Rainbow drops
2 Wham bars
1 freddo
10 flying saucers
10 pink & blue bottles
10 cherries
10 cola bottles
10 fried eggs
2 Wham bars
1 freddo
10 flying saucers
10 pink & blue bottles
10 cherries
10 cola bottles
10 fried eggs
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I shower twice a day most days so no idea why mr peaches was making out like I was proper minging this morning 
I hate washing my hair though. Currently I don’t have dyed hair but I’m hoping to make a change in the next few weeks. I’m proper bored with my look.
today has been awful I feel like a broken record banging on about these chicken pox but they’re truly awful. Little peaches cries approx every half hour saying he just wants them to go away.
Anyway I’m having my fav dinner tonight which is super noodles cos that’s all I can be bothered for
I hate washing my hair though. Currently I don’t have dyed hair but I’m hoping to make a change in the next few weeks. I’m proper bored with my look. today has been awful I feel like a broken record banging on about these chicken pox but they’re truly awful. Little peaches cries approx every half hour saying he just wants them to go away.
Anyway I’m having my fav dinner tonight which is super noodles cos that’s all I can be bothered for
Aww poor little Peaches, hopefully tomorrow is better for him.
Got to be a soft and gooey cookie 
. I've had a cheeky McDonalds for dinner I shell start eating better next week.
. I've had a cheeky McDonalds for dinner I shell start eating better next week.
I’d get a wham bar and a toxic waste then spend the last 40p on a mix of the 1p ones apart from flying saucers
For the sweets I’d have a mars delight, the frosties sweets, millions, and the last 20p on all the 1p ones!
Anyone remember flake moments…and white after eights….and the fizzy tango sweets…? Those where my fave…as well as them strawberry sweets from Woolworths pick and mix…I remember me and my brother nicked some and my mother made us go back and return them…except one, that she kept and ate herself 
that's too much math for me so i'll go with 100 cola bottles
Happy belated birthday @Belle Amie. 
I hope little Peaches feels better soon.
Puppy Wilma is so cute! You must be so happy @WilmaHun.
@Rxt156 Haven’t caught up on this new thread yet but I hope the baby and you are doing lovely.
Long dating anxiety rant, advice needed/welcome.
Sorry for the very long rant. I needed to share with people I trust and can count on. I wanted to make sure that I wasn’t going insane or I didn’t overstep or go crazy. I’d be really gutted if I messed up because I’ve been taking things slowly and everything has been lovely with this guy so far.
I hope little Peaches feels better soon.
Puppy Wilma is so cute! You must be so happy @WilmaHun.
@Rxt156 Haven’t caught up on this new thread yet but I hope the baby and you are doing lovely.
Long dating anxiety rant, advice needed/welcome.
I got tattle knackered for the first time since October. It was pretty good and a lot of snuggles followed. But I am feeling weirdly depressed and anxious and ashamed. I had a little chat with the guy about how I don’t want to rush into things but I’d like to only have one sexual partner at a time and I want to take things slowly but sincerely etc., and he said he’s on the same page.
We’ve established that we are dating (have been seeing each other for a month now) but we want to not be attached at the hips and rush in too fast. Both him and I had previous relationships where our ex partners became really controlling. We want to make sure that there’d be time for our careers and friends this time round. Anyways, my anxiety kicked in and I felt the need to clarify how much communication I wanted in between dates. So, I proceeded to have a little chat about texting as well - basically let’s not text each other during work hours to give space but I do like hearing from him and vice versa so let’s try to keep in touch once a day or every other day.
The first convo about exclusive but taking things slow really went well. But the second convo, although it lasted like three minutes, I felt like I was being awkward and unnecessarily communicating. And I’ve been feeling so anxious and depressed about bringing it up since then. When I walked him to the front door, he said he had a fun time this weekend (first time staying overnight, from Saturday afternoon until Sunday afternoon) and that we will keep in touch and he will plan something for us to do for our next date.
In my mind, I can’t help but fear that I brought up too much too fast and I’m scared that I might have scared him off. I think I am also feeling very vulnerable that I had sex and I invited him over to my place overnight. He’s the first man to stay overnight in my apartment since I moved here in 2020. Not even my ex has stayed over. I’m the type of person who really sees my home as a sacred space so it takes a lot for me to invite someone over. I really like this guy and felt comfortable having him around and I want to have him around again and have things progress naturally. Just really nervous and anxious if I shot myself in the foot with the texting pace conversation.
