anybody else doing this?
50/50 here but I feel like I do most of the parenting and he gets to be a fun Dad and commended for ‘stepping up’.
I go periods of being ok and then times where I just find it so so hard sharing my children with somebody who just have totally different outlooks.
I know I need to just let go because I can’t control what happens when they are not with me.
I just worry about the effect it has on my children and lessons they are learning. Learning to use the other parent to get what they want if one says no for example. Becoming ‘spoilt’ and materialistic.
50/50 here but I feel like I do most of the parenting and he gets to be a fun Dad and commended for ‘stepping up’.
I go periods of being ok and then times where I just find it so so hard sharing my children with somebody who just have totally different outlooks.
I know I need to just let go because I can’t control what happens when they are not with me.
I just worry about the effect it has on my children and lessons they are learning. Learning to use the other parent to get what they want if one says no for example. Becoming ‘spoilt’ and materialistic.