I am in a different state to her I think, but I find it incredibly hard to believe she is as uneducated as she is, and it has to be wilful ignorance. Our healthcare in Aus is amazing and I have a child with CF, we received so much education and in the beginning of her life we had a nurse visit weekly and frequent paediatrician appts. I also find it bizarre about how flippant she was if they knew they were both carriers. My husband and I had no idea we were carriers, had no family history and fell pregnant before the bulk billed genetic testing was available so it was just bad luck. I don’t think we will have another child unless we go through IVF which is still very expensive. There is no way I would want to risk bringing another CFer into the world. Yes the medicine has advanced greatly, but they still go through such hard times. I would never willingly put a child through that.