The weekend was lovely though, we both pulled our back muscles over the past two weeks so we decided to have an indoors date for the first time. We had cake (made strawberry shortcake) and then we chatted. Watched a movie, went out for dinner, came home, drank wine and watched another movie. Snuggled to sleep, woke up and got tattle knackered, we had the exclusive chat, he cooked me lunch, we had the text chat, and then we wrapped up the date. I’m supposed to go Frisbee golfing with his friends next Saturday. He invited me very nicely on Friday (before we had the chats) and I said yes. I’m now worried if I ducked up and came off uncool. I hope I am still invited.
We’ve established that we are dating (have been seeing each other for a month now) but we want to not be attached at the hips and rush in too fast. Both him and I had previous relationships where our ex partners became really controlling. We want to make sure that there’d be time for our careers and friends this time round. Anyways, my anxiety kicked in and I felt the need to clarify how much communication I wanted in between dates. So, I proceeded to have a little chat about texting as well - basically let’s not text each other during work hours to give space but I do like hearing from him and vice versa so let’s try to keep in touch once a day or every other day.
The first convo about exclusive but taking things slow really went well. But the second convo, although it lasted like three minutes, I felt like I was being awkward and unnecessarily communicating. And I’ve been feeling so anxious and depressed about bringing it up since then. When I walked him to the front door, he said he had a fun time this weekend (first time staying overnight, from Saturday afternoon until Sunday afternoon) and that we will keep in touch and he will plan something for us to do for our next date.
In my mind, I can’t help but fear that I brought up too much too fast and I’m scared that I might have scared him off. I think I am also feeling very vulnerable that I had sex and I invited him over to my place overnight. He’s the first man to stay overnight in my apartment since I moved here in 2020. Not even my ex has stayed over. I’m the type of person who really sees my home as a sacred space so it takes a lot for me to invite someone over. I really like this guy and felt comfortable having him around and I want to have him around again and have things progress naturally. Just really nervous and anxious if I shot myself in the foot with the texting pace conversation.
The weekend was lovely though, we both pulled our back muscles over the past two weeks so we decided to have an indoors date for the first time. We had cake (made strawberry shortcake) and then we chatted. Watched a movie, went out for dinner, came home, drank wine and watched another movie. Snuggled to sleep, woke up and got tattle knackered, we had the exclusive chat, he cooked me lunch, we had the text chat, and then we wrapped up the date. I’m supposed to go Frisbee golfing with his friends next Saturday. He invited me very nicely on Friday (before we had the chats) and I said yes. I’m now worried if I ducked up and came off uncool. I hope I am still invited.
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@justmeandmycat i know when you suffer with anxiety it’s easier said than done, but try not to over think things. It sounds like you are a little bit; from what you’ve described he sounds good! You’ve been honest with him and made your boundaries clear, and well done for doing that! It’s important you only move at a pace you’re comfortable with, so by telling him early on I think you’ve done the best thing. Take things slow, don’t over think everything and just see what happens. If it gets too much for you, don’t be afraid to say! If he’s worth it and a good guy then he will understand and be more than happy to work at your comfortable pace. If he isn’t happy to work at your pace then he wasn’t suitable for you anyway! I hope it works out for you x
Long dating anxiety rant, advice needed/welcome.
Sorry for the very long rant. I needed to share with people I trust and can count on. I wanted to make sure that I wasn’t going insane or I didn’t overstep or go crazy. I’d be really gutted if I messed up because I’ve been taking things slowly and everything has been lovely with this guy so far.I got tattle knackered for the first time since October. It was pretty good and a lot of snuggles followed. But I am feeling weirdly depressed and anxious and ashamed. I had a little chat with the guy about how I don’t want to rush into things but I’d like to only have one sexual partner at a time and I want to take things slowly but sincerely etc., and he said he’s on the same page.
We’ve established that we are dating (have been seeing each other for a month now) but we want to not be attached at the hips and rush in too fast. Both him and I had previous relationships where our ex partners became really controlling. We want to make sure that there’d be time for our careers and friends this time round. Anyways, my anxiety kicked in and I felt the need to clarify how much communication I wanted in between dates. So, I proceeded to have a little chat about texting as well - basically let’s not text each other during work hours to give space but I do like hearing from him and vice versa so let’s try to keep in touch once a day or every other day.
