teacher said most of them have it. I said something along the lines of how my child has it too but it’s not bothering her she’s got a bit of a runny nose and coughing a bit when it’s bed time - (it’s not an all day cough - not continuous etc.)
One of them piped in “and did her test come back negative” I said what test? They said the covid one how was she getting it. I said she didn’t get it I’m not gonna test her when she doesn’t have symptoms. A mild cough at night time isn’t a symptom - she has a cold. She said you ought to get her tested. I said no I’m not she’s fine and the teachers have no concerns either. If she had a continuous cough I’d get her tested but it’s not continuous it’s just a mild cough in the evening when she’s trying to get over to sleep. When my daughter came out the parent said to her oh I think mummy’s going to take you to the doctor you’re very sick. My daughter said I’m not sick I’m happy. I blew up. How dare anyone tell my child I’m taking them to the doctor what in the name of fuck.
Is this normal!!?!? Why should I put my four year old through an unnecessary test because she coughs a bit at bed time. She’s absolutely fine. I asked the teachers if they were ok with her being in with the cold and they said of course, they’re kids they spread all sorts to each other it’s part of life. They said they’re only concerned if they’ve a high temperature, continuous cough and other covid symptoms . Sorry this probably isn’t really relevant to the thread I just feel so annoyed