She's totally missed the mark on her stories, and she's obviously fine if that's her interpretation and she thinks she has to defend him. Anyone suggesting that her kids aren't safe around him are not comparing her children to a (potentially) diseased bird. It's the fact that he intentionally did something she asked him not to do, and was so calculated and cruel about it, knowing full well how it would affect her and her kids, WHO WERE THERE. He's absolutely someone she should be concerned about leaving with her kids. She has already made it known that he treats them awfully, and he blatantly favours his sons and Raja over her other kids. He's acknowledged that he does it. He's been caught driving methed up with her kids in the car...and that was just the time he got caught. What is there even to defend about this man? I can't even fathom why she is with him.