The first convo about exclusive but taking things slow really went well. But the second convo, although it lasted like three minutes, I felt like I was being awkward and unnecessarily communicating. And I’ve been feeling so anxious and depressed about bringing it up since then. When I walked him to the front door, he said he had a fun time this weekend (first time staying overnight, from Saturday afternoon until Sunday afternoon) and that we will keep in touch and he will plan something for us to do for our next date.
In my mind, I can’t help but fear that I brought up too much too fast and I’m scared that I might have scared him off. I think I am also feeling very vulnerable that I had sex and I invited him over to my place overnight. He’s the first man to stay overnight in my apartment since I moved here in 2020. Not even my ex has stayed over. I’m the type of person who really sees my home as a sacred space so it takes a lot for me to invite someone over. I really like this guy and felt comfortable having him around and I want to have him around again and have things progress naturally. Just really nervous and anxious if I shot myself in the foot with the texting pace conversation.
The weekend was lovely though, we both pulled our back muscles over the past two weeks so we decided to have an indoors date for the first time. We had cake (made strawberry shortcake) and then we chatted. Watched a movie, went out for dinner, came home, drank wine and watched another movie. Snuggled to sleep, woke up and got tattle knackered, we had the exclusive chat, he cooked me lunch, we had the text chat, and then we wrapped up the date. I’m supposed to go Frisbee golfing with his friends next Saturday. He invited me very nicely on Friday (before we had the chats) and I said yes. I’m now worried if I ducked up and came off uncool. I hope I am still invited.
I would say this is definitely your mind just going into overdrive and overthinking. Boundaries are so important, and for them to be set right at the start is even more important. It’s imperative you only move forward with relationships at a pace that is suitable and works for you both, especially when you’ve had bad experiences in the past. I am doing this exact thing and we are both happy to go at the pace that suits me due to bad experiences, and that’s exactly how it should be! If you feel a certain way about something, I would suggest talking to him for some reassurance. I am someone that doesn’t overthink but with the person I have just started seeing, it happens often. I talked to him about it and he said “all you need to do is ask if something doesn’t feel right” and a little more - essentially saying don’t sit on it and think, just ask. If it gets too much for you, I would definitely suggest talking to him about it x
@WilmaHun we basically said the exact same thing lol
@WilmaHun @xx3221 Thank you both so much for responding. I have been having a mini anxiety attack since the evening. Forced myself to sleep and then now I’m awake nervous. I feel like I communicated my boundaries but at the same time, I feel like I’m being such a drag and a nag because first time having sex should be great and happy, but I had to bring up such talks. The date went really well outside of it. So, I will try to not go into overdrive. I am really scared if I ducked up. I will try and decompress the next two days or so and hopefully, my anxiety will go down. Thank you again for talking to me.
I’m already 26. I am still tit at socializing. I am so scared if my anxiety might not allow me to find my special someone. I hate it so much.
I’m already 26. I am still tit at socializing. I am so scared if my anxiety might not allow me to find my special someone. I hate it so much.
good morning everyone! 
i'm in the car with my boss on the way to another day trip for inspections and meetings
@justmeandmycat sorry for not responding i can't read now but definitely will later!
as much as i'd never do it if i don't have to, i love getting up at 5 am when the world is quiet
i'm in the car with my boss on the way to another day trip for inspections and meetings
@justmeandmycat sorry for not responding i can't read now but definitely will later!
as much as i'd never do it if i don't have to, i love getting up at 5 am when the world is quiet
don’t allow your age to make you feel pressured like you need to be doing something now. I am also 26, and I can relate to the feeling that I’m not where I’m supposed to be, but someone whose opinion really matters to me once told me that I should just trust the timing of my own life, just because some people are already doing certain things doesn’t mean I should be too. We all have our own paths to follow and things will happen when they’re supposed to. I am also tit at socialising, anxiety gets to me too. But don’t allow it to consume you. Your special person will come along, and it may just be when you least expect it@WilmaHun @xx3221 Thank you both so much for responding. I have been having a mini anxiety attack since the evening. Forced myself to sleep and then now I’m awake nervous. I feel like I communicated my boundaries but at the same time, I feel like I’m being such a drag and a nag because first time having sex should be great and happy, but I had to bring up such talks. The date went really well outside of it. So, I will try to not go into overdrive. I am really scared if I ducked up. I will try and decompress the next two days or so and hopefully, my anxiety will go down. Thank you again for talking to me.
I’m already 26. I am still tit at socializing. I am so scared if my anxiety might not allow me to find my special someone. I hate it so much.
@justmeandmycat
It’s soo much easier said than done but try to relaaxxxxx! I am sure that it is all fine and they may just be respecting your boundaries etc
You can tell people what you want without actually telling them EG if you don’t want to text all day then you don’t have to reply if you’re busy. If someone texts me I will reply on my terms when I am ready. If you only want to see them every now and again you can say you have plans but you are free on X day.
You are the queen you are in charge
. The worst thing you can do is change your expectations/wants/needs in a relationship for someone else
It’s soo much easier said than done but try to relaaxxxxx! I am sure that it is all fine and they may just be respecting your boundaries etc
You can tell people what you want without actually telling them EG if you don’t want to text all day then you don’t have to reply if you’re busy. If someone texts me I will reply on my terms when I am ready. If you only want to see them every now and again you can say you have plans but you are free on X day.
You are the queen you are in charge
. The worst thing you can do is change your expectations/wants/needs in a relationship for someone else
Morning guys! I don’t know why I’m writing this probs just cos I need somewhere to release but I just feel so…. Depressed… the last week or so my anxiety has just been awful and I’ve been really hard on myself. I feel like everyone hates me, I feel like everyone judges me, I feel like everyone just thinks I’m a boring sack of rit. On here and in real life too. I don’t want to go anywhere cos I think everyone doesn’t like me/is judging me. Even when I go on walks/to the shops I feel like everyone is looking at me and judging me for just being me/how I look. I won’t go round to my boyfriends family cos I feel like they don’t like me/judge me. Even when I do the whole time I’m there I’m just paranoid. Even on here I’ll go to post and i just think everyone on this thread doesn’t like me, I sound stupid, everyone is judging me. That’s why I stayed away for a few days just cos everything I was thinking about writing I thought just sounded stupid or I thought everyone just didn’t like me in general. But then I felt left out and joined back in but the everyone hates me feeling was still there. I just feel miserable and drained and I don’t know why. I’m due on but it’s not usually this bad lol. I just needed somewhere to vent. Sorry for being a downer on this sunny Monday morning hope you all have a good day
Sorry you have been feeling like this. If it helps I think you are the life and soul of this thread and the time you were away it was quiet and everyone noticed the thread was moving slllooowwww!! I bet it is exactly the same in real life where you don’t see your own worth but everyone else sees it 10x overMorning guys! I don’t know why I’m writing this probs just cos I need somewhere to release but I just feel so…. Depressed… the last week or so my anxiety has just been awful and I’ve been really hard on myself. I feel like everyone hates me, I feel like everyone judges me, I feel like everyone just thinks I’m a boring sack of rit. On here and in real life too. I don’t want to go anywhere cos I think everyone doesn’t like me/is judging me. Even when I go on walks/to the shops I feel like everyone is looking at me and judging me for just being me/how I look. I won’t go round to my boyfriends family cos I feel like they don’t like me/judge me. Even when I do the whole time I’m there I’m just paranoid. Even on here I’ll go to post and i just think everyone on this thread doesn’t like me, I sound stupid, everyone is judging me. That’s why I stayed away for a few days just cos everything I was thinking about writing I thought just sounded stupid or I thought everyone just didn’t like me in general. But then I felt left out and joined back in but the everyone hates me feeling was still there. I just feel miserable and drained and I don’t know why. I’m due on but it’s not usually this bad lol. I just needed somewhere to vent. Sorry for being a downer on this sunny Monday morning hope you all have a good day
Morning all, Sorry you are feeling like that @watermelon sugar depression is terrible and makes you feel all kinds of things BUT one thing I can tell you is NO ONE hates you or is judging you, most people are so wrapped up in themselves they wont think twice about a stranger etc and on here NONE OF US hates you I think you are fab and always bring fun and penises to the chat. The thread isn't the same when you don't post (no offence everyone)
The thread isn't the same when you don't post (no offence everyone)
@watermelon sugar I’m sorry you’re feeling like this we love you and I’m sure your ‘real life’ friends and family do too, more than you know. I can’t imagine anyone thinking you’re boring and anyone judging you would have us silly witches to answer to. I missed you loads while you were away
we love you and I’m sure your ‘real life’ friends and family do too, more than you know. I can’t imagine anyone thinking you’re boring and anyone judging you would have us silly witches to answer to. I missed you loads while you were away @watermelon sugar i hear you! I really dislike myself so presume everybody else dislikes me too. It's exhausting. But you are genuinely one of the loveliest funniest people ever
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