I've got three grown up children now - so they get £100 each plus a stocking of between £25-£50, depending on what I can find. I usually look on hotukdeals throughout the year and get them something electrical and then pants, socks, smellies etc.
Mum and FIL - approx £25 each and great nieces/ nephews approx £10-£15 each (x6) Granddaughter overseas usually about £40-50 but the shipping costs can be another £30!
Partner approx £100 and Brother just a token gift approx £15
I tried the Edit this on the end of my post but ran out of time - so I'll put it here...lol!
When the kids were younger, we did buy them a Wii console between them when it first came out but after that, we did manage to get them each the consoles they wanted as they came out. I think the final one we paid for was a PS4 but my Son had to put his own Birthday money towards that too, so we paid about 2/3rds. The console years, they didn't have any little extras at all
We've always scrimped and struggled with money, so apart from a few little bits and bobs, most of the stocking fillers were useful things rather than lots of little things that they wouldn't look twice at after Christmas day (I learnt the hard way in the early years and felt so disheartened when things stayed under the bed gathering dust). Stockings always include a chocolate orange and some shower gel though!
Compared to a lot of their friends they didn't get lots of stuff but I asked them the other day if they ever felt they missed out and they genuinely seem to think they did pretty well over the years and never felt they didn't have what they wanted. My Eldest (now 23) says it's all about the food and the party games! Oh yes, we do a throw the parcel game where we have approx 15 gifts (one of them is always a toilet roll, so you don't want to get that) and you all have to try and grab each others prizes and swap them for your own and that is still their favourite party game!
Mum and FIL - approx £25 each and great nieces/ nephews approx £10-£15 each (x6) Granddaughter overseas usually about £40-50 but the shipping costs can be another £30!
Partner approx £100 and Brother just a token gift approx £15
I tried the Edit this on the end of my post but ran out of time - so I'll put it here...lol!
When the kids were younger, we did buy them a Wii console between them when it first came out but after that, we did manage to get them each the consoles they wanted as they came out. I think the final one we paid for was a PS4 but my Son had to put his own Birthday money towards that too, so we paid about 2/3rds. The console years, they didn't have any little extras at all
We've always scrimped and struggled with money, so apart from a few little bits and bobs, most of the stocking fillers were useful things rather than lots of little things that they wouldn't look twice at after Christmas day (I learnt the hard way in the early years and felt so disheartened when things stayed under the bed gathering dust). Stockings always include a chocolate orange and some shower gel though!
Compared to a lot of their friends they didn't get lots of stuff but I asked them the other day if they ever felt they missed out and they genuinely seem to think they did pretty well over the years and never felt they didn't have what they wanted. My Eldest (now 23) says it's all about the food and the party games! Oh yes, we do a throw the parcel game where we have approx 15 gifts (one of them is always a toilet roll, so you don't want to get that) and you all have to try and grab each others prizes and swap them for your own and that is still their favourite party game!
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They’d asked for a mattress topper but when we discovered their mattress was over 20 years old and absolutely knackered we thought it was pointless just putting a topper on it. 
You’re better off saving the money than buy for no reason. If I was getting anything it’d be a keepsake like maybe a Christmas ornament with 1st Christmas on it or a personalised stocking or something like that that has sentimental value and can be used for a long time
Saving for a longer maternity leave is so much more special!
Since Covid, I have come to realise its not about the material things - you can’t take any of that stuff with u when u pass away - and it is more about the time spent together etc. So I think I will try handmade gifts or restaurant/shop vouchers this time